ibkaye:

Does your friend live with her mum? If she does what is her mum doing still keeping her in the house!? She should have fly kicked her out ages ago, nonsense!

Yes she does. She is still single. She was in a relationship and it didn't work out.

Maybe her mum is a masochist.

tundewoods:

Quite a hilarous but sad story i must confess.
But lets face it,i've got a hunch that this story may a bit over exaggerated or better still a hoax.

But if in any case it is true contrary to my thoughts then i presume that there is more to the story that has been posted by the poster and next question is are we sure that both Mum and Daughter are not having bad blood because of Man

Nairaland,thank you for feeding me humor that will keep me laughing and smiling for the rest of the day at work.
Threads like this keep me going. Damn it,i love this game.

It's a true story and it's not funny so stop laughing.

mafolayomi:

what about her siblings? what are they saying to this, or is she the only child the woman has? if no so why are they not saying anything to this, and if there are no other children what about the family member now?? is this how is going to continue@ poster please i beg you with the mighty name of God talk to other of their family now HABAAAAAAAAA

Three people, my friend, her junior sister and mum live together. The junior sis could do little or nothing at all or she gets beaten too. But they have other close family members outside of their home who think(you know the Naija mentality)if this girl goes to prison abroad, it would tarnish the family name and the mum would have herself to blame for the rest of her life.

She smoke salt?!!!

Which kain rubbish be that one?  De mama no get other children? and if she is the only child and de husband/father is dead, does she not have brothers and sisters and you @poster you no get papa and mama?

Abegi carry dis kain story comot for here.

Oh!! So na for Jand this rubbish dey happen? And you are there and could do nothing while your "pally" de kpokpo im mama?

That woman's blood is on your head. Chikina

Hi,

I believe your friend needs counselling and support not necessarily from you but from Mental Health Specialists. She's definitely got mental health problems. I have noticed that people who abuse others, (yes ABUSE is the operative word here) have either been abused themselves or witnessed abuse, there is always an exception though. Your friend may be abusing drugs or illicit substances, in which case she needs help with letting go of those things.

I would advise your friend's mother to seek help for herself and your friend, there is an organisation called RELATE that may be of help, this is their website address http://www.relate.org.uk/.

If this does not work, let her ask her to leave her house, if she doesn't leave, there are  several legal remedies available to her before she reports to the Police, she may wish to explore these opportunities. I am a lawyer so I know that she has these options.

She can lock her out of the house and change the locks as long as the mother is the legal tenant/owner of the property and tell her not to come near the house and that if she does so, she will call the Police. If  she comes near the house she should call the Police and PRESS CHARGES AGAINST HER.

If this does not work she can obtain relief from the courts by way of an Injunction, an Exclusion Order with a Power of Arrest attached against your friend, excluding her from gaining access to the house or several yards of her mother and anybody else that may need protection from her, if she breaches this injunction she can be imprisoned.

If your friend's mother is not the legal tenant or does not have any legal interest in the property, she should present to her Local Authority as a homeless person under the Housing Act 1996/Homelessness Act 2002, she should cite her reasons for being homeless as fleeing domestic violence and harassment.

Your friend's mother has to be firm because your friend is a potential menace to the society, if she marries she will want to try it on her partner and her children, thereby rearing angry children and a dysfunctional family. this will certainly continue to the future generations. You mentioned that her past relationship did not work, abuse in that relationship may be the cause or the trigger for her present behaviour.

WORSE STILL YOUR FRIEND MAY KILL HER MOTHER, BETTER TO ACT NOW. Your friend's mother should exercise tough love NOW.

If you need further legal advice, provide your email address. I will give you free of charge and I mean that. I have represented several women in your friend's mother's situation and believe me the violence doesn't stop unless God steps in. Your friend's behaviour is totally unacceptable.

a girl who beats up her mother wuld surely be beaten by the chilfren,wen se grows old,dats 4 sure.

Abomination! una say she dey craze na im she no naked waka 4 road?
What complete nonsense. Infact 4 my area this kind messup go warrant community guys organize u for proper
treatment ^{d beating of ur life} if she see doll baby next time she go prostrate.

@Poster
Is that ur friend the only child in her family? If no, where are the others? If yes, then u have a great task ahead of u to do. U can start by praying for her, take her to church for deliverance and if symptom persists after one month, take her to YABA LEFT _{consult a psychiatrist}

take her and the mum to counsellings. kick her out. send her to boot camp or just give her up for adopting or foster care.

chukz4real:

@Poster
Is that your friend the only child in her family? If no, where are the others? If yes, then u have a great task ahead of u to do. You can start by praying for her, take her to church for deliverance and if symptom persists after one month, take her to YABA LEFT _{consult a psychiatrist}

i believe this is a job for psychologist and not psychiatrist

Is ur friend retarded? I know a cousin who throws tantrums and physically assaults his mum because he is autistic. Its no fault of his and im thinking ur friend may be mildly mentally challenged. Get ur friend analyzed. But if she isn't, then like Seun said earlier, she needs to spend sometime in prison. That should straighten her out.

that ur friend is definetly a bastard and she does not know that she has brought curses on herself not only that her children will beat her up but her grand children will beat her up in public, and you beware cos she,ll soon beat up ur own mother cos u said u cant leave her.

