Just as the very recent happening in Jos, you catch ur spouse red-handed in ur matrimonial home sleeping with another man/woman, what will be ur earnest reaction? Would u end the marriage, forgive him/her or cheat back on him/her?

I would leave. To take another woman to our home and proceed to taking her to our bed is premeditated adultery and unforgivable in my book.

I would end it.

I can't categorically say for now... I can only pray n hope I never have to make such a decision.

Even in biblical days, infidelity had since existed and not just today. But then a cheating partner is simply a killing partner. That is the truth! Once u agree to be a spouse to this person b4 the crowd, this automatically means ur body shld remain exclusively intact for him/her alone and him/her alone at all times. Personally i condemn infidelity in marriage. Relationship of a bf and gf is a different ball game, but in marriage, i dont buy to it.

If we end marriages cos of infidelity, what then is the aoth of 'for better for worse'?

Cheating is enough offence on it's own, but cheating irresponsible is waaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy worse. For someone to bring another party into his/her matrimonial home, that is a really GRAVE OFFENCE. There's no point waiting again, even if there's no official divorce, it's packing out things straight up!

alutacontinua: Cheating is enough offence on it's own, but cheating irresponsible is waaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy worse. For someone to bring another party into his/her matrimonial home, that is a really GRAVE OFFENCE. There's no point waiting again, even if there's no official divorce, it's packing out things straight up!

Simplez!

I will forgive her if she apologise and take her back.

Adultery is a breach of my marriage contract.

alutacontinua: Cheating is enough offence on it's own, but cheating irresponