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Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:05am On Apr 01, 2013
It’s true. Men don’t only want sex in the
relationship.
Most of the women mistakenly believe that, for
making a man happy, they need to provide sex. A
lot of sex. Because, according to them, sex is the
only thing that keeps a man interested in them.
Well, I have a question here for those women. If sex
is the only thing that keeps a man inte......reste d
in a woman then, why there are millions of
breakups every year? Why thousands of books are
published on relationship issues? And, why
marriage counseling has become a rich business?
Surprisingly, there is one interesting statistic which
shows that around 84% of women have sex to
make their man to do more things according to
their wishes. Now, if we look at this statistic from
another perspective, then it clearly shows that sex
isn’t everything. Most of the women are constantly
providing sex to their man, but they are still facing
problems in their relationship. Their man is still
leaving them for another woman, or taking no
interest in the relationship.
In a way, this statistic clearly proves that sex isn’t
everything. And, men don’t only want sex in the
relationship… Sex doesn’t make a man love you,
and It doesn’t connect your man with you on a
deep emotional level.
Sex is not what he wants, it’s what he needs. Most
of the women mistakenly assume that for making a
man fall in love with them, they only need to
provide sex. Those women don’t get that, like food
and sleep, men need sex on a constant basis. Sex
is their need. It’s not what they want. It’s
impossible to ignite the feelings of love in their
hearts through sex.
That’s why, for keeping a man in love, you need to
fulfill his wants. His wants are connected with his
emotional side. Once you fulfill his wants, you
dominate his feelings completely and keep him by
your side forever.
Now, I am not saying that sex has no importance.
Of course, it has immense importance. But, all I am
saying is that you shouldn’t solely focus on the sex
for making your relationship happy. You need to
focus on those areas too that keep the love alive in
the heart of your man and create feelings of
warmth and love in the relationship.
If you are thinking what else men want in a
relationship, and what keeps them in love, then let
me tell you.
It’s your “Rich Mind”.
A man always wants a rich minded woman in his
life. Because, a woman with a rich mind creates an
independent life. She knows that happiness, love,
and romance are independent things. They can be
created anytime and anywhere. And, she doesn’t
need money, or some specific situations, for
bringing these things into her relationship.
Therefore, she gleans the best moments of her life.
She focuses on creating happy patterns in the
relationship. She upgrades her life, and her
relationship, continuously. She finds happiness in
the moments of progress, and doesn’t wait for
some specific time.
According to her, “You get more of what you focus
on.” So, she completely focuses on positivity and
happiness. She values what she already has. And,
as a result, she feels rich from inside. She enjoys
every moment. And, a positive, happy aura always
surrounds her.
And, men feel this!
They are always attracted to this kind of rich
minded woman.
If you notice romantic movies closely, you’ll get
that the heroine always has a rich mind. She’s a
symbol of positivity and happiness. The writers, and
the movie directors, put a magical spark in her
personality by showing her ‘Rich Mind’. And,
consequently, men live for that spark.
When she appears, love touches the skies,
happiness beams brightly, and sex happens with
the highest intensity. And, viewers (men) fall in
love with her totally.
So “Act like how you want to be. Feel like how you
want to feel. Focus on the positive side of your
relationship. Glean the happy moments of your
relationship. Be thankful for everything you already
have. Enjoy the taste of your coffee. Hear the
beautiful chirps of birds. Laugh with open heart on
silly moments. Smile often. And, become a
mellifluous lady.”
Just remember, it all starts in the mind. If your
mind is positive, happy, and grateful, then it means
your mind is rich, and you’ll attract your man
incessantly. He’ll become romantic. He’ll start
respecting you. And, he’ll always make an effort to
make you happy.
The honest emotions of love will emerge. Sex will
become meaningful. And, the spark of the
relationship will never fizzle.

Enjoy ur easter friends

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Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by sKeetz(m): 11:52am On Apr 01, 2013
*yawns* do you expect me to read that epistle
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 12:10pm On Apr 01, 2013
sKeetz: *yawns* do you expect me to read that epistle

You are a very lazy student! I expect you to carry the course over angry
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by ikechukz(m): 7:26pm On Apr 01, 2013
Sorry bro.I think you are alone on this one because I don't think the guys agree with you.
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Desloaaa(f): 9:59pm On Apr 01, 2013
Ijele-igbo:


You are a very lazy student! I expect you to carry the course over angry
sex 101.
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by jstringz(m): 10:54pm On Apr 01, 2013
Yawns heavily**
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Uch74(m): 10:57pm On Apr 01, 2013
Abeg next topic! undecided
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:58pm On Apr 01, 2013
Desloaaa:
sex 101.
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by obyikye(f): 11:37pm On Apr 01, 2013
waoh, lovely piece!
keep it writer, I learnt from this. Nice write up bro...
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:59pm On Apr 01, 2013
obyikye: waoh, lovely piece!
keep it writer, I learnt from this. Nice write up bro...

cheesy Thanks!
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by chikeorji123(m): 12:08am On Apr 02, 2013
Op
1000likes..
l have this lady who thought all she can provide was her body..smart idea =0,intelligent =0..sports issues =0..politics nothing..history for were?..infact l discovered if move ahead with this girl all she can offer..sex,bearing babies and cooking..though she's beautiful ehee na finest l go chop?..infact l piss off...
for me someone that can challenge your ideas..not watching kindershians..

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Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by sKeetz(m): 12:41am On Apr 02, 2013
Ijele-igbo:


You are a very lazy student! I expect you to carry the course over angry
Don't tell me nonsense!! undecided
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by dowjones(m): 12:10am On Apr 03, 2013
@OP, your post is tooo luongg
Anyways, men dont want only sex, everybody know this except women thats why the ones to give it think dropping a$$ is the holy grail while the virigin idiots think preserving it keeps them safe from impending doom !
Men want companionship, a good laugh and stimulating conversations...sex is just icing on the cake !
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by babadey(m): 8:15am On Apr 03, 2013
Did u do summary in school or your english teacher diedundecided ?. This isht is too long but I think what u trying to say by ur topic is -men are not or do not only want sex....yep true talk.

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