A guy introduced me to the campus i attend now, we never kne weach other till just two weeks ago, now am in school but during lectures heholds me talks to just me u know, , even after lectures we walk bacl to our locations together some times holding hands gisting evn he holds me by the waist at times, is is really casual or is it a tale of things to come?
and the guy comes to my church oh, he is a home boy as we call it, good boy stuff

He is indicating i want to see your PATA ( pant)

It is indicating that he wants to 'overwhelm' u with the thots that 'he loves me' until he gets u btwn da sheets!
Trust me, a guy wu realy wants 2 b ur friend wudn't start out like this.

he isnt a person like that, i dont think thats what he means, cause he doesnt have that behaviour ayway,but i'll watch out and be carefull, thnks very much

JUST BE CAREFUL, seems you too has started likin d guy sef
sha b careful,
all d best
hope say we go know when una start

That is how love is, it is blind the eye only opens when you fall inside pit.
When a man wants you, they treat you like a queen
once they have it the rest is history
Anyway nobody is like that ( a player)
it is one day it starts

i dont think a guy that wants you will start from touching and hol,
WOO
enough said

Fresheva,

Your man is simply and honestly exhibiting his gradual growing love and affection for you.
Like it or not, the last bus stop most times na bed (his or urs doesn't matter)


What can you do?

- make sure he continues beyond that last bus stop; or
- enter another bus before u reach that bus stop

Just my 2 cents

blacknbold:

That is how love is, it is blind the eye only opens when you fall inside pit.
When a man wants you, they treat you like a queen
once they have it the rest is history
Anyway nobody is like that ( a player)
it is one day it starts

i don't think a guy that wants you will start from touching and hol,
WOO
enough said

lol,yea it is,love is really blind,it dont see where is going

if he is all over you, obviously that means that he loves you. like HELOOOO

He wants to get laid. Every guy I know pretends to be in love to get laid. Its the only way to get a girl in bed if you are unwilling to pay.

Afeni:

He wants to get laid. Every guy I know pretends to be in love to get laid. Its the only way to get a girl in bed if you are unwilling to pay.

OH SHUT THE Bleep UP. LIKE FOR REAL. not every guy is like you.

Idollier, you make a very good point. Hence, the reason I said "every guy I know."

Afeni:

Idollier, you make a very good point. Hence, the reason I said "every guy I know."

hisssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well, he is not about to get me laid bros, but i'll be carefull, since u guys are now saying that, maybe he is just being caring and am reading so much meaning into it,

@ blacknbold
he wasnt touching the way u mean ok, pls oh, hmmmm

@ Rhea
thnks for the advice i'll keep to it

@ domino
well not that way, but thnks

Meeen.

this poor guy is in for a huge dissapointment.

what a loser.

let me give u a tip.


no guy on earth will come at first and make his intentions known to you. come on, there players out there that when u see, u will think they are God sent. very religious and even very kind as if there middle name is kind. just when he sees u have relaxed and u r now comfortable with his every move, he steps his game, gets what he wants and goes away.

i aint saying his a player or that he aint, what am saying is that u should be careful. all that glitters aint gold. just be careful and dont let him cross the line. goodluck with your decisions.

thnks for the reply
i will really watch out for that, and he wont cross that line no matter how hard he tries , thnks all

Take it easy mama, nuff said, a playa is the best kinda guy you can ever dream of, in my playa days, i'll make a gurl think i was da best thing that ever happened to her, i'll hide my porn collection, my drinking, my clubbing make sure i go to weekly church programmes e.t.c just to have her in my net,
I regret being a play cos i don't want no one playing my sistas

@fresheva
take it easy, its not always good to read in-between the lines.