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Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Katy86(f): 9:06pm On Apr 16, 2011
I know that is different from country to country.

How is it in Nigeria?

Marriages between Cousins allowed or not?

Can you love your Cousin/ Cousine and have children with her/him ?
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by missobeza(f): 9:08pm On Apr 16, 2011
Nope. In Africa,that is considered as incest.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by missobeza(f): 9:09pm On Apr 16, 2011
i meant to say incest. sorry.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Katy86(f): 9:10pm On Apr 16, 2011
But in Northafrica it is quite normal.

How is it with the muslims in Nigeria? Are they allowed ?
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Goldieluks: 9:11pm On Apr 16, 2011
Inbreeding is not practice in Nigeria,as far as i can tell.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Arosa(m): 12:10pm On Apr 17, 2011
Katy86:

I know that is different from country to country.

How is it in Nigeria?

Marriages between Cousins allowed or not?

Can you love your Cousin/ Cousine and have children with her/him ?
Why would anyone want to marry their cousins? the chances of children from such union been deformed are very high. undecided
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Blazay(m): 6:12pm On Apr 17, 2011
I can never see my cousin or any relative with romantic eyes.
My village is not that small. cheesy
In fact, I find them ALL extremely irritating and aggravating.
Pests! angry
I can't stand them ALL. kiss
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Ranoscky(m): 6:53pm On Apr 17, 2011
It's not acceptable in my hometown but to me (personally speaking), I dont think there's anything wrong in it.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Odunnu: 7:35pm On Apr 17, 2011
No! We regard that as sacrilege in Nigeria
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by gacha: 7:42pm On Apr 17, 2011
In The Gambia, cousin are allowed to get married infact its encouraged !
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Tosinville(m): 7:46pm On Apr 17, 2011
Oops!^^
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by MrsChima(f): 8:14pm On Apr 17, 2011
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 17, 2011
Chima bima. u online?
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by MrsChima(f): 8:20pm On Apr 17, 2011
Yes ma'am.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 17, 2011
on skype maddam LOL. me and D-sense are there waiting sis.
check the link i sent you wink cheesy grin

@ topic WTF? lol
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by nanidee(f): 12:15am On Apr 18, 2011
missobeza:

Nope. In Africa,that is considered as Inbreeding.
Goldieluks:

Inbreeding is not practice in Nigeria,as far as i can tell.

well, i think its permitted in the islamic religion (i stand corrrected). And we are well aware that the muslims dominate the northern part of Nigeria.

gacha:

In The Gambia, cousin are allowed to get married infact its encouraged !

Yes, and i would say this is because Gambia is practically an Islamic country.


@ OP, I hope you get my point?
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by vaLasce(m): 12:57am On Apr 18, 2011
Love and marry my cousin?
no way!
wen plenty beautiful non cousins r out der waiting4me?
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by iice(f): 3:37am On Apr 18, 2011
Gross. Odin forbid.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by MrsChima(f): 3:38am On Apr 18, 2011
What about a fifth or sixth cousin?
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by iice(f): 3:40am On Apr 18, 2011
Don't think i can. Even no blood relations i consider family is gross to me
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by MrsChima(f): 3:44am On Apr 18, 2011
I hear you. Someone asked me that a few weeks ago if all the non related men were depleted would I even consider a fifth or sixth cousin. I was like hell no because that still family.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by simpleseyi: 7:58am On Apr 18, 2011
Hello gacha,

Are you a Gambian? I am a Nigerian but I was in Gambia for about 45 days and I really really enjoyed my stay. Gambia is such a wonderful peaceful place. It's just that there is not too much money as in Nigeria.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Ranoscky(m): 8:19am On Apr 18, 2011
You can aswell make the money in Nigerian and move on to Gambia to flex it.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by SexyDuby(f): 5:07pm On Apr 18, 2011
Dats serious TABOO here in Nigeria. ARUEME(ABOMINATION)
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by MeAboki(m): 10:33pm On Apr 18, 2011
^^^^ Sorry to bust your bubble and those in disbelief.
It is quite common in some parts of Nigeria, come to the North where it is considered quite normal because the Islamic religion permits it.

It is also commonly practiced among the royalty of Europe, if you care to check you would come to find that many of them are related by blood, through this sort of inter marriage. I think even the present queen of England may be related to her husband, Prince Phillip ( though not very sure).

One man's meat is another man's poison. cool
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by CrudeOil2(m): 10:36pm On Apr 18, 2011
Even a third/fourth cousin is a taboo.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by orbaxy(m): 10:51pm On Apr 18, 2011
iice:

Gross. Odin forbid.

Do you worship the devil?

Anyway, Nigeria? No imbreeding, Arab blawdy imbreeders. Asians (Pakistanis and Indians) Chronic imbreeders.

Nonetheless, alot of folks here have frolicked with their cuz at one point in time.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by LordReed(m): 12:36am On Apr 19, 2011
Blazay:

I can never see my cousin or any relative with romantic eyes.
My village is not that small. cheesy
In fact, I find them ALL extremely irritating and aggravating.
Pests! angry
I can't stand them ALL. kiss

Typical narcissist. Who do you like in this world? Why don't you marry your mirror and let us rest.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by THEAMAKA(f): 12:51am On Apr 19, 2011
where I come from in Igbo land, its forbidden. there is a family outside of my village that are outcasts because of this. they were said to have been marrying their cousins, and they have been outcasts for the last 3 generations because of it. no one associates with them, or even acknowledge them. its seen as a BIG TABOO where I'm from.
and why would anyone WANT to marry their cousin to begin with? undecided
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by iice(f): 3:04am On Apr 19, 2011
orbaxy:

Do you worship the devil?

In your language probably.
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by Ranoscky(m): 3:59am On Apr 19, 2011
THE AMAKA:

where I come from in Igbo land, its forbidden. there is a family outside of my village that are outcasts because of this. they were said to have been marrying their cousins, and they have been outcasts for the last 3 generations because of it. no one associates with them, or even acknowledge them. its seen as a BIG TABOO where I'm from.and why would anyone WANT to marry their cousin to begin with?

You were brought up that way by Knowing that, it is an abormination/taboo to marry your cousin, so live with it, not to bother why others do, for ALL culture and tradition are not same. ONE MANS FOOD IS ANOTHER MANS POISON !!!

In a normal sense, I see NOTHING in it!
Re: Can You Love Your Cousine/cousin? by orbaxy(m): 5:00am On Apr 19, 2011
iice:

In your language probably.

why am i not surprised.

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