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Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 6:38am On Jun 14, 2013 |
I'm just curious. I was on the other thread about the married man that is in love with another woman. Despite the general empathy shown the woman, some posters later started condemning the woman for an earlier thread she opened where she stated her love for intimacy gadgets. Now my question, is something ethically wrong in using intimacy gadgets in marriage? Should a married couple use it at all, isn't that akin to 'cheating' on your partner? Emphasis on married people. Mature advise please. |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by greatgod2012(f): 6:57am On Jun 14, 2013 |
When the two of them are still alive and still sexually active, and also accessible to each other i thing its not needed/necessary. May God help us all. |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 7:49am On Jun 14, 2013 |
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Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by madone: 8:07am On Jun 14, 2013 |
Nah that is nonsense |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 11:27am On Jun 14, 2013 |
They should be allowed to do whatever and buy whatever. People think gadgets are only used when one is sex starved, or the other is unable to perform well, naaaa not true. People use them to spice up their sex life. Stop acting like you are from my mothers generation, people. 1 Like |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Couples should be able to do whatever pleases them sexually,i won't spend a dime on a intimacy gadget but those it gives the hots should go for it. 1 Like |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Why not?is there any harm in them abi they were not made to be used. Nawaa o! Ok,I c it,only sx workers use dem. In marriage ,there is no inhibition abeg.go wild anyhow u want with ur guy/woman cos its one life! Live it to d fullest! What better way than inside marriage can one fullfil his/her fantasies.like one of my very good friend (a female pastor)said'its only God that know what happens behind closed door b/w her and her hubby.she can't even tell me but they lv it! |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
I sincerely believe a couple that uses toys does so because someone is lacking somewhere Why would I need toys When the man himself is right there in all his glory? There is no substitute for an engorged,pulsating man with the veins criss crossing like the tributaries into River Congo. Unless his fingers are riddled with arthritis ,why would I want want any toys? The man is more than enough biko,if he knows what he is doing and how it ought to be done Turn on a a maxwell tape an do a little strip tease seductively while he grins from ear to ear Start one way,change positions again and again ,you will both be screaming Biko at what point do I open cupboard to bring out umu toys Anyway To each his own Those who sell the gadgets need customers abi Hehehehe I had a friend who boasted about the wonders of toys Na now after divorce we hear say bobo gbara small size 2 Likes |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Hmmm. Divided opinion as I expected. I guess the world is moving on a fast pace, because I personally am finding it difficult to wrap my head around someone using a gadget to pleasure himself or herself, when the real thing dey there, lol. What if one of the partners objects nko? Would the other still go ahead to use it, knowing it's not by mutual consent? Anyway, I'm just learning, so opinions are welcome. At Babyosisi, lol at your friend in denial. 1 Like |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
"had a friend who boasted about the wonders of toys Na now after divorce we hear say bobo gbara small size". Chai!!umunnwanyi Na casting 1 Like |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by LoveAmaka: 11:18pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
chaircover: People hear the word sexx toy and automatically picture a woman with a huge viibrator doing her biz while hubby looks on bewildered. Well said on every point!!!!!!! |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by LoveAmaka: 11:22pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Whoopie: Hmmm. Divided opinion as I expected. I guess the world is moving on a fast pace, because I personally am finding it difficult to wrap my head around someone using a gadget to pleasure himself or herself, when the real thing dey there, lol. What if one of the partners objects nko? Would the other still go ahead to use it, knowing it's not by mutual consent? Anyway, I'm just learning, so opinions are welcome. If one objects that is the only time it is any issue. Both should go back to the drawing board and find out how to please the one that wanted the toys. |
Re: Mature Advice Please: Should Married Folks Use intimacy gadgets? by spoilt(f): 4:20am On Jun 16, 2013 |
@Babyosisi Lol @ veins criss crossing. Toys are for variety. Adds new smells and sensations to the party. Edible panties, masks, handcuffs, blindfolds, vibrating rings for the dude, lotions, massage oils, ticklers etc. Lets just say my closet is interesting. The gadgets hardly come out though. You dont make those routine. Usually birthdays or those weekends when you just go wild. 1 Like |
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