I think she should be more worried about getting herself a husband, she seems to be more worried about other people's business but her own. Let your brother carry his own cross and mind your own. You are not the one he wants to wake up to every morning neither are u the one he wants to make his life partner. Minding your own business doesnt require you to have a doctrate, its about time u learnt how to.

While you are busy making noise on NL, how about u come tell us how many abortions "your decent self" has had before you come here judging other people. She got pregnant and faced the consequences, if the children have survived this far without your brother's assistance, im sure she can still manage to raise them without assistance, the way she did before he came into her life