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4 Ways To Improve Your Intimacy With Your Wife by mcbooks(m): 5:31am On Jun 08, 2013
Are you married? If so, you likely love your wife, right? Despite a deep and intense love for
your wife, you may still want to see an improvement in your intimacy. After all, what man
doesn’t want good sex?

If you want to improve your intimacy with your wife, it is important to know that you have a
number of different options. Unfortunately, many men automatically start think of the
bedroom. Yes, you do want to “wow,” your wife in the bedroom, but that is not all that sex
and intimacy is about. In fact, that is where many marriages go wrong. Too much focus is
placed on the sex or the lack of it.

To help you properly improve your intimacy with your wife, please continue reading on. A few
easy to implement, yet successful approaches are highlighted below for your convenience.

1 – Date Her
How long have you been married? If you have been married for a number of years now, do
you honestly remember when your last “real,” date was. Unfortunately, many men
underestimate the power of a date. You will not want to make this mistake. If you opt just for
the sex, your wife may start to feel like it is her responsibility to please you and this is not
how a relationship should work.

To not only improve your satisfaction in the bed, but to improve your wife’s satisfaction, take
her out on a date. Many times, getting out of the house is enough to bring new excitement
into a relationship. For the best level of success, choose a romantic date theme, such as a
fancy dinner, a romantic movie, or a night at a nice hotel.

2 – Compliment Her
When is the last time that you have paid your wife a truly nice and unique compliment? If it
has been a while, it is time for you to start again. Is your wife wearing a new outfit? Has she
recently started a weight loss plan? Did your wife get her hair cut? If so, be sure to
compliment her. Complimenting your wife on her appearance will increase her selfconfidence.
This, in turn, can improve experiences in the bedroom.

As important as it is to compliment your wife on her appearance, it is also important to
remember to compliment her on other areas of your relationship. Do you notice that the
house is clean? Has your wife prepared a nice dinner? If so, thank her for the job well done.
This will not only help to improve your relationship in general, but it can have an impact on
your experiences in the bedroom.

3 – Seduce Her
What is sex like in your home? Does it occur like clockwork? Do you actually take the time to
ask your wife if she wants to have sex? If so, try to refrain from doing so. Yes, you may be
rejected, due to a headache or being tired, but why not take the chance? Be spontaneous.
Seduce your wife. Make her want to have sex with you.

4 – Fulfill Her Fantasies
In keeping with seducing your wife, let her know that you want to fulfill her fantasies. It may
take your wife a few times to open up about what she likes or fantasizes about sexually, but
the information will likely come out soon. Give it your all to fulfill your wife’s sexual fantasies.
It is also important to note that afterwards is the perfect time to share your fantasies and
sexual desires with your wife. In end, you may all end up being much more pleased.

As you can see, there are a number of different ways that you can go about improving the
intimacy in your relationship. Please remember, however, that you want to get started in
someplace other than the bedroom. Sex in a marriage is about more and should be more
than just the act itself. Taking the time to date and compliment your wife will more than pay
off in the end.
Re: 4 Ways To Improve Your Intimacy With Your Wife by vic1999(f): 5:11pm On Jun 22, 2013
@op, good write up. I wonder y people are nt comentn on dis. For d 1st time am readn a write up abt hw 2 pls ur wife, other than d ever how to pls ur husband or man. Especially d seducing part, which is blv 2 b left for d woman alone. Men hv 2 wakeup and do all dis to pls dere wife, instead of d other way round.......kudos@ op
Re: 4 Ways To Improve Your Intimacy With Your Wife by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jun 22, 2013
Until she agrees dat when u can have sex wth ur wife abi? Ok
Re: 4 Ways To Improve Your Intimacy With Your Wife by andyanders: 10:59pm On Jun 22, 2013
Try getting a small bucket of Ice cream and try to empty half on her body and lick it up gently to allow her fell your tongue rolling down the region of her neck through down her bossom to her lower region of her body, This will send down sparkling shock through her vein and she will urge you to ride on and come into her and by the time you are through with her, she will never allow any woman near you and always expect the best meal all the time.Never try this on a work day. Only on a weekend.
Also, try to get her nice see through night gowns and allow her put it on under a dim light and the beauty of God's creation would end up putting you to the pick of a ,,,,,,,,,,.

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