In this time and age, it's a normal thing for a woman to hide her investments, business deals or bank accounts from her husband. And also pretend not to have money whenever she's asked for any by her husband. We do have lot women who behave like that to their hubby. They do most of their stuff in secrecy nowadays. Some even build houses (in their own names), without telling their husband. And yet claim to be happily married.
All this would do more harm than good to your marriage. Cos by the time you and hubby start hiding things or your business deals from each other, both of you are laying the foundation for a broken home. You are not suppose to hide anything from each other if you truly love and respect each other. Imagine being a land lady elsewhere with two or more properties, while living as tenant with your hubby somewhere. isn't it ironic? You and your hubby are suppose to be one heart, and not separate hearts. We get married to become one. To love, cherish and also support each other. But nowadays, most wives are now becoming wiser, by having hidden bank accounts, or by being secretive with most of their business transactions. Some say they do it to protect their interest or that of their children. As if, the man is not part of the family or doesn't care about your kids as well. Even if you are married to a 'somehow' husband, it doesn't stop you from putting everything on the table and leaving God to take control.
Yeah, some men could be wasteful, extravagant or manipulated by their families. But its your duty as a wife to advise him, and also make him realize the importance of protecting his wife and their children, as well as saving for the future/investing for tomorrow. Women are generally known to be more prudent than men. Except for some few ones who lavish money endlessly on irrelevant stuff. When your man is derailing (financial/business wise), it's your duty as his wife/partner to put him in check and also steady the ship. Whatever he has, is yours, and whatever you have, is his. Nothing should be hidden. Everything should be made open. Cos you two are now one. And love is all about sharing...

Duty of the wife to put him in check...will he not be old enough to realise he is out of order Maybe he shouldn't be married if he is still like that

Are they being wiser or dubious?

I will hv 2 be honest in my analysis, 1st, permit me to blame women on something most of them hv nt been giving attention to. Most ladies (and even men) these days dnt really consider the success (future) of the marriage they are going into, they dnt prepare for marriage. All they do is learn abt fashion and trend then bham! they are 28, the pressures are coming in frm different directions, then they are married. If u can spend 4 yrs in d university learning how to count, manage and balance the account of money you might neva see or handle till death, y den shdnt u spend some years or months of ur live preparing for marriage.
The concept of “love and submission” is a necessary ingredient for a marriage to work (if u wanna struggle with ur marriage, pls argue with God abt it), but ova time it was discovered that love is a biased thing, u can only be sure that u love someone or nt, u can neva beat ur chest abt wat d oda person feels for u, when u commit ursef to a man, u shd submit ur totality, ur everytin, keeping away sometins as described by the poster means u are holding bak, so the question is, y get married to someone u can’t submit to?
I will say it again, feelings (what is generally called love) is not the paramount tin in marriage, there are so many oda things, love is jst one of them, bt media ( the devil) has brought so much confusion to the universe. Its nt as if most of these women didn’t love their husband frm the onset, its not like dey wanted to hide these things from their husbands frm the start, its nt lik dey didn’t want the success of the marriage, bt along the line in the journey of the marriage, most of them discovered these men are nt God fearing (let me out it dis way), so they become less submissive.
The koko is love with ur head nt wit ur heart, and prepare for marriage, don’t just jump into it.

mondi_cheeks: Duty of the wife to put him in check...will he not be old enough to realise he is out of order Maybe he shouldn't be married if he is still like that

So what exactly is the duty of the wife? Straff and bear children and cohabit? Smh.

fresh_dude: So what exactly is the duty of the wife? Straff and bear children and cohabit? Smh.

its definitely not doing what her husband's mother didn't do well, it requires the equal effort of 2pple to make it work, not one person pushing things to make them work.

mondi_cheeks: its definitely not doing what her husband's mother didn't do well, it requires the equal effort of 2pple to make it work, not one person pushing things to make them work.

Funny post. Good luck finding the perfectly raised perfect man to marry.

fresh_dude: Funny post. Good luck finding the perfectly raised perfect man to marry.

amen, thank you.

mondi_cheeks: amen, thank you.

You're welcome.

Nigerian women wise
Nigerian girls not so wise

Never trust a woman , nt even your mother.