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Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Firstimer(f): 12:46pm On May 30, 2013 |
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Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by tempilo2k(m): 1:06pm On May 30, 2013 |
Try using lubricants or saliva on the opening of ur vulva before intimacy. It could be that u aren't wet enough or he doesn't take as much time wit pre-intimacy. And he shldnt attempt to thrust in at once he shld do it gradually,shallow penetration.... Semi shallow... Till he is in. Hope av been helpful. Cos answering this is kinda awkward. 13 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by modextus(m): 1:07pm On May 30, 2013 |
Emm op? Sorry I'm not Λ lady but.... Dehm! I feel sorry for your hubby...chai! Hope уσυ guys sort it out well |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Nobody: 1:08pm On May 30, 2013 |
Am nt a lady buh i av a solution,owk? |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Firstimer(f): 1:20pm On May 30, 2013 |
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Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Woodpecker(m): 1:29pm On May 30, 2013 |
Hi, Ur condition is called Vagismus. Don't have too many details abt it so u can google it, I jst watched a documentary on and I can tell u that seeing a qualified psychotherapist will do the trick. good luck 1 Like |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Nobody: 1:37pm On May 30, 2013 |
Woodpecker: Hi, Phew! The way people just come here and give diagnosis really baffles me a lot. You don't even know nothing about the case and just like that, IT'S VAGISMUS! op, look at that 1st comment again, go by that! If that doesn't work, see a doctor. Can't imagine what ur hubby is going through now, after how many months of waiting. 9 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by sexymoma(f): 1:45pm On May 30, 2013 |
i think your hubby should concentrate on more of romance than s3x, you guys should have some hours of hot romance by then you would have been wet and your hymen would have been ready to be bleep. My own Opinion O 1 Like |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by coogar: 1:47pm On May 30, 2013 |
Firstimer: I hop i'l get a solution in dis section. you are too old to have sëx - you left it too late! |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by onyeego(m): 1:48pm On May 30, 2013 |
I would've said something but ur moniker hmmmmmm I just hope its coincidence |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Firstimer(f): 1:48pm On May 30, 2013 |
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Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by coogar: 1:50pm On May 30, 2013 |
Firstimer: in the current climate, 24 is too late. the growth has stopped, the skin/tissue has toughened up. you might need a surgery to get it done. 7 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Nobody: 1:54pm On May 30, 2013 |
coogar: BE NICE! 8 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Firstimer(f): 1:55pm On May 30, 2013 |
coogar:Hmmmm. Makin me more worried. Any natural way? |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by sexymoma(f): 1:55pm On May 30, 2013 |
coogar:Ah Jehovah, so what would a virgin at 27 go for **V1rg1nal Termination** Surgery ko operation ni, nothing wey we no go see on NL 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Nobody: 1:58pm On May 30, 2013 |
Firstimer: He's just pulling your legs. Don't mind him. 4 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Ruq: 1:58pm On May 30, 2013 |
coogar: Lie nigga, stop effin with her 3 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Firstimer(f): 1:59pm On May 30, 2013 |
sexymoma: i think your hubby should concentrate on more of romance than s3x, you guys should have some hours of hot romance by then you would have been wet and your hymen would have been ready to be bleep. My own Opinion ODnt wan2 b raw here. But hubby always fondles my clitt til i cum b4 he starts d thrusting. We wer hopin dat wud mak it expand a lil but 4wrr? |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Ruq: 2:05pm On May 30, 2013 |
like someone said, you can use humping lubricants it would really help, and after alota thrusting it will definitely get smoother. itz a matter of time. If you can let your hubby Dig it like Mandingo, it will be painful but after it you'll wonder if there ever was an hymen there |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by coogar: 2:07pm On May 30, 2013 |
