tpia@:
Ok, so you agree you're a pot calling the kettle black.

Well, most of what you're describing,are american things, not nigerian.

So, you might need an american forum where you can vent to your fellow americans.

In nigeria, our own problems relate to poverty and lack of good roads, electricity and potable water.

If you want to help out with those, you're quite welcome.

Otherwise, you are talking to yourself and perhaps mrs chima i guess.

pleep: Interesting posts, but still i dont see many darkskinned black men who have problem with light-skinned dudes... if you cool you cool.. most straight niggas dont get hung up on that.

And on the converse side, for all the desciminiation you describe yall get some serious perks also... espeically the mixed ladies . Even if lightskinned people are not allowed to voice thier issues in the black community i think they are undenably treated better than your average dark skin person, by both blacks and non-blacks

Im mainly speaking about mixed chicks because i dont know ANY mixed males in real life... dunno why

Subomi-luv:
You are right in a way. Black light skinned men and darker skinned men have not usually been turned or battled against each other unlike what a lot of men do with the dark-skinned vs light-skinned women issue. Like i said i do not know how bad it is in the states but i think that black people in particular black women need a revolution.

pleep:

Its not men who pitt dark skin women vs light-skinned women.. yall do that yourselves. Stop blaming black men for everything that is wrong with black women.

The issues between women primarily arise because of your insecurities and over-competitiveness not because of us. They are plenty of women who outrightly refuse to date light men but you don't see that creating tension between us. In addition 90% of black men (me included) i know had mothers or female relatives who praised light skin since childhood

In most cases mothers impart the preference for light skinned girls to their sons... you will never see a black man talking about "good hair" or fawning over an albino baby

pleep: Like i said earlier, there is nothing wrong with men liking light skinned chicks... if you say you like dark girls you get praised but when you say the opposite u are a demon.

It ties in with what the OP is saying in this thread, everyone has a right to be proud of w/e, like w/e, and do w/e they want without insecure ppl trying to censor them.

Subomi-luv:
Am not blaming everything on men but you men started it and you really do not need to play dumb about it. heck is it even possible for you to be honest just this once without all your bs What else and were else would this issue/competition arises if not for you men There is nothing wrong with Preferences, am not talking about preferences, but putting someone down and saying bad ish about their complexion etc and things the cannot change is the issue here. Lol are you and your co-hoorts not the same folks who go on and on about natural hair vs weaves Maybe your mother imparted and praised light-skinned females but mine did not so dnt generalize.

pleep: And you got theses insecurities because deep down [size=20pt]you think lightskinned women look better too[/size]

Alyricist★Laura:


Excuse me....?

Pardon me Ma'am, but what kind of dumb asss question is that?

As a Mixed Person, we face double the prejudice of the average Black Man. Read the comments by the mixed & lightskin women telling their stories of horrific bullying they recieved by jealous envious darker girls at the bottom of the youtube video I posted. Countless stories.

Those are Mixed Women.....

I am a male so I will start with myself since you want to play Darkskin Sympathizer at the moment and dare try to insinuate Lightskin & Mixed people are somehow exempt from any discrimination. How on earth could that possibly be when we are still "Black" is beyond me.

I was Raised by a very Dark Skin Black woman who was Evil to the core

A bitter disgruntled woman upset and broken because papi was a "PAPI"& left her bitter black asss high & dry

Which I don't blame him, the woman was wicked as a witch. Like the majority of bitter Darkskin American Women who have been beaten and placed to the side by society.


So because my father was puerto rican.....I was taught to hate myself.

I was taught not to acknowledge my other half.

When my mother would catch me watching Ronaldo playing soccer on television she would rip the remote control out of my hand and scream at me and say "only spiccs watch that"

Now mind you, her son was half "spicc"....

Had that been a puerto rican mother snatching the remote out of her half black kid's hand for watching basketball & saying.."only niqqers watch this".....ohh the sympathetic waterfall tears by black folks everywhere would have poured....

But because I grew up in an all black family. All Darkskinned...there was noone I could tell?...

Excuse me Ma'am?.... what prejudice?... I beg your pardon?

As I walked out into the real world....I was called a niqqer by spiccs..and a spiccc by niqqers....

As will any Afro Latino of the new world will share his stories of double prejudice +2 with you.

I took a spanish class in 4rth grade....do you know this nutty black biitch told me?...

"You can not take that class, everyday at 11 you just go to the nurse office and say you are sick"

All because of her insanity like insecurities...forcing me to fail my acedemics. To Shield me from absorbing half the essence of my being.

I was not allowed to date hispanic girls.......
I was not allowed to have hispanic friends......
I was not allowed to openly compliment a hispanic female......


And whenever family cookouts happened....my aunts and uncles would quickly remind me I am very different from all my cousins....

"You gotta watch him...you know his daddy was a spicc...they real hot and horrny...."


Casting me aside as if I am some 9 year old sexxxual deviant lmfao

Mind you, the terminology was.."spicc" ..not puerto rican...not hispanic..."spic".

Now flip my goddamn analogies..and make the mother..the aunts..the uncles...Puerto Rican.

& Make the comments directed at the half African American Side.....

Now ask me your dumb asss question again Ma'am.......

Ask any Afro Latino Growing up in a predominantly black household and community.

Now ma'am take a guess what white & black police officers did to me?......

Do you think we get treated better?. No. We are treated the same by prejudice cops

Yet discriminated against by our own ignorant racist, prejudice, vile and bigoted family members

Ma'am have you ever had or witnessed a racial debate with a caucasoid and a jew ?

What is a caucasoid & a jew good for uttering to a black man when a black man speaks about the injustices and disgusting prejudices against him?.....

"It's all in your head..there is no racism...racism is gone"...~The Jew Media

So when Blacks, particularly Dark Skin Black Folks...& Privileged Southern "Redbone" Black "Apologist"....Dare try to utter.... "what prejudice have you faced"......

I Find it really fake&disgusting. Lol

Now do you want to have a real conversation ma'am or do you wanna act like Lightskin&Mixed Black People suffer from no prejudice from their own people

Because Royal has no time to talk to a yellow JEW.....

pleep: You are such a dumbass... why is it that black women cant take responsibility for a gotdamn thing without trying to drag black men into it?

"Its our fault you wear weaves

its our fault you bleach

its our fault you r fat

its our fault you have an attitude, bla bla bla"

The selection of women on men is 10X more intense but you don't see us whining like a buncha 4 yr old babies. Do we have Poor niggas tryna beef with with rich niggas.... or short men fighting tall men? .... the way you darkskin chicks beefed with lightskinned girls since elementary school?

Face it, your issue with light girls doesn't have a gotdamn thing to do with us, you had these jealousy issues long before men were even checking for you.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xWNFLEvj4bA

Subomi-luv:
And who says am even dark-skinned? I do not have any insecurities my dear, all women are beautiful whether light, dark or whatever. There is no reason to hate another women for such irrelevent ish. Fortunately i didnt not have a parent to brainwash me, or friends or media or any of that ish. So try another line