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Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:05am On Apr 01, 2013 |
It’s true. Men don’t only want sex in the relationship. Most of the women mistakenly believe that, for making a man happy, they need to provide sex. A lot of sex. Because, according to them, sex is the only thing that keeps a man interested in them. Well, I have a question here for those women. If sex is the only thing that keeps a man inte......reste d in a woman then, why there are millions of breakups every year? Why thousands of books are published on relationship issues? And, why marriage counseling has become a rich business? Surprisingly, there is one interesting statistic which shows that around 84% of women have sex to make their man to do more things according to their wishes. Now, if we look at this statistic from another perspective, then it clearly shows that sex isn’t everything. Most of the women are constantly providing sex to their man, but they are still facing problems in their relationship. Their man is still leaving them for another woman, or taking no interest in the relationship. In a way, this statistic clearly proves that sex isn’t everything. And, men don’t only want sex in the relationship… Sex doesn’t make a man love you, and It doesn’t connect your man with you on a deep emotional level. Sex is not what he wants, it’s what he needs. Most of the women mistakenly assume that for making a man fall in love with them, they only need to provide sex. Those women don’t get that, like food and sleep, men need sex on a constant basis. Sex is their need. It’s not what they want. It’s impossible to ignite the feelings of love in their hearts through sex. That’s why, for keeping a man in love, you need to fulfill his wants. His wants are connected with his emotional side. Once you fulfill his wants, you dominate his feelings completely and keep him by your side forever. Now, I am not saying that sex has no importance. Of course, it has immense importance. But, all I am saying is that you shouldn’t solely focus on the sex for making your relationship happy. You need to focus on those areas too that keep the love alive in the heart of your man and create feelings of warmth and love in the relationship. If you are thinking what else men want in a relationship, and what keeps them in love, then let me tell you. It’s your “Rich Mind”. A man always wants a rich minded woman in his life. Because, a woman with a rich mind creates an independent life. She knows that happiness, love, and romance are independent things. They can be created anytime and anywhere. And, she doesn’t need money, or some specific situations, for bringing these things into her relationship. Therefore, she gleans the best moments of her life. She focuses on creating happy patterns in the relationship. She upgrades her life, and her relationship, continuously. She finds happiness in the moments of progress, and doesn’t wait for some specific time. According to her, “You get more of what you focus on.” So, she completely focuses on positivity and happiness. She values what she already has. And, as a result, she feels rich from inside. She enjoys every moment. And, a positive, happy aura always surrounds her. And, men feel this! They are always attracted to this kind of rich minded woman. If you notice romantic movies closely, you’ll get that the heroine always has a rich mind. She’s a symbol of positivity and happiness. The writers, and the movie directors, put a magical spark in her personality by showing her ‘Rich Mind’. And, consequently, men live for that spark. When she appears, love touches the skies, happiness beams brightly, and sex happens with the highest intensity. And, viewers (men) fall in love with her totally. So “Act like how you want to be. Feel like how you want to feel. Focus on the positive side of your relationship. Glean the happy moments of your relationship. Be thankful for everything you already have. Enjoy the taste of your coffee. Hear the beautiful chirps of birds. Laugh with open heart on silly moments. Smile often. And, become a mellifluous lady.” Just remember, it all starts in the mind. If your mind is positive, happy, and grateful, then it means your mind is rich, and you’ll attract your man incessantly. He’ll become romantic. He’ll start respecting you. And, he’ll always make an effort to make you happy. The honest emotions of love will emerge. Sex will become meaningful. And, the spark of the relationship will never fizzle. Enjoy ur easter friends 2 Likes |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by sKeetz(m): 11:52am On Apr 01, 2013 |
*yawns* do you expect me to read that epistle |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 12:10pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
sKeetz: *yawns* do you expect me to read that epistle You are a very lazy student! I expect you to carry the course over |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by ikechukz(m): 7:26pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Sorry bro.I think you are alone on this one because I don't think the guys agree with you. |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Desloaaa(f): 9:59pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:sex 101. |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by jstringz(m): 10:54pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Yawns heavily** |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Uch74(m): 10:57pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Abeg next topic! |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:58pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Desloaaa: |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by obyikye(f): 11:37pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
waoh, lovely piece! keep it writer, I learnt from this. Nice write up bro... |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:59pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
obyikye: waoh, lovely piece! Thanks! |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by chikeorji123(m): 12:08am On Apr 02, 2013 |
Op 1000likes.. l have this lady who thought all she can provide was her body..smart idea =0,intelligent =0..sports issues =0..politics nothing..history for were?..infact l discovered if move ahead with this girl all she can offer..sex,bearing babies and cooking..though she's beautiful ehee na finest l go chop?..infact l piss off... for me someone that can challenge your ideas..not watching kindershians.. 1 Like |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by sKeetz(m): 12:41am On Apr 02, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:Don't tell me nonsense!! |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by dowjones(m): 12:10am On Apr 03, 2013 |
@OP, your post is tooo luongg Anyways, men dont want only sex, everybody know this except women thats why the ones to give it think dropping a$$ is the holy grail while the virigin idiots think preserving it keeps them safe from impending doom ! Men want companionship, a good laugh and stimulating conversations...sex is just icing on the cake ! |
Re: Men Don't Only Want Sex!!! by babadey(m): 8:15am On Apr 03, 2013 |
Did u do summary in school or your english teacher died ?. This isht is too long but I think what u trying to say by ur topic is -men are not or do not only want sex....yep true talk. |
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