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Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Nov 09, 2013
Is it okay for one that is married or in a relationship to check his or her partners phone?

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by darkgoddes(f): 3:54pm On Nov 09, 2013
Personally, I don't like d idea.
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Nov 09, 2013
darkgoddes: Personally, I don't like d idea.

why? Pls can you explain for better understanding

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Illuminatus(m): 5:29pm On Nov 09, 2013
It is something that is personal and individualistic. Different strokes for different folks.
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Nov 09, 2013
There is no bigdeal in playing with the phone of one's patner though not necessarily for witch-hunting !!

if Una fit share una private parts why not private phone grin !!!

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Nov 09, 2013
donroxy: There is no bigdeal in playing with the phone of one's patner though not necessarily for witch-hunting !!

if Una fit share una private parts why not private phone grin !!!

That means there is nothing wrong in sharing ones phone with their partner in ur own view right?

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Nov 09, 2013

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Nov 09, 2013
chaircover: Since you used the word "checking", what will a partner be checking a phone for? Do they work for the CIA?


Ok but the topic also says access...

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Ijiego: 7:58pm On Nov 09, 2013
The last time i checked/accessed, it was a disaster.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by lolaluv1(f): 8:07pm On Nov 09, 2013
I don't see the need spending the rest of your life doing your day job, then acting the SSS when you get home. Exactly what are you looking for in your partners phone? And what will you do when you see what You're looking for?

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 09, 2013
Ijiego: The last time i checked/accessed, it was a disaster.

That means from your experience it is better to ignore each others phone in order to avoid disaster.
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by greatgod2012(f): 10:21pm On Nov 09, 2013
Yes, we have access to each other's phone but not with the mindset of doing SSS work.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with this, except when case of infidelity is involved.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 09, 2013
There is absolutely nothing wrong in having access to your partners phone,IMO,thats the way it should be.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by igbonla(m): 10:53pm On Nov 09, 2013
The title of the thread and OP's statement are contradictory. Having access to a phone is different from checking the phone.

You should have access in case you need to use it, if yours have an issue. You should not have access for the purpose of checking! Ok, you are free to check as long as you can handle the consequences, especially when you misinterpret situations.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Afam4eva(m): 10:58pm On Nov 09, 2013
Enough of all these small small issues abeg. There's no single marriage rule that everyone should adhere to. Just get to know your spouse's likes and dislikes and see if you can keep up. If you can't go find someone else and avoid getting into a marriage where small issues such as this will cause unnecessarily problems.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by obowunmi(m): 2:24am On Nov 10, 2013
If you don't trust each other, then checking phones will be norm.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by EfemenaXY: 5:39am On Nov 10, 2013
Afam4eva: Enough of all these small small issues abeg. There's no single marriage rule that everyone should adhere to. Just get to know your spouse's likes and dislikes and see if you can keep up. If you can't go find someone else and avoid getting into a marriage where small issues such as this will cause unnecessarily problems.

Well said!

I don tire to read such childish and simplistic questions.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by kings009(m): 6:02am On Nov 10, 2013
Checking your spouses phone is not wrong if you don't have work to do! If you take life that serious you may CHECK into something that will give you high-blood-pressure, hypertension, and all the high tinz Lol grin

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Ennyhollar(f): 3:02pm On Nov 10, 2013
I don't see anything bad in checking ur partners phone since you re one.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Nov 10, 2013
Why should married people be hiding or restricting or snooping into eachothers phones.?

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by dayokanu(m): 5:27pm On Nov 10, 2013
Extremely childish

If you dont trust him, then you dont have to marry him or stay married

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Ijiego: 7:36pm On Nov 10, 2013
joel lala:

That means from your experience it is better to ignore each others phone in order to avoid disaster.
Exactly
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 10:11am On Nov 11, 2013
It doesn't make sense at all,,being in a relationship or marriage doesn't mean U don't av the right to ur privacy...&doing that wuld only get U upset when U see d unxpected..ts nt good

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Teespice(f): 12:06pm On Nov 11, 2013
it is not advisable if you know you don't want to have high blood pressure. besides what you don't know would not kill you. whatever happened to respecting ones privacy?

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Nov 11, 2013
Why most you see this dreaded"unexpected"?
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Nov 11, 2013
No time. Also no interest.
I also believe in letting ur spouse be. An unfaithful spouse will still be regardless of constantly checking and cross checking phones.
Just an act of insecurity.

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 12:30pm On Nov 11, 2013

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by oguash: 2:52pm On Nov 11, 2013
its good for the man to have access but not the woman

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by alotofgrace(m): 2:52pm On Nov 11, 2013
trust covereth all suspicions

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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by nerodenero: 2:54pm On Nov 11, 2013
I think it is only an over-jealous and insecure spouse would keep a constant check on the others phone.
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by 9jahubcom(m): 2:54pm On Nov 11, 2013
i say a big NO
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Nov 11, 2013
Something's are better left unchecked. Knowing might hurt so bad it's not worth the effort.

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