It seems that dating Nigerian men has quickly become a trend in
East Africa. The 'show me your Oga I show you mine' syndrome
has rapidly spread and these men have even replaced the white
man preference. But what many women don't know is that they
will wine, dine and Bleep you but never marry you.
I spent a few weeks in Nigeria early this year and the picture I got
from them- people behave differently when in their original
environment- was rather different. Nigerians tend to avoid contact
with foreigners, especially their women. It's only ashawos that
date white men or men from other cultures- did I say date? Sorry,
sell is more like it. Your average girl next door Nigerian woman
will not even look at foreigner so this creates an unfair advantage
for the Nigerian man. However this is not why they will not marry
you. The reasons are:
Their Mother
Nigerians are a very cultural lot. Despite travelling, exposure to
other cultures, copious naira they still maintain their culture- look
how they dress. So a mother would not want a foreigner for a
daughter-in-law to bring 'conflict' into their culture. Especially from
a culture that is so influenced by the West that they cannot kneel
down in front of their husband's mother or cook traditional foods.
Nigerian Women Traits
Nigerian women love their men and put up with so much shit from
them. A man will meet you, move you to America then leave you
there to give birth as he stays in Nigeria having fun with other
women. And the women are okay with this. Which East African
woman can agree to be left in a foreign country to just produce
children so they can get foreign passports? The rationale of the
women is that "Well, as long as he is providing for my needs I
don't care what he does!" Even if he runs around with other
women she has her car, her house and is living abroad.
Aggressive East African Women
Nigerian women are very aggressive and loud but they can never
raise their voice or fists to a Nigerian man. The East African
women are the opposite- they abuse and can sometimes turn
violent (Kenyan women especially because Ugandan women are
ladies.) So the Nigerian men fear them and can't even
contemplate marrying such a person. Nigerian women release
their aggression on other women not their men...so they guy
knows he can Bleep around but it's his girlfriend who shall get
slapped.
EQL
East African women are Easy Quick Lays. All a Nigerian has to do
is drive them in his big car...knickers drop. Take them to a fancy
restaurant...knickers drop. Buy them champagne...knickers drop.
Buy them an iPhone...knickers drop. Nigerian women are tougher
to bed thus a greater challenge and greater respect. To bed a
Naija woman you buy her a car...buy her a house or even buy her
a jet. Some men take a chick to Europe for a week and still sleep
in separate rooms and even when they return back to Nigeria the
guy gets nothing until he proposes. An East African would drop
her knickers at the idea even before the purchase of air tickets or
visa application even.
So, as he takes you out...and you drop your knickers. As he buys
you champagne...and you drop your knickers...as he buys you
phones...and you drop your knickers- just know he shall never
marry. He will leave your ass and go marry a Nigerian woman.
The only ring you'll ever get from a Naija man is a call saying he
never wants to see you again.

By kenyan writer Flibbertigibbet

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