I dated a guy for close to 2years,we had a minor issue
And he said he wanted out,and 3weeks later I found
Out he engaged another lady.I was so devastated and thought
I might not be able to get over it but God really strenghteen me
Through out this period and I have moved on with my life.he wants to
Come back,he said he realized he doesn't love the lady and he has been
Finding it hard to get my thought off his mind. I told him we can't come
Back together because if couldn't propose after almost 2yrs of the$
Relationship then he doesn't worth it.matured advise please.

People make mistake

People make mistakes. Only God knows how genuine his heart is. He maybe very honest and willing to right his wrongs.
This time around he better take you to the altar.
Since you sound religious, it would be wise on your part to involve a church leader in this relationship.maybe a counseling.
You prayed the first time and God strengthened you. You can call on him again and he will guide you to make the right decision

He does not know what he wanted for good two years, he did not engage you but engaged someone else within 3 weeks









He only try to come back and destroy the remaining part of you

abbygeal760: I dated a guy for close to 2years,we had a minor issue
And he said he wanted out,and 3weeks later I found
Out he engaged another lady.I was so devastated and thought
I might not be able to get over it but God really strenghteen me
Through out this period and I have moved on with my life.he wants to
Come back,he said he realized he doesn't love the lady and he has been
Finding it hard to get my thought off his mind. I told him we can't come
Back together because if couldn't propose after almost 2yrs of the$
Relationship then he doesn't worth it.matured advise please.

..so u cheated on him afta 2 yrs...WOMEN!!

NIGERIAN WOMEN!!..sweery are u dark skin?

Need more advise from you guyz please,am new here

Love is blind....... He probably is seeing ur quality outside love for u.

I think you shld not accept him back...

and if you gonna accept him back you shld not trust him..... cos dere is no guarantee dat he wuldnt so it again.

People make mistakes, perhaps you can give him a second chance but be careful and watch closely so as to decipher if he has really changed or not. If you notice any abnormal expectancy, then quit the relationship.

He left your almost 2-year relationship after a "minor issue" and got engaged to someone else ...3 weeks later. This means he was cheating on you during the course of your r-ship and he wanted out all along. He just used that "minor issue" as an escape route. Now that he has to commit to the other woman, he wants to leave her. He's going to leave her heartbroken, just like he left you. He's flip-flopping and doesn't know what he wants and he's hurting people along the way. You've managed to move on with your life; you should continue doing that. BUT, should you decide to take him back, do not do so now. Let him break the engagement with this woman, as awful as that would be for her, then he needs to stay away from romantic r-ships for a while and do some growing up, figure out what he wants, why he has trouble with commitments or what else is going on with him. He needs to sort these issues out first and you need to be sure he has, otherwise you will find yourself going around in circles with him, and he will keep hurting you. People do make mistakes and can change, but tread carefully.