Is it true that when a guy engages a lady and later break up with her, he's placing a curse on himself. Since, getting engaged to any lady is like being tied down to the person spiritually. And that should the engagement be broken at any time, a curse would be on the guy. That's why some guys no longer present engagement rings to ladies these days before getting married. They prefer to do everything at the same time (i.e by doing both the traditional and church wedding within the same period). Ngbo na true?

What else will i not hear frm Nland biko?

I don't know if it will amount to a curse but why engage a girl and later disappoint her for no reason? If you ask me,instead of engaging her over a long period, just watch her closely, when ready and if she convinces you that she is the woman for you then meet her parents and marry her. Don't keep her waiting when you're sure u don't love her.