Its unlike the two of them,my girlfrined and close friend were very good friends. I left both of them in Bauchi and travelled to Lagos for 1 month. On my arrival, the two of them wouldn't talk to each other. I asked the two of them why the sudden change and neither of them said anything. All they said to me was 'nothing'. They wouldn't even say a thing to me, I think there's skeleton in their cupboard and its pissing me off already. Any similar thing ever happened to you? Please contribute!

They have done something hidden but the guilt cant let them be.Maybe unplanned intimacy.Maybe she is angry he forced her into it hence her action. Or he raped her but hard to speak out.

andyanders: They have done something hidden but the guilt cant let them be.Maybe unplanned intimacy.Maybe she is angry he forced her into it hence her action. Or he raped her but hard to speak out.

or the dude asked her out and she declined

My guess is that something happened between them... or your friend knows something about your partner that you dont.

dey ve eatn ur goldn aple. If i were u, i'll quit d rlatnshp btwn d 2. Dey've gottn intimate bhind u. Dis i kno 4 sure

Something don happen between them

your friend caught your girlfriend bleeping your gateman adamu, and she begged him not to inform u about it, so your friend is pondering on whether to tell u or not

BOTTOM LINE - something that will hurt your feelings if you find out happened

Or she caught him peeping at her through the bathroom door key hole when she was in the shower.

why not trick one of them. This will mostly work on the guy
Tell the guy that you are mad at him because your girl told him everything. chances are he would either start saying sorry and explain his point of view or he would say he didn't do anything.

if he says he didn't do anything then you say she said he tried to come on to her. for sure he will tell you the truth after that.




this could back fire though so use at your own risk

^^
Dafuq?

Mynd_44: ^^
Dafuq?

Wha?

the guy just got home and no one is talking he might as well start something to get info

25omega: Wha?

the guy just got home and no one is talking he might as well start something to get info

That sounds cray on every level

^^ but it will work. The dude needs answers which he wouldn't get from being subtle.

they either did the deed or your friend knows something bad about your girl

My take on this is : Most likely the guy tried it on with the girl and she said no. She does'nt want to ruin the relationship between the friends hence keeping quiet about it. If they did anything together there'll be no reason for the malice as they would be in agreement.

@op, why worry yourself? Their secret would soon be reveals to you by one of them. It's a matter of time,just wait and see what will happen. The fact is that, if they can keep secret,you would not have suspected anything from them.

The duo has been doing kerewa on your (matrimonial) bed

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Morayo747: My take on this is : Most likely the guy tried it on with the girl and she said no. She does'nt want to ruin the relationship between the friends hence keeping quiet about it. If they did anything together there'll be no reason for the malice as they would be in agreement.

In total support. They wouldnt be acrimony if they did anything. The guy may have tried some silly moves which d lady rebuffed and she is angry at him bt cant speak out for fear of ruining their relationship. If the lady had been caught cheating, she would rather be extra nice to the guy so he wont report her. I suspect d fault lies with d guy.

the best way to find out is to keep malice with both your wife and friend. And let them know until somebody talks

gsaint trinity: the best way to find out is to keep malice with both your wife and friend. And let them know until somebody talks

Abi oooo

thats what i will do

I dnt understand d kind of relationship we hav dis days! U mean a girl u call ur gf av d guts to hide sometin frm u and u dnt av a clue wat dat means? Wow! I saw a woman yesterday in my street lock her husband inside their flat sayin ''he is nt goin anywhere today'' #the man died in men dat takes poo frm women.

Obviously they have done something behind your back. Either they had sex or your guy toasted your babe and she refused. Either way, beware of your friend cos he isn't your friend.

Wonder why everyone is quick to suggest the guy is likely to be the one at fault. What if it was actually the lady that made the attempt and the dude declined just like the proverbial Joseph?

Mynd_44:
That sounds cray on every level

mynd got a beta idea?

Homguy:
mynd got a beta idea?

I don't but your idea is too far left

There maybe no string attached, reconcile them and move on.

25omega: why not trick one of them. This will mostly work on the guy
Tell the guy that you are mad at him because your girl told him everything. chances are he would either start saying sorry and explain his point of view or he would say he didn't do anything.

if he says he didn't do anything then you say she said he tried to come on to her. for sure he will tell you the truth after that.




this could back fire though so use at your own risk

IF EITHER OR BOTH OF THEM ARE NAIRALANDER IT WONT WORK !!

serious gbege

They might have done something terrible behind your back.