alfredo4u: Pals, only serious minded contributions is needed pls.

I took my time to research on this, only to find out that what exist today in our generation is 'interest' not 'love'.

Wit this view you guys will undastand y i said its all about interest.

A guy/lady can never accept each other if they dont stand to knw what they will gain in a relationship.

Is either the guy is loaded, satisfies her etc or the lady is loaded, has the attributes etc.

Love dis days cant stand witout the benefits attached to it which is interest.

To me, there is notin like love but interest.

Lets hear yours.

Cold blooded: Make I tok? Ok, @ Op ur research no just count cos na just inductive conclusion.

I know say luv dey somewhere, maybe not around here...in heaven I guess.
Luv no get only one definition, it encompasses oda attributes like interest,care,selflessness and tolerance. D feeling of luv comes from within, its natural.
So luv exits,but 4 me I never deal wit LUST finish come dey tok of luv...until LUST becomes a cliche den I go embrace luv!

alfredo4u: Pals, only serious minded contributions is needed pls.

I took my time to research on this, only to find out that what exist today in our generation is 'interest' not 'love'.

Wit this view you guys will undastand y i said its all about interest.

A guy/lady can never accept each other if they dont stand to knw what they will gain in a relationship.

Is either the guy is loaded, satisfies her etc or the lady is loaded, has the attributes etc.

Love dis days cant stand witout the benefits attached to it which is interest.

To me, there is notin like love but interest.

Lets hear yours.

Mr knowitall.:


Dude I dont know what kinda girls you been dating but ive never experienced something like this......Love very much exist man....In fact i would argue that love has never been stronger and deeper......maybe the problem is you Chalay...

alfredo4u:

@mrknwitall, i neva said lov dont exist, wat mainly give birth to luv is interest.

Try dis, walk tru d street ten toes and try toastin a babe, u wil c ha responds. Next time, use a jeep and meet dat same girl, u wil c ha respond.

99% of guys/babes settles 4 wat dey c now and nt in d future.

Will u call dat luv or interest?

alfredo4u:

@mrknwitall, i neva said lov dont exist, wat mainly give birth to luv is interest.

Try dis, walk tru d street ten toes and try toastin a babe, u wil c ha responds. Next time, use a jeep and meet dat same girl, u wil c ha respond.

99% of guys/babes settles 4 wat dey c now and nt in d future.

Will u call dat luv or interest?

DigitalSignal:

Sorry, I don't see what point you're trying to make here! If interest gives birth to love then there's love so what's the argument?

Also at the text in bold, the comparison doesn't make any sense to me for you've said it yourself that it's interest that gives birth to love, so why would you expect someone to love you without that interest being created? Does it sound logical?

Do you believe that there's something like hatred? If you do, why do people hate others?

If you can find just one reason why someone would hate someone else, you'd have provided an answer to why love is conditional and certain conditions (depending on the individual's likes and preferences) need to be met before it germinates and blossoms over time!