Ruq: why don't you just shut up and mind your damn business? alutacontinua: i couldn't be nicer. there's a difference between the truth, the lie and what you want to hear. sexymoma: Ah Jehovah, so what would a virgin at 27 go for **V1rg1nal Termination** Surgery ko operation ni, nothing wey we no go see on NL there are different categories of virgins. what the OP described here is the AAA+ virgin. your 27-year old might have fondled herself but still claiming to be a virgin. she would have it easier than a 24-year-old who had never touched her thingy before! Firstimer: go speak to your doctor.... your husband is no fool exercising patience. you could be psychologically scarred for life and you may never enjoy sex again. stop forcing the issue if the flesh is not yielding! |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Ruq: 2:12pm On May 30, 2013 |
coogar: |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Woodpecker(m): 2:13pm On May 30, 2013 |
alutacontinua:I wouldn't give that opinion if I wasn't certain abt it, I've heard and read about several cases like this. Its a fairly common condition and pls note that its nt a disease so its nt like there are drugs she can use. Its jst an involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles pre-intimacy. i'm sure she has tried prolonged fore-play and lubricant before she came here (if she hasn't i'd advice her to do that first) that's why it came to mind so quickly. 3 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Kosigift(f): 2:15pm On May 30, 2013 |
Firstimer:Don't be too worried jare... Just do a lot of pre-intimacy: kissing, smooching, caressing and all dat b4 doing d main thing. As for d pains, its kinda normal so u've got to brace up and pls lead ur hubby in as soon as possible... D guy don try na... Dis story reminds me of my aunt who cudn't show up for their thanksgiving service cos she cudn't walk after d deed was done Op ur own no go be like dat u hear... Just go wit d flow. 7 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Firstimer(f): 2:23pm On May 30, 2013 |
Woodpecker: Av googled vaginismus. N am nt in any of d categories. Hubby refuses dat i c a doctor. He says nofin is wrong wit me, dat i gat 2b strong. Infact, las nite he got angry n shouted at me buh apologised dis mornin. Am nt finding dis funny at all. I tot sex is supose 2 b a swt tin. I lubricate wel during pre-intimacy. Dont undstand anymore |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by dridowu: 2:23pm On May 30, 2013 |
sexymoma: i think your hubby should concentrate on more of romance than s3x, you guys should have some hours of hot romance by then you would have been wet and your hymen would have been ready to be bleep. My own Opinion Oexperience is d best teacher |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Firstimer(f): 2:25pm On May 30, 2013 |
Kosigift: Whoa! Can it get 2 dat extent? Wud luk lik she was raped. |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by baby124: 2:34pm On May 30, 2013 |
Thinking about it makes me wince in pain. OP, you have to be determined and so has your hubby. Take a day off, and dedicate a few hours to it. Let go of your mental fears and focus on the pleasure that is to come. Which will not come after a few rounds. Some people have a harder time than others. 1 Like |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by faithwin2: 2:52pm On May 30, 2013 |
Its jst ur mind set. Remove d pains in mind and allow ur husband do it before anoda woman offers dat to him outside. Its normal 1 Like |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by jnrprof(m): 2:53pm On May 30, 2013 |
Vaginismus is also the first thing that came to my mind on reading your story. Obviously its not a case of inadequate pre-intimacy or lubriction. As you have been advised, you need to see a professional. Your husband should not have an issue with you going to see your gynaecologist for a 'routine checkup'? If he's that adamant about you not seeking help, just go there without telling him and get a professional diagnosis of the issue. At least when its been solved, he'll be the major beneficiary! Best wishes. |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by moakin: 4:06pm On May 30, 2013 |
If U go 2d doctor, is there any other way other than the thrusting you think d doctor might suggest? Your man shud stand up to his responsibility. Not man enough to c U cry? U guys beta make use of this wkend, just know it's gonna b a tough one, use the lubricant, and if ur man's P aint strong enough, he can help U out wif candle. Don't fill our heads wif sex problems. If other resources God gave us to enjoy are giving us problem because of men's attitude, don't just include sex... 3 Likes |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by Nobody: 4:19pm On May 30, 2013 |
Firstimer: He refused dat i see a doc. Lawd have mercy! |
Re: Can First Time Sex Be Dis Painful? Or Too Tight Vagina by valboy20(m): 4:42pm On May 30, 2013 |
op why you own to,to come dey different from others? anyway I'd love to help you if you want |
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