Can we all have a logical, rational post without quoting the Bible? We all are quick to pick quotes from the good book,  yet our country remains one of the most corrupt and underdeveloped countries in the world. We have more churches and mosques per square mile than any other contry. Still people get Murderd on a daily basis, robbed, raped, kids get molested by their parents, parents get beat up by their kids, and to top it all the county is heading rapidly towards turmoil and decay. My fellow friends i think God and His good book have already provide and blessed us with all the resource needed to be the greatest nation in Africa and perhaps the world,  we are the ones who can't uitlize this blessings. So before you pick a quote from the Bible and attempt in the most ostensible way to proclaim how riteous you are, why don't you take a look around your country! Open up you windows and look outside your poverty ridden, no Nepa, bad roads, mosquito infested, malnurishied, no middle class, rising illiteracy rate, crime infested decaying excuse of a country and ask yourself if you truly understand what the Bilble is saying? FREAKS and yes my User Id is Hilli666 (eat your heart out) No wonder the Girl is beating up her mother.

Birds of the same feather flock together.

ajk:

Birds of the same feather flock together.

Thank you Sir.

As my people used to say: "it is a person's yam that dips ones fingers in palm oil"

hilli666:

No wonder the boy is beating up his mother.

She's a girl.

She needs deliverance.

The Sly:

She needs deliverance.

From who? The Cookie Monster?

coolier:


She's a girl.

But im glad you got the point though. Thanks for the correction

hilli666:

Can we all have a logical, rational post without quoting the Bible? We all are quick to pick quotes from the good book,  yet our country remains one of the most corrupt and underdeveloped countries in the world. We have more churches and mosques per square mile than any other contry. Still people get Murderd on a daily basis, robbed, raped, kids get molested by their parents, parents get beat up by their kids, and to top it all the county is heading rapidly towards turmoil and decay. My fellow friends i think God and His good book have already provide and blessed us with all the resource needed to be the greatest nation in Africa and perhaps the world,  we are the ones who can't uitlize this blessings. So before you pick a quote from the Bible and attempt in the most ostensible way to proclaim how riteous you are, why don't you take a look around your country! Open up you windows and look outside your poverty ridden, no Nepa, bad roads, mosquito infested, malnurishied, no middle class, rising illiteracy rate, crime infested decaying excuse of a country and ask yourself if you truly understand what the Bilble is saying? FREAKS and yes my User Id is Hilli666 (eat your heart out) No wonder the Girl is beating up her mother.

Hahaha!! Yes oo!!, as long as you cant contribute without making reference to people's post, they cant contribute without making reference to Holy Books.

hilli666:

From who? The Cookie Monster?

Ask me again.

May God help us

MyPeace:



Hahaha!! Yes oo!!, as long as you can't contribute without making reference to people's post, they can't contribute without making reference to Holy Books.

Okaaaaayyy!!!! I think you lost me there kido. Cant see the comparison, but you do, so we'll let you worry about that.

The Sly:

Ask me again.

LOL My mother used to say that "ASK ME AGAIN"  

since u can not abadon her, the only help you can offer her is to personally fast & pray for her and whenever she is in her right mood advise her to go for deliverance since you know the consequence of her action. i assume she's possessed
ask about her love for God and encourage her prayerfully, who knows may be you are the messaiah send to her.
shallom

Most Naija mums aren't saints and that's an understatement but she can't be allowing her daughter to beat her. Like my mum always said, the day I allow my children to manhandle me or the day I can't chide my children is the day I die. She needs to put her daughter away at least for a while. However, we don't know the extenuating circumstances. Like an earlier poster said, her mum could have crossed a line no parent should cross like let her get molested or be the molester sef. stuff like that happens sadly and too often to countenance Still, there's a reason Honour thy Father and thy Mother is the commandment right after those exhorting people to honour God. Next time your friend does something like that if her mum's too chicken to do anything about it _{which people who are abused often are} I suggest you call the cops yourself. You may lose a dear friendship but this one's worth losing. Like they say, "by your friends shall you be known". You don't beat your mum do you? No. Then don't hang out with a mum-beater and put her behind bars or in a mental institution where she belongs. She sounds like she needs therapy.

I would like u to call ur frnd and ask her what her problem is, if possible take her to church for deliverance i believe God  will surely come to her aid. cos if she mod d poor woman she no go go free ooooooooooooo

l wonder how you relate with such a person and to think you even refer to her as your friend.

There's nothing any mother will do that warrant being beaten up by her child.

l suggest you get a psychiatrist fast because the person in question needs help and afterwards she should go for counselling in the church and also beg for forgiveness.

lt is a sad situation considering the psychological effect that has on the mother.

hilli666:

Okaaaaayyy!!!! I think you lost me there kido. Cant see the comparison, but you do, so we'll let you worry about that.
LOL My mother used to say that "ASK ME AGAIN"

bros u go tire ooo!! l better buy dictionary for u for better reference

the mama hand cut?mo je ri awon mama yoruba ni idile yin. pickin dey beat mama, nonsense

@amaechijay u re right

Since there is nothing her mother can do about the whole situation is better for her to cry to God.

But dat is too bad,  i never knew lady's  beats up their parents too. i thought is only d guys.

May God have mercy on her!

She need to go to jail. She can get her deliverance or SHOCK therapy in prison.
You don't beat or hit anybody period, ur MAMA, WIFE, SLAVE,CHILD.
You are out of control when you start hitting anybody. YOU CRYING FOR HELP.
That is a State offence, the State will press charges.