dear nlders...pls i urgently need ur advice.my bf broke up wt me yesterday nd i'm starting my exam on monday,though i'v decided to move on but i can jst concentrate on my books since he left my place yesterday...to say d truth i love him so much nd he broke up wt me over a minor issue bt pls ao can i jst get over him nd concentrate on my books

Tholudee: dear nlders...pls i urgently need ur advice.my bf broke up wt me yesterday nd i'm starting my exam on monday,though i'v decided to move on but i can jst concentrate on my books since he left my place yesterday...to say d truth i love him so much nd he broke up wt me over a minor issue bt pls ao can i jst get over him nd concentrate on my books

You better focus and let him be in your past..shit happens and life goes on.

Godson201333:

You better focus and let him be in your past..shit happens and life goes on.

i'm tryin to bt i jst cn't concentrate

Tholudee: dear nlders...pls i urgently need ur advice.my bf broke up wt me yesterday nd i'm starting my exam on monday,though i'v decided to move on but i can jst concentrate on my books since he left my place yesterday...to say d truth i love him so much nd he broke up wt me over a minor issue bt pls ao can i jst get over him nd concentrate on my books

I think u should call a close friend writing same exams wit u to come study with u, But before then, take some minutes to think abt the painful things his done to u, am sure u will find a reason to hate him and concentrate on ur book. Ur exam is so important, u jst must try to concentrate.

my advise to u is...just invite ur female friends or both sex to ur house, throw a minor party...laugh it off...then invite ur study mates to keep u company all through the exam periods...above, always remember those sweet moments of ur life and "Be happy..."

sunnydayasaba:



I think u should call a close friend writing same exams wit u to come study with u, But before then, take some minutes to think abt the painful things his done to u, am sure u will find a reason to hate him and concentrate on ur book. Ur exam is so important, u jst must try to concentrate.

tanks,i wil do as u'v said

Sanboy25:
If you have exam on Monday, you should not be NL now...
Think about the bright future you could have if you succeed with your exams, you'll forget him fast like that.

tanks g ur advc,i'm on nairaland nw bcs i cn't concentrate on my books

ebuspaco: my advise to u is...just invite ur female friends or both sex to ur house, throw a minor party...laugh it off...then invite ur study mates to keep u company all through the exam periods...above, always remember those sweet moments of ur life and "Be happy..."

tanks 4f d advice

Listen to love songs and cry out all the tears in your eyes. After that, then wake up to the reality that life has to go on.

If you fail the exam, you will still be needing him and if ever you get back, he will have a higher comparative advantage.
If you study hard and pass your exams well, you will draw more people to you, in time, he too may come swinging around, but who cares, being the winner that you are, you have passed your exams and have passed his drama and have since left him in the past.
While we were preparing for MB exam in a medical school, the BF a female course mate of mine broke up with her, she channeled that anger into her studies andshe nearly came out tops of the class (though I topped it sha! *evil smile*) she was a winner and moved on, her succcess and fame that ensued got people talking about her and most of those news filtered into Ex's ear, (how he would feel?)
OP, channel that anger to your studies, ge broke up with you, you don't need to break up with your studies.

Tholudee: dear nlders...pls i urgently need ur advice.my bf broke up wt me yesterday nd i'm starting my exam on monday,though i'v decided to move on but i can jst concentrate on my books since he left my place yesterday...to say d truth i love him so much nd he broke up wt me over a minor issue bt pls ao can i jst get over him nd concentrate on my books

when a lady says IT'S A MINOR ISSUE, trust me you don't wanna go there

This sounds so familiar, anyway what I'll say is focus on your exams now because that's the most important thing, once you start studying you would forget about him because you should be really into your work, take it as a distraction.

THEN after your exams, you can then cry over him, but trust me you would not need to because the time that passed over the exams would have healed
Some of the wounds and you may even meet someone ten times better!

Find yourself a fjuck buddy for the time bn and with time you will be ok