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7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:31pm On Apr 05, 2013
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 11:49pm On Apr 05, 2013
noted

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 3:04am On Apr 06, 2013
Only 7 ?

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by dabrake(m): 3:08am On Apr 06, 2013
SMH. Orisirisi

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 6:56am On Apr 06, 2013
why are you guys repeating the same thing over and over again, ladies una no get eyes? or una love the repetition ?

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by pomporiking: 7:20am On Apr 06, 2013
Awon olori agbon ti wa kun nl

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Flashaldrin(m): 7:23am On Apr 06, 2013
very very true. Nice read!
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by wazobiaforu(m): 7:56am On Apr 06, 2013
I just deduct some actions now - thanks
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ishilove: 8:55am On Apr 06, 2013
pompori king: Awon olori agbon ti wa kun nl
Lmao!! cheesy

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ishilove: 8:57am On Apr 06, 2013
Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.
Hmmmm. . . I am so kicking someone's asss to the curb. . . angry

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by dack7(m): 9:41am On Apr 06, 2013
Well said,i never knew diz points are helpful like that because i'm taking my woman down the aisle as a result of these.

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by oluwakorrect(m): 9:51am On Apr 06, 2013
Interesting piece... On point to some length!
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Parnassuss(m): 10:41am On Apr 06, 2013
Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

This is all hype. I'd do all these for a complete stranger sef

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Jumong01(m): 10:45am On Apr 06, 2013
that cool for the people in relationship
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by kajoula(m): 10:47am On Apr 06, 2013
Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

*smile* 7new ways to delude them....I'm I still a learner?

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by austinepreshyus(m): 10:48am On Apr 06, 2013
Mtcheeew
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Decryptor(m): 10:49am On Apr 06, 2013
Ishilove:
Hmmmm. . . I am so kicking someone's asss to the curb. . . angry
Continue kicking till u hit 33. By then you'd realise what those lines you crammed from "2 can play that game" has done to you. Wannabe Vivica Fox

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 06, 2013
Ijele-igbo:
1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.

So what?
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by freecocoa(f): 11:01am On Apr 06, 2013
Story.

OP e be like say you never jam real players, they'll do all these and more just to get into that pant.

All I know be say, nothing is guaranteed in life especially as regards relationships sef.

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Amjustme: 11:01am On Apr 06, 2013
I must say dat dis is one of d most sensible posts of dis sort of topic dat iv seen in a while. Its damn so practical n yes thx a lot, coming from a guy! Ladies take note!

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by lioncoolst(m): 11:02am On Apr 06, 2013
coolThe players in the house have taken judicial notice of this thread and more on 'how to make a woman feel secure in a game'.cool

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Barthx(m): 11:04am On Apr 06, 2013
Like seriously!
The fact that am nice and caring doesn't mean am into you, just shows i have manners.
Simple etiquette #just saying#

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 11:06am On Apr 06, 2013
I hate all these stupid lists. But funny enuff this is one list that is SO ON POINT. I advice girls to pay attention to it.

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by a1solution: 11:08am On Apr 06, 2013
Who can help me compile all this love articles on Nairaland so I can open a school for it?

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by nbright: 11:11am On Apr 06, 2013
Not again!...
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by venatus25(m): 11:17am On Apr 06, 2013
freecocoa: Story.

OP e be like say you never jam real players, they'll do all these and more just to get into that pant.

All I know be say, nothing is guaranteed in life especially as regards relationships sef.
the right name for it is honey pot not pant hope you know say without the joystick inside that honeypot you girl will feel so boring and some of you hate we guys badly when we refuse to access to their honeypot.
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by nbright: 11:17am On Apr 06, 2013
When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.
STORY.

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Petbuk123(m): 11:19am On Apr 06, 2013
We don hear
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:20am On Apr 06, 2013
Am just me: I must say dat dis is one of d most sensible posts of dis sort of topic dat iv seen in a while. Its damn so practical n yes thx a lot, coming from a guy! Ladies take note!

Thanks pal....
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by tomzman: 11:20am On Apr 06, 2013
Se ko n su yin ni, ah ahn.
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by ikenna44: 11:27am On Apr 06, 2013
RUBBISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 11:28am On Apr 06, 2013
@OP Chei. This na how u wan catch all nl babes for like you. Smart guy grin

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