7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:31pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
1. Ask about “that thing”
If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you. Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.
2. Clarify missed calls
Did he take hours to call back? Did he completely forget to text back? If you’re just someone he is having temporary fun with, he isn’t concerned about you getting pissed about those things. But if he makes a point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or “Oh my god I just realized you sent me a text when I was at work and I completely forgot to answer! I’m so sorry!” then you’re not someone he is willing to let go of easily. (Men know how much delayed call or text-backs upset us).
3. Offer to help
When you mention that you’re moving, or putting together some furniture, or looking for a new car, does he jump at the chance to help? Does he often look for ways he can be of service to you? Men don’t do that just for a woman they are trying to sleep with or casually date for a short period of time. They save that type of effort for ones they are serious about.
4. Plan ahead
If you’re just a fling to him, you are (unfortunately) kind of replaceable. But, if he is serious about you, no one else’s presence will do. You’ll know that is the case if he asks you a significant amount of time ahead of time to reserve a day so that you can be his date to something. That means he wants to guarantee he gets your time.
5. Care about your career
If he really cares about you, he wants all the other things in your life that make you happy to go as well as possible! If a man has clearly put time into thinking about your career, and coming up with suggestions for how you could advance it or be happier in it, he plans on being around for a while. He is making sure things in your future will be good. Because he plans on being with you then and he wants to be with a woman who is happy.
6. Brags about you
If he isn’t serious about you, he may bring you to a party or a friend’s get together, but he’ll most likely leave you to fend for yourself. If he is serious about you, he is proud of you, and he will make a point of being near you to introduce you to people and tell them all about you and your accomplishments.
7. Just wants to cuddle
No man who is trying to keep things casual is going to make the terrible mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just be next to me so we can cuddle?” text. They know that sends a serious signal. If a guy sends this type of text, he likes you. 30 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 11:49pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
noted 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 3:04am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Only 7 ? 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by dabrake(m): 3:08am On Apr 06, 2013 |
SMH. Orisirisi 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 6:56am On Apr 06, 2013 |
why are you guys repeating the same thing over and over again, ladies una no get eyes? or una love the repetition ? 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by pomporiking: 7:20am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Awon olori agbon ti wa kun nl 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Flashaldrin(m): 7:23am On Apr 06, 2013 |
very very true. Nice read! |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by wazobiaforu(m): 7:56am On Apr 06, 2013 |
I just deduct some actions now - thanks |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ishilove: 8:55am On Apr 06, 2013 |
pompori king: Awon olori agbon ti wa kun nl Lmao!! 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ishilove: 8:57am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: 1. Ask about “that thing”
If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you. Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.
2. Clarify missed calls
Did he take hours to call back? Did he completely forget to text back? If you’re just someone he is having temporary fun with, he isn’t concerned about you getting pissed about those things. But if he makes a point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or “Oh my god I just realized you sent me a text when I was at work and I completely forgot to answer! I’m so sorry!” then you’re not someone he is willing to let go of easily. (Men know how much delayed call or text-backs upset us).
3. Offer to help
When you mention that you’re moving, or putting together some furniture, or looking for a new car, does he jump at the chance to help? Does he often look for ways he can be of service to you? Men don’t do that just for a woman they are trying to sleep with or casually date for a short period of time. They save that type of effort for ones they are serious about.
4. Plan ahead
If you’re just a fling to him, you are (unfortunately) kind of replaceable. But, if he is serious about you, no one else’s presence will do. You’ll know that is the case if he asks you a significant amount of time ahead of time to reserve a day so that you can be his date to something. That means he wants to guarantee he gets your time.
5. Care about your career
If he really cares about you, he wants all the other things in your life that make you happy to go as well as possible! If a man has clearly put time into thinking about your career, and coming up with suggestions for how you could advance it or be happier in it, he plans on being around for a while. He is making sure things in your future will be good. Because he plans on being with you then and he wants to be with a woman who is happy.
6. Brags about you
If he isn’t serious about you, he may bring you to a party or a friend’s get together, but he’ll most likely leave you to fend for yourself. If he is serious about you, he is proud of you, and he will make a point of being near you to introduce you to people and tell them all about you and your accomplishments.
7. Just wants to cuddle
No man who is trying to keep things casual is going to make the terrible mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just be next to me so we can cuddle?” text. They know that sends a serious signal. If a guy sends this type of text, he likes you.
Hmmmm. . . I am so kicking someone's asss to the curb. . . 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by dack7(m): 9:41am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Well said,i never knew diz points are helpful like that because i'm taking my woman down the aisle as a result of these. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by oluwakorrect(m): 9:51am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Interesting piece... On point to some length! |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Parnassuss(m): 10:41am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: 1. Ask about “that thing”
If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you. Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.
2. Clarify missed calls
Did he take hours to call back? Did he completely forget to text back? If you’re just someone he is having temporary fun with, he isn’t concerned about you getting pissed about those things. But if he makes a point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or “Oh my god I just realized you sent me a text when I was at work and I completely forgot to answer! I’m so sorry!” then you’re not someone he is willing to let go of easily. (Men know how much delayed call or text-backs upset us).
3. Offer to help
When you mention that you’re moving, or putting together some furniture, or looking for a new car, does he jump at the chance to help? Does he often look for ways he can be of service to you? Men don’t do that just for a woman they are trying to sleep with or casually date for a short period of time. They save that type of effort for ones they are serious about.
4. Plan ahead
If you’re just a fling to him, you are (unfortunately) kind of replaceable. But, if he is serious about you, no one else’s presence will do. You’ll know that is the case if he asks you a significant amount of time ahead of time to reserve a day so that you can be his date to something. That means he wants to guarantee he gets your time.
5. Care about your career
If he really cares about you, he wants all the other things in your life that make you happy to go as well as possible! If a man has clearly put time into thinking about your career, and coming up with suggestions for how you could advance it or be happier in it, he plans on being around for a while. He is making sure things in your future will be good. Because he plans on being with you then and he wants to be with a woman who is happy.
6. Brags about you
If he isn’t serious about you, he may bring you to a party or a friend’s get together, but he’ll most likely leave you to fend for yourself. If he is serious about you, he is proud of you, and he will make a point of being near you to introduce you to people and tell them all about you and your accomplishments.
7. Just wants to cuddle
No man who is trying to keep things casual is going to make the terrible mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just be next to me so we can cuddle?” text. They know that sends a serious signal. If a guy sends this type of text, he likes you.
This is all hype. I'd do all these for a complete stranger sef 12 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Jumong01(m): 10:45am On Apr 06, 2013 |
that cool for the people in relationship |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by kajoula(m): 10:47am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: 1. Ask about “that thing”
If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you. Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.
2. Clarify missed calls
Did he take hours to call back? Did he completely forget to text back? If you’re just someone he is having temporary fun with, he isn’t concerned about you getting pissed about those things. But if he makes a point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or “Oh my god I just realized you sent me a text when I was at work and I completely forgot to answer! I’m so sorry!” then you’re not someone he is willing to let go of easily. (Men know how much delayed call or text-backs upset us).
3. Offer to help
When you mention that you’re moving, or putting together some furniture, or looking for a new car, does he jump at the chance to help? Does he often look for ways he can be of service to you? Men don’t do that just for a woman they are trying to sleep with or casually date for a short period of time. They save that type of effort for ones they are serious about.
4. Plan ahead
If you’re just a fling to him, you are (unfortunately) kind of replaceable. But, if he is serious about you, no one else’s presence will do. You’ll know that is the case if he asks you a significant amount of time ahead of time to reserve a day so that you can be his date to something. That means he wants to guarantee he gets your time.
5. Care about your career
If he really cares about you, he wants all the other things in your life that make you happy to go as well as possible! If a man has clearly put time into thinking about your career, and coming up with suggestions for how you could advance it or be happier in it, he plans on being around for a while. He is making sure things in your future will be good. Because he plans on being with you then and he wants to be with a woman who is happy.
6. Brags about you
If he isn’t serious about you, he may bring you to a party or a friend’s get together, but he’ll most likely leave you to fend for yourself. If he is serious about you, he is proud of you, and he will make a point of being near you to introduce you to people and tell them all about you and your accomplishments.
7. Just wants to cuddle
No man who is trying to keep things casual is going to make the terrible mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just be next to me so we can cuddle?” text. They know that sends a serious signal. If a guy sends this type of text, he likes you.
*smile* 7new ways to delude them....I'm I still a learner? 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by austinepreshyus(m): 10:48am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Mtcheeew |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Decryptor(m): 10:49am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Ishilove: Hmmmm. . . I am so kicking someone's asss to the curb. . . Continue kicking till u hit 33. By then you'd realise what those lines you crammed from "2 can play that game" has done to you. Wannabe Vivica Fox 15 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: 1. Ask about “that thing”
If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you. Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.
2. Clarify missed calls
Did he take hours to call back? Did he completely forget to text back? If you’re just someone he is having temporary fun with, he isn’t concerned about you getting pissed about those things. But if he makes a point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or “Oh my god I just realized you sent me a text when I was at work and I completely forgot to answer! I’m so sorry!” then you’re not someone he is willing to let go of easily. (Men know how much delayed call or text-backs upset us).
3. Offer to help
When you mention that you’re moving, or putting together some furniture, or looking for a new car, does he jump at the chance to help? Does he often look for ways he can be of service to you? Men don’t do that just for a woman they are trying to sleep with or casually date for a short period of time. They save that type of effort for ones they are serious about.
4. Plan ahead
If you’re just a fling to him, you are (unfortunately) kind of replaceable. But, if he is serious about you, no one else’s presence will do. You’ll know that is the case if he asks you a significant amount of time ahead of time to reserve a day so that you can be his date to something. That means he wants to guarantee he gets your time.
5. Care about your career
If he really cares about you, he wants all the other things in your life that make you happy to go as well as possible! If a man has clearly put time into thinking about your career, and coming up with suggestions for how you could advance it or be happier in it, he plans on being around for a while. He is making sure things in your future will be good. Because he plans on being with you then and he wants to be with a woman who is happy.
6. Brags about you
If he isn’t serious about you, he may bring you to a party or a friend’s get together, but he’ll most likely leave you to fend for yourself. If he is serious about you, he is proud of you, and he will make a point of being near you to introduce you to people and tell them all about you and your accomplishments.
7. Just wants to cuddle
No man who is trying to keep things casual is going to make the terrible mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just be next to me so we can cuddle?” text. They know that sends a serious signal. If a guy sends this type of text, he likes you.
So what? |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by freecocoa(f): 11:01am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Story.
OP e be like say you never jam real players, they'll do all these and more just to get into that pant.
All I know be say, nothing is guaranteed in life especially as regards relationships sef. 6 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Amjustme: 11:01am On Apr 06, 2013 |
I must say dat dis is one of d most sensible posts of dis sort of topic dat iv seen in a while. Its damn so practical n yes thx a lot, coming from a guy! Ladies take note! 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by lioncoolst(m): 11:02am On Apr 06, 2013 |
The players in the house have taken judicial notice of this thread and more on 'how to make a woman feel secure in a game'. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Barthx(m): 11:04am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Like seriously! The fact that am nice and caring doesn't mean am into you, just shows i have manners. Simple etiquette #just saying# 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 11:06am On Apr 06, 2013 |
I hate all these stupid lists. But funny enuff this is one list that is SO ON POINT. I advice girls to pay attention to it. 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by a1solution: 11:08am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Who can help me compile all this love articles on Nairaland so I can open a school for it? 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by nbright: 11:11am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Not again!... |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by venatus25(m): 11:17am On Apr 06, 2013 |
freecocoa: Story.
OP e be like say you never jam real players, they'll do all these and more just to get into that pant.
All I know be say, nothing is guaranteed in life especially as regards relationships sef. the right name for it is honey pot not pant hope you know say without the joystick inside that honeypot you girl will feel so boring and some of you hate we guys badly when we refuse to access to their honeypot. |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by nbright: 11:17am On Apr 06, 2013 |
When you mention that you’re moving, or putting together some furniture, or looking for a new car, does he jump at the chance to help? Does he often look for ways he can be of service to you? Men don’t do that just for a woman they are trying to sleep with or casually date for a short period of time. They save that type of effort for ones they are serious about. STORY. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Petbuk123(m): 11:19am On Apr 06, 2013 |
We don hear |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:20am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Am just me: I must say dat dis is one of d most sensible posts of dis sort of topic dat iv seen in a while. Its damn so practical n yes thx a lot, coming from a guy! Ladies take note! Thanks pal.... |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by tomzman: 11:20am On Apr 06, 2013 |
Se ko n su yin ni, ah ahn. |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by ikenna44: 11:27am On Apr 06, 2013 |
RUBBISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: 7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You by Nobody: 11:28am On Apr 06, 2013 |
@OP Chei. This na how u wan catch all nl babes for like you. Smart guy |