For 5 yrs nw we ve been datin,i went 4 introductn,though my fiancee's father was in sch,i later visited him nd we had gud tim 2geda nd dea was no complain,2 cut d long story short,he is nw sayin his grand father nd my mother ar 4rm d same place nd so i cn nt marry his daughter,my mother's ppl r sayin dea is notin wrng about dat,my fiancee is on my neck dat we ill travel 2 a far plac nd get married,im lost,d fact is d gal's fada is nt ready 2 revers his decision,pls i nid ur advic,tnx in anticipation.

190: Nigerian MEN

wat about Nigerian men?

Why dont you ask your father inlaw.there should be more to this

Go 2 a distant place nd marry. EOD.

No time to read your story but i will say go ahead if and only if you have the mother's support. The father will mosdef come around. Or impregnate her and deny. I bet they will start beggin you to come her dowry Sharply

Listen to them because marriage is not a bed of roses as this might affect your future and destiny. It is a very serious issue and the taste of marriage is not the taste of friendship. Move on with your life as I know you will surely see a woman out there.Do not try what you and the girl is planning by running away. Her parents has a very big role to play in her life. I know you might have problems overcoming this out of your mind, but with time, you will overcome it. I have seen cases like this and they later had problems. I have seen a case the lady died while in labour. Seen cases crises started brewing up and the parents could not intervene and it became a big issue and the marriage broke up.

[quote
author=andyanders]Listen to them because marriage is not a bed of roses
as this might affect your future and destiny. It is a very serious
issue and the taste of marriage is not the taste of friendship. Move on
with your life as I know you will surely see a woman out there.Do not
try what you and the girl is planning by running away. Her parents has a
very big role to play in her life. I know you might have problems
overcoming this out of your mind, but with time, you will overcome it. I
have seen cases like this and they later had problems. I have seen a
case the lady died while in labour. Seen cases crises started brewing up
and the parents could not intervene and it became a big issue and the
marriage broke up.[/quote]tnx guy