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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by debosky(m): 7:03pm On Apr 20, 2013 |
ileobatojo: Facebook? Meet a number of his friends? Or do ladies jump into relationships these days without finding out anything about the person they intend to make their boyfriends?
You do the basics - you get to know the person in their social setting before getting into a relationship. That's what I consider normal, but then again, maybe what I consider normal isn't normal for everyone else. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Idowuogbo(f): 7:07pm On Apr 20, 2013 |
^Oga Deborah, if I no get Facebook nko? |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by coogar: 7:14pm On Apr 20, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: ^Oga Deborah, if I no get Facebook nko? use a private investigator...... |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 20, 2013 |
debosky: Good one. And one can truly stalk a guy on facebook without seeming like a nutjob. Unless they are not on facebook or keep a limited facebook profile.
I doubt he would introduce the girl to friends that would out him as a married man if he has decided to deceive her. They would probably 'have his back'. debosky: I guess I was just lucky then. I don't believe I have ever tried to find out if any toaster was married before I dated them in the past. But maybe it's an age thing? As in, it's easier to believe a guy's single when he's in his 20's than when he's in his 40's. |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by slimyem: 7:18pm On Apr 20, 2013 |
Most married men these days make no attempts ro hide their statuses anyway.They either tell u head on or the signs are usually there.They expect that women should understand the game and play along if they would. However,I know of a few cases where the marital status was hidden and i think the ones who hide their statuses do it if they think the girl is a very upright person and they want her as a conquest or just for the game.. 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 12:29am On Apr 21, 2013 |
But op talk true, you enjoy the 'spoiling with good stuffs of life'. You'd be a bigger hypocrite if you do and then come here to rant when they want 'underneath' things |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 12:33am On Apr 21, 2013 |
tpia@: i didnt even see this on time. |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 9:27am On Apr 21, 2013 |
Tashamania Tashamania Hope you remember this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1185671/sissys-guys-without-val-let's i cant remember you giving the invitations to single guys only. (S)he who gathers ant infested firewood, you know na....... 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by maclatunji: 10:13am On Apr 21, 2013 |
Tashamania: Now, that is a pratical step. However, you have to look at yourself too. You are not the only young lady here. How come men especially married ones are chasing you like their lives depended on it? 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by maclatunji: 10:17am On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: End of discussion. OP, if it is beauty, I am sure there are 1001 beautiful girls on Nairaland that don't get disturbed. So, search yourself before complaining about the men. 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 11:04am On Apr 21, 2013 |
I siddon here dey look. Hhmn! Btw news has it that my hubby has been eyeing u |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 12:16pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
the calm before the storm? |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 12:42pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
biolabee: the calm before the storm? there aint gonna be any storm cos she knows she s been busted, revealed for who she is: an attention seeker. after trolling through the 'land making herself available and appearing desperate, she comes here spewing thrash bout getting what she truly wants in the first place. Hypocrites 4 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 12:46pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: brah.. u cruel ,,,,,, lolz |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 12:56pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
biolabee: nah i aint cruel just sick and tired of these ladies who go about sucking men into their (mis)adventures and then turn around to cry hoarse. its not uncommon to see this girls tempting married men especially the young and successful amongst them. you hear them saying 'you are married dosent meanyou cant buy a girl a drink, lunch or wateva'. They make themselves available in ways that could be termed 'green light' and thenturn around to shout whats wrong with married men. let these girls behave themselves and lets see if these married men wouldnt go home and mind their wives. 5 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 1:10pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: GBAM!!! |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
@OP, After opening various threads inviting male members of the forum to engage in relationships with you. Why all this hypocrisy. Are you not regularly on the dating/meet up zone of the romance section soliciting for relationships? 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 1:32pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Did she solicit for relationships from married men? What's all this hypocrisy on this thread? If she's looking for relationships with fellow single people like herself what's the problem with that? Why are all you married people bitter that a beautiful girl doesn't want you? You all need to produce evidence that she deliberately solicited for a married man or shut it with your hypocrisy and bitterness. In fact I'm beginning to wonder if she has refused the advances of some people on this thread. OP please come and name and shame them abeg. Imagine someone claiming that a married man cannot behave himself because someone tempts him? What is a married man looking for in the dating and meet up zone? 4 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 2:08pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo: Did she solicit for relationships from married men? What's all this hypocrisy on this thread? If she's looking for relationships with fellow single people like herself what's the problem with that? Why are all you married people bitter that a beautiful girl doesn't want you? You all need to produce evidence that she deliberately solicited for a married man or shut it with your hypocrisy and bitterness. like some one said earlier tpia@:when she goes about soliciting for relationship, whatever she gets is her cross. she should sieve the ones she want and not come here to sound sanctimonous to us all. my point is na whether she order for market na im she get 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:18pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: My point is, if she is going around soliciting for relationships, why should married men be answering her call? Don't they have wives at home to face? 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:22pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
My second point is why are you all acting like its wrong for a single woman to look for relationships online? She has said she is only looking for fellow singles. 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:35pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
When you gather ant infested fire wood,please do not complain if you are visited by all types of lizards/reptiles. |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 2:42pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
^^ Please help me explian to ileobatojo maybe (s)he will understand better from you |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 2:44pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo: My second point is why are you all acting like its wrong for a single woman to look for relationships online? She has said she is only looking for fellow singles. maybe you should look up the word 'desperate' in your dictionary and understand why all manner of men would flock to her |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:55pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: ^^ That one na confirmed feminazi. Waste time on her at your own risk. |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: Because one opens a. Thread doesn't necessarily mean thats what they do. Tht vals thread was a joke right from. The start, so pls stop diggn up dead thread and using them as referral to the issue at hand. No insults intended |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 3:02pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
candygosh: no offence taken but what if those pm s she recieved were jokes that came out of her vals joke thread. its possible you know 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 3:11pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Just a question connoisseur are you condemning online friendship |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Connoisseur(m): 3:16pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
biolabee: Just a question connoisseur are you condemning online friendship nah i am not in any way doing that. all i am saying is when you 'solicit' for friendship online, its like opening a pandora s box and all manner of stuffs are sure gonna creep out. so if you solicit, dont cry when you get what you asked for. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 3:29pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: ok |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by lafflaff123(m): 3:30pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Before we turn this into a boxing match. Where is the poster? she came here, dropped this cry of frustration and when the intelligent people of NL not only dug her past out and her old thread, all of a sudden she has disappeared. Yesterday I took the time out to read her post once more and when I got to the part where she said HER SCHOOL I just simply stopped reading. A female student in Nigeria? have created multiple thread here looking for somebody to date? and still come here to complain? All this RUNS GIRLS for Nigerian Universities. While others see nothing wrong in girls doing it, but i have always being WARY of GIRLS wey OPEN EYES so tay them go dey post online say them want relationships( it shows desperation) if you are that hot with men(single/married)flocking around and yet you still come around trolling for a relationship online, when there are the ones you see physically pursuing you and yet no show then there must be something wrong with you. @poster don't waste our time here as you know yourself better than us. And my advice to you? go and sin no more because metal sharpens metal and the way you carry yourself will attract the kind of men you deserve. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 3:37pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Connoisseur: Well u and I don't know whts goin on. Till then I'd just implore us to not reach an. Unjustifiable conclusion @lafflaff, its funny how u got to the point of labbelling someone u vent met a runs girl. May God forgive us all |
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