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Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by KateSpade(f): 6:03pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
1, 16 & 20. my downfall |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nobody: 6:03pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
some of the highlighted points by the op are noting moare than infatuations trust me ave been there..If you want to experience real love try 1cor 13. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nobody: 6:04pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
some of the highlighted points by the op are noting more than infatuations, trust me ave been there..If you want to experience real love try 1cor 13. 1 Like |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by tony1980: 6:07pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
You are absolutely correct,my dear.Too much of everything is bad. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Inca(m): 6:09pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Could it be better reffered to as OCD. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I dont beleive its intentional but the victims just have to find a sweet distraction fast. Including moi. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Nuzo': Lmao... Same here, bro. - I-20 with no chaser... She was like that for the first 2 years, then I caught the bug the last year of the miserable relationship... After breaking the shackles of that miserable relationship, I run as fast as I can every time she calls my phone, or tries to make me go on a date with her... Gatts apply wisdom!! However, I still don't know if mine was "love" or just boredom and being too attached to the chic.. 1 Like |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Chitexs250(m): 6:12pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:.
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Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by neksummi(m): 6:17pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Interesting post. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nobody: 6:34pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
I'm in a relationship like this...about 18points...but I can't leave and I don't want to leave...I just hope it will all change and work out.. 1 Like |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Blesyn014(m): 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Chitexs250:must you post a comment *SMH* |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nnekacherry: 6:48pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Yea yea.. Too much of everything is bad.. People should learn how to apply caution.. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nnekacherry: 6:55pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
BraideBraide: I'm in a relationship like this...about 18points...but I can't leave and I don't want to leave...I just hope it will all change and work out.. You dont want to leave because you love him too much.. Babe that relationship is unhealthy.. Very unhealthy.. I sugest you start thinking of what to do or how to balance it.. If not.. He will continue taking you for granted.. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by azariahm: 7:00pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Nuzo':I Feel U.. It Hurts so much, like u hv a hole in ur heart |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by FXKing2012(m): 7:03pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
KateSpade: 1, 16 & 20. my downfallSorry . |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Egbagirl(f): 7:18pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Love or obsession/foolishness? Is it possible to love too much? I don't think so. If you really did love the person, you wouldn't do or feel all of the above. 2 Likes |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Decryptor(m): 7:18pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Nuzo':Me too. She seemed to reciprocate my feelings tho but i later found out that she was cheating. Had to back out though it was hard! Love is not ideal...it's over-rated! |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Lakayana: 7:20pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Love wan tin tin teenagers in our countryside called Nairaland continue we at viewing. We shall soon give our advice on how you should go about loving from the grand masters. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by chinnyonwu(m): 7:36pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Op, gimme guage to measure who love passs for 2 of us. BS |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Egba girl: Love or obsession/foolishness? Is it possible to love too much? I don't think so. If you really did love the person, you wouldn't do or feel all of the above. Hiya sis, are you sure?? 1-20 happened to me and I'm darn sure it wasn't obsession... It was a case of a long-time friend I never planned to go with, however I had to ask her out after smashing and she kept playing emotional blackmail on my psyche(that's my weak point and she knew that as well)...She continued the emotional blackmail thing on me for like 2 years cos I wasn't really interested in the darn relationship... and I also wasn't mentally ready for that type of relationship at the time... Anyway, cos she was nice girl - I ended up doing 1-20(in the opening post) in the last one year of the miserable relationship... till I got myself together and moved on... Can you explain if mine was obsession, being to emotionally attached to the girl, or love I've been trying to figure that out for the last 2 yrs bu all to no avail... hence why I've also been running away from relationships... Because what happened in that relationship was so unlike me - it was so surreal that I thought she prob. used voodoo on me or something... Thanks in advance... |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by MANOSUB(m): 8:01pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Nice post there Op. Its always good to take things slow n steady. I have experienced something like this before and i dnt regret bcus i learnth something out of it. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by mamiel: 8:05pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
I tink al d signs d op mentioned are not necessarily pointers that one is a lone lover in dis game of two cos all his points, on d contrary, are actually a demonstration of how true love is played out. The issue,therefore is with d partner. So when u see all of these signs wh d op pointed out in u, it doesn't mean u are 'stupidly in love', rather it means ur partner is simply not intrested in u or d rshp. I tink Joan Johnson -whose romance writeups I hav been studying carefully- wld share d same opinion with me |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by moshoodn(m): 8:19pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
TOOOOOO LONG... NA WA O.. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by avalontony(m): 8:25pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Boring!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by drealnamdy(m): 8:35pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Am guilty of almost all...and am stl guilty...want to really stop caring more n care less cos somtims I get sooo scared of loosin her...cos technically ..nuffin bothers her...Lord help me! I wanna stop caring n givin a crap about wat happens! And get my life togeda |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by nous(f): 8:48pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
mamiel: I tink al d signs d op mentioned are not necessarily pointers that one is a lone lover in dis game of two cos all his points, on d contrary, are actually a demonstration of how true love is played out. The issue,therefore is with d partner. So when u see all of these signs wh d op pointed out in u, it doesn't mean u are 'stupidly in love', rather it means ur partner is simply not intrested in u or d rshp. I tink Joan Johnson -whose romance writeups I hav been studying carefully- wld share d same opinion with me I agree with you. 1 Like |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by christygenius(f): 8:58pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
@ Op, its like u know exactly wat am going thru right now, infact all d signs u listed re wat am exhibiting.... It got an extent that i'll just delete his numbers and pix frm my phone to enable me reduce d amt of love i ve for him but its not working. And anytime he calls, i'll restore d number. I've even thought many atimes to just call him and end d relationship, bt each time i hear his voice, i'll just melt inside and forget everyting i want to say or d hurt am passing thru. I think am going crazy for dis guy, i just love him so much. May God help me oooo |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Abrantie: 9:05pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
There's a saying, "The one who loves the least, controls the relationship". So for if you want to have the upper hand in your relationship, appear to not give a shyt about it. 2 Likes |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Harmvirus(f): 9:17pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by zumarock8(m): 9:28pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
so true. |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nuzo1(m): 10:02pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
shymexx: Ahhh...even 'tough' guys still be mugu to some chicks. But seriously, be it love or boredom; the emotion is almost uncotrolable. Sad part is that people in this situation still have a lot of chicks/guys who feel this way towards them. And yet, they don't give a hoot. Its a vicious circle! 1 Like |
Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by Nobody: 10:38pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Nuzo': Bro., every tough guy has his weakness... Even superman had kryptonite... All I just wanted to do was beat an old chic that got away, but I ended up eating the forbidden fruit... Just be scared of quiet and intelligent chics esp. aries - they know how to work the ace on people who think they're invincible... This chic played me with emotional blackmail and tears for 2 yrs - and I didn't know she was studying my weakness by being a ride or die chic... Yo, she saw that she had the upper-hand - she fvcked me over... Tupac's music and zoobie saved my life... Heck, I had to go see a counsellor a few times as well... I've learned my lessons, anyway... And I'm wary of chics now - and I know being carefree in relationships is suicidal... The man has to hold the ace at all times... Hell yeah, it's a vicious cycle, bro... Don't ever get too attached to anyone, no matter how nice they're - you just have to keep a little distance and always look out for yourself first... Gatts apply wisdom... 1 Like |
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