A friend of mine who has requested anonymity wrote the following and is requesting help from fellow forumites.

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Oh no please i need help

I use to go out with this guy for like 3 months. We had a little problem and then broke up. Another of his friends that I met through him (Ex) wanted me and I fell for it. We were together for like 3 weeks, and I stopped seeing him because he was boring and annoying. I couldn't put up with his act.

My ex has alot of friends that I met when we were still together. I broke with that one o and now another one is coming to me again, one of my Ex's friends in jand. He calls me all the time and hum he wants me, all the same story. He is hot, he's got a good voice, he is smart and I can't resist him again.

I don't know if I should fall for him. I am so confused. He even went ahead to buy me a flight ticket to and from the UK in November so we can meet during the Holidays and have a white christmas. He is four years older than I am, he is doing his masters in the University of Kent. He sounds to me like a nice guy but I have only met him once,and it was even at night.

I don't know what he looks like anymore; he is sending his pics soon. I feel is not right because I have been with 2 of his friends, and i don't think it will work out. He's like 'I don't care who've been with, all i want is you'. I am so scared; I don't know what to do. I have been a player for a long time, I just want to settle my ass down with one guy and be serious. I've got lots of them around me but how to make the choice is the problem. Please Help!

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Can you advice her? She's a beautiful young lady.

What will you do with your boyfriend?

I don't think it's bad to go visit someone, at least you are over 21 (you should be able to take care of yourself). Just go visit him and see how stuffs go. You might get there and totally dislike his character. But what do you think your boyfriend will do about this?

Ohhh and christmass is still far, you don't know whether or not u'll still like him by then.
White christmass sound like fun.

As for guys tryna kill you, duh, na dem say make u bootyfull (beautiful)?

Nothing comes for free, you have to pay for your beauty by having so many guys arround you.

just follow your heart and go out with him if you really like him....and don't try to hook up w/ some library guy afterward because that will just mess up your relationship. make sure he's not boring and annoying too.

Thanks for advicing my friend. Here's her reply to your various comments:

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Hotangel, the guy I told you about is just a fling; nothing serious. I am 20 and not 21 and at that I can do whatever I want because I am an adult.

But I know what is wrong and right too. All I want now is a boyfriend and not some guy to have fun and dump after 3 days. I am the difficult type when it come to relationships, very hard to get emotional with someone, so I always dump after dayz.

WesleyanA, the library guy was just for the fun of it. I am the crazy type of girl, I just do crazy things, just for the fun of it. Nothing attached with the Library dude.

Ohh okay. Just do what your heart tells you.

well let her follow her heart.
if deep inside she thinks she is doing the right thing'
let her go ahead.




[move]Beware all that gliters are not Gold.[/move]

nwoke,dont try it to love to her,
becos u will be the one to be very shame infront your friend

Mr Admin/Nwoke/seun/A

is dat U?? dnt do it Nwoke/Seun/a

Rhodalyn:

Mr Admin/Nwoke/seun/A

is that U?? dnt do it Nwoke/Seun/a

why must he do it?

i said he musnt do it!

Rhodalyn:

i said he musnt do it!

uh,ok

ahahaha

For me, your friend is just a layabout else, he wouldn't date a guy for 3 months, break up with him, date his friend for 3 weeks n broke up with dat one too and another of his friend is now desperate ova her. I am sure, she is good in bed and doesn't say no. this is the reason y dey all want her so dat dey can share of d gud cake.

Hahah they are playing the girl like a football, as soon as all 20 of his friends have slept with her, they will discuss her skills in the stout joint

girl, there's pleny other guys to chose from. avoid exe's friends, brothas, cousins, plus they won't really take u seriously, they could b playing u

JUMPER TO JUMPER

CHEAP GIRL LOOKING FOR WHERE TO BURY HER EXPIRED,BLACK ORIFICE

Me thinks the guys are doing ''pass the girl round'' on this one.
Let her walk with her legs and head fast before they all sample her.

cheii this girl has fallen 4 Jand-bite~

girl u need to run,i think they are all playing u,i mean passing you around

Some of these ladies don't think at all before they act.

My dear ur ex is ur ex nd in d past. Why are u worried bout him?? Except u have a feeling they are trying to lure u into a trap

DorisK: My dear ur ex is ur ex nd in d past. Why are u worried bout him?? Except u have a feeling they are trying to lure u into a trap

This thing was posted in 2005 and you're giving advice in 2014, nine years later

@Chuks replied wen I saw it

So seun used to be a troll too

fake story

There is nothing wrong with datin you ex friend. Just make sure he is the type of guy u like...But it will be better for her to tell us what transpire the break up between her and her ex. What if she cause the break up and her intention of datin her ex's friend was to irritate him?...I dont trust players

Chuksemi:
This thing was posted in 2005 and you're giving advice in 2014, nine years later

Chai! i stressed myself typin

This post is older than a child in primary 3...

Chuksemi:
This thing was posted in 2005 and you're giving advice in 2014, nine years later

Wen I saw it buddy

Nine years later..fast forward

when i first saw the topic i was like jeez seun is gay?

marieolae:
Nine years later..fast forward

when you're still bathing outside na.ked!