Tashamania: [size=14pt]I really hate to say this but this is becoming a constant for a while now.
I try as much as possible to stay away from married men who approach me for friendship, knowing fully well that their "friendship" all bores down to one thing and that is : Spoiling you with good stuffs of life and at the end, demanding to see or have a taste of what is underneath!


Seriously, Why wont this married men let us be and enjoy our youthful lives just the way they've enjoyed theirs?
Is this some kind of wickedness of some sort?
Dont they know that by such doings that they are putting at risk their marriages?
Do they want us (the youths) to suffer the same fate in our marriages (i.e, our own husbands going after young girls too)
Do they want to marry us as 2nd wives or they are just out to spoil our future?!
Is it that they are not happy with their marriages? I dont get it!


I face these almost in my everyday life,the single guys keep coming with the married men ( even those that pretend they are not married) what da heck?! I received the most embarrasing call of my life #days back at about 10pm when a lady called me to stay off her marriage and if not, she knows all my details on where I school and would come haunt me down and am like what the heck again? Whose fault is it this time? The saidman told me he wasnt married! Nawao!
And I wonder where the silly man was at the time his wife was using his cellphone to make this call and threaten an innocent girl like me

Not just that am facing it in the real world, even here on NL, married men who dont even deny the fact that they are married keep disturbing for "FRIENDSHIP"! What kind of friendship do you wanna have with a single lady and online?! Abeg and abeg, I dont entertain married men as friends. I'm sounding this clear because of any married man on here that might have been harbouring such intentions! For GOD's sake, Na Swear? You have a wife - for the s.ex and companionship and kid(s), so what again do you want?
I'm tired of all these, I dont know what method to use in telling you people off again o!!

I want to know what such men want. What abeg? This is beyond me![/size]

ItsModella:
I can now see that you're totally daft, bereft of common sense. Mehn, anybody that spills this much crap in one post is a complete waste of space. I can't even argue with you because that would require me to sink to your level which is abysmally low and I just can't.

ypzilanti: A guy told me of a girl that jumped his fence to come sleep with him when his wife traveled. She jumped the fence cause the guy told her he did not want his neighbors to see her and tell his wife...

lafflaff123: @cougar it never reach quarrel na abi?

How I wan carry date her when as we dey talk so I dey stuck for one airport for about 6 hours now dey waka one kind waka somewhere?

Told you in some months will hit you for info exchange and my brother I get LIVER DIE but for woman matter na brain man dey use do am.

Ask Samson for bible, Lawrence Anini, and a host of other men na women bring their downfall. So no rushing bro.

Toktee: You dont need to,just swallow the bitter pill,just take a look at ur age na,anty pls time iz not on una side

coogar:

idowu is single and available
if you want her details, i will give them to you but i need to know what you are bringing to the table.....

tpia@:



then you shouldnt be tripping over married men who you say are disturbing you.

womanizing nigerian men [dont know about others] typically do not waste their time if they feel a woman isnt going to respond to their advances. They size you up first, before they go in for the kill.

so, if married men are chasing you round the clock on nl or elsewhere, there's likely to have been a green light from your end, in some way.

assuming there was none, then i think a simple ignore mode would suffice, if no sounds too rude.

coogar:

what sorta of married man would run after a moniker like tashamania?

coogar:

you are a coward..
idowu is making you fidget - what has gallivanting all over the world gotta do with marking idowu? i should lend you my spinal chord.

Truckpusher: ...Wahala dey oooo

ileobatojo:
Just say you're trying to bait her into posting a picture. Anyway, I've seen her pic in the past, she's quite good looking.

lafflaff123: @cougar what does every woman need from a man? love, attention, faithfulness, care, and sometimes his wahala too lol.

Anyway we will revisit this topic of Idowu in the nearest future, hope no be your GF or WIFE oh?

Idowuogbo:
Mr big pimpin, liv me o!

Tashamania: [size=14pt]I really hate to say this but this is becoming a constant for a while now.
I try as much as possible to stay away from married men who approach me for friendship, knowing fully well that their "friendship" all bores down to one thing and that is : Spoiling you with good stuffs of life and at the end, demanding to see or have a taste of what is underneath!


Seriously, Why wont this married men let us be and enjoy our youthful lives just the way they've enjoyed theirs?
Is this some kind of wickedness of some sort?
Dont they know that by such doings that they are putting at risk their marriages?
Do they want us (the youths) to suffer the same fate in our marriages (i.e, our own husbands going after young girls too)
Do they want to marry us as 2nd wives or they are just out to spoil our future?!
Is it that they are not happy with their marriages? I dont get it!


I face these almost in my everyday life,the single guys keep coming with the married men ( even those that pretend they are not married) what da heck?! I received the most embarrasing call of my life #days back at about 10pm when a lady called me to stay off her marriage and if not, she knows all my details on where I school and would come haunt me down and am like what the heck again? Whose fault is it this time? The saidman told me he wasnt married! Nawao!
And I wonder where the silly man was at the time his wife was using his cellphone to make this call and threaten an innocent girl like me

Not just that am facing it in the real world, even here on NL, married men who dont even deny the fact that they are married keep disturbing for "FRIENDSHIP"! What kind of friendship do you wanna have with a single lady and online?! Abeg and abeg, I dont entertain married men as friends. I'm sounding this clear because of any married man on here that might have been harbouring such intentions! For GOD's sake, Na Swear? You have a wife - for the s.ex and companionship and kid(s), so what again do you want?
I'm tired of all these, I dont know what method to use in telling you people off again o!!

I want to know what such men want. What abeg? This is beyond me![/size]

Daresh:

That is a bloody big lie!!! This one married man followed me ehn, at first I was nicely telling him no, it degenerated to insult yet that was not enough for him. Will u believe that now, 10years after we met, the guy has come bk again and is following me on twitter after I deleted his FB request? I mean guy you never tire?

coogar:

thread starter is just seeking attention...
i can bet my white buttcheek she's not been chased by any married man on this forum. if she has any proof, she can go ahead and name the married men hounding her. what sorta of married man would run after a moniker like tashamania?

ItsModella:
are your mates not married and making money? yet, you're here spewing trash...efulefu like you, time is not on your side too.

Toktee: Hahahahahaha,with my bad english i have a news for you,iam gainfully employed and just got married november last year,you can confirm that at living faith church asaba,delta state. y i advice you to make haste,i don't mean to exposed you here pls 4give me ok

Tashamania: [size=18pt]Hi y'al
thanks for all the comments, both the good, bad and ugly. As we all know, nairaland will always be nairaland where people who are frustrated in their homes come to vent their anger on faceless people online. It is too much of a pity. Needless me trying to reply every comments because obviously, i dont have the time. So y'all can keep running mouth and thats to those who dont have anything reasonable to say.



And to my other lovely posters who see reasons with me, what more can i say than 'fight against pressures from married men'


ps: i didnt post this to spite anyone, i thought nairaland was a forum where you bring up ...what am i even saying? I owe nobody any explanations. Na you get your mouth . So people, keep talking[/size]

OMO IBO:

LOL

Bruv, I believe she's being chased by married guys. . .Now, that, she cannot help.
i have a problem with the motive behind the thread though. maybe her goods still sell. so she's gotta announce that.

dissenting views have drowned hers and that of her buds so i dont expect this thread to do the 'usual'.

meanwhile, on Niaraland, monikers mean nothing.
if a couple of people tell you how 'dishy' you are a couple of times then ummm you can afford to create this sorta thread. . . i think

Tashamania:

[size=14pt]Thank you!
I'll never fall a victim again. Well.. I hope I dont because you never can tell when it comes to such men.
More s.ex? Is it that their wives don't give them as much s.ex as they want?[/size]

coogar:

bait who?
i don't roll with trolls with buckteeth....

Idowuogbo:
Lmaoooooooooo! Dis wan mental case...kokomental!

ileobatojo:

Buck teeth indeed. And how do I know I can't park a truck between your own 2 front teeth eh?

OMO IBO:

LOL

Bruv, I believe she's being chased by married guys. . .Now, that, she cannot help.
i have a problem with the motive behind the thread though. maybe her goods still sell. so she's gotta announce that.


dissenting views have drowned hers and that of her buds so i dont expect this thread to do the 'usual'.

meanwhile, on Niaraland, monikers mean nothing.
if a couple of people tell you how 'dishy' you are a couple of times then ummm you can afford to create this sorta thread. . . i think

IYA NGBALI: must you quote everything?

lafflaff123: The side of truth is always very important op.

If an house wife called you, it simply means that you gave your contact to the husband one way or the other as your phone number don't just jump into other phone like that.

Everybody is a saint on the internet or make themselves look good by telling their stories their ways, but i believe if men(married/single)keep flocking around you like bees to honey, it is not something to be flattered about, as that can be for the simple reason that you act or give out the aura of being somebody that can be easily gotten.

It can be the way you dress, way you talk, being flirtatious, the kind of friends you hang out with, where you hang out or generally giving the impression that you are a fair game.

Men will always be men and will chase anything that has a skirt on, but if a guy approaches you and you calmly tell him you are not interested. Any sane guy will walk away but when you start exchanging contacts i.e phone numbers, Facebook ID, BB and the rest, the guy would generally feel that you are interested but playing hard to get. So the best is to put a stop to it from the beginning before it starts.

Pataki: Idowu is the third child after twins.