Beync: All these signs and wonders na wah

Ijele-igbo:


signs and wonders are for unbelievers!

Beync: Who get time for all these signs and wonders u dey promote kwanu? talk something wey person won hear abeg if you won make ur ministry dey move forward.

Beync: Personal weting? i beg i no feet shout, plus i no sabi how to speak in tongues. what of the position of the treasurer, e dey vacant?

Beync: All these signs and wonders na wah

Ijele-igbo:


Na only General overseer and PA be signatory to church account! Treasurer office no dey active! Na so our constitution take be!!

Beync: No only signature person go chop? i like the position like that

nenergy: In addition; another sign is when you say i love you and they say; "yes, i know". #Scary

*in Celine Dion's voice*
The greatest thing you'll ever learn,is just to love and be loved in return.

Ijele-igbo:
When you love someone so much more than they
love you, you set the stage for that person to reject
you. It's like putting pressure on someone to eat
even though he or she is not hungry, and then
feeling bad about the person's inability to eat as
much as you want - YOUR FAULT, NOT THE
PERSON'S...
Well, here are some signs that you've crossed the
line between "loving" to "loving too much".

1. You felt empty and unloved before you met him
or her, but now you feel even emptier and
insecure.

2. You want to talk to him or her every few hours/
see him or her every few days but unlike you, he or
she is able to go for long periods of time without
talking to you or seeing you - and it doesn't seem
to bother him or her.

3. Most times - its either you're thinking - "he or
she loves me so much" or "it's all over, he/she is
not going to call."

4. Much of your day is consumed thinking of this
special person and developing strategies of what
you'll say or do (and when) to make him/her see
that you are meant for each other etc.

5. He or she seems extraordinarily independent and
this is driving you nuts. He or she even makes you
feel you could have sex with someone else and it
wouldn't matter.

6. One moment, you find yourself unable to hold
back from telling him or her that he or she is unfair,
selfish, insensitive, unmotivated etc and the next
moment you are professing your love and desire for
a committed relationship.

7. You live for his or her love - and in moments of
insecurity you try to squeeze out some words or
actions that reassure you that he or she loves you
and is there to stay - although deep inside you
know that putting pressure on him or her is the
worst thing to do.

8. You feel like you are getting mixed signals from
him or her (you probably are). One moment he or
she is open and wants to be close and the next, his
or her words and actions seem to say "I need my
space' or "leave me alone".

9. You're are trying so badly to please him or her,
and do things to show him or her that you are
deeply in love, and in the process losing yourself to
the point that you are becoming increasingly "too
serious' and"overly sensitive'.

10. You want to (and actually do) talk about the
relationship more than he or she wants to. And
many of your talks about the relationship leave you
feeling more insecure, unlovable and second-rate.

11. There is another man or woman in the picture -
and your man or woman can't seem to get him or
herself to end the relationship with that other man
or woman. You can see that he or she is genuinely
confused because he or she loves the other person
too - or more!

12. Your assessment of where the relationship is at
is different from his or hers - and when you point
this out, he or she says you are making him or her
feel pressured for something he or she can't give or
isn't ready for.

13. His or her life - professional and social - seems
so full that there is not much room for you. The
more you try to fit in, the more you feel like the
"outsider" and he or she is not doing much to
include you.

14. The last time you tried to back away a little to
try seeing things clearer, you couldn't even pull
that one through. You got so scared that a little
distance might end the relationship completely.

15. You have sex with him or her because you
think that's what he or she wants - you hope and
pray that the closeness of sex will bring the two of
closer to each other - but it only makes you feel
used.

16. You are constantly trying to see the negatives
of the relationship in positive light and focing
yourself to believe him or her - even when what he
or she is saying defies simple common sense.

17. You are obsessed with trying to interprete,
understand and clarify his or her every word and
action. You are constantly searching FB pages like
Sex Life for articles, asking friends and even
strangers what they think - does he or she love me
or not?

18. He or she is in total control of his or her feelings
and of the relationship. You are the powerless
clinger.

19. Your anxiety is on the high end - you are really
afraid that this relationship might end (and
expecting it to) anytime really soon.

20. There is a part of you that just wants to end it
all - wants him or her to leave so that you can
regain your lost power (feel normal again), yet you
are frightened of that too.
Loving too much is a relationship-killer!
Interestingly, most men and women end the
relationship with you, NOT BECAUSE THEY DO NOT
LOVE YOU BUT BECAUSE YOUR "TOO MUCH
LOVING" PLACES YOUR PARTNER UNDER SO MUCH
PRESSURE.
At the end, it all boils down to one simple fact -
"Too Much of Everything Is Bad - Even Love"
PERFECT IS BORING...

#Dr. Olu...

Ijele-igbo:


Think about your decision properly and get back to me ASAP in my hotel room No. 021.... Sheraton Hotels, Abuja

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