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Hear What Oprah Winfrey Had To Say About Men by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:40am On Apr 03, 2013
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If
he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you find what makes you truly happy. If a
relationship ends because
the man was not treating you as you deserve then
heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you
along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you
think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better. The only person you
can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn't marry them
when he got them pregnant, why would he treat
you any differently? Always have your own set of
friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in
how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will
use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.Change
comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is
more important than you are. Even if he has has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him
into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more
nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow
someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll
cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way
you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street. You need time to
heal between relationships.
There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with
your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two
WHOLE individuals. Look for someone
complimentary... not supplementary.
Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.
Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a
man always know where you are, and you're always
readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign
for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't
give you
everything that you need. Keep him in your radar
but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women
stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr.
Phil says... You
should know that: You're the best thing that could
ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you,
he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted
to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the
only one. They're all watching you, so you have a
lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care
of your own hearts...
Re: Hear What Oprah Winfrey Had To Say About Men by uhuns: 12:23pm On Apr 03, 2013
source. please.
remember the wise ones have agredthat the Best lies are sandwich btw truth. pls beware
Re: Hear What Oprah Winfrey Had To Say About Men by Ijeleigbo(m): 1:43pm On Apr 03, 2013
uhuns: source. please.
remember the wise ones have agredthat the Best lies are sandwich btw truth. pls beware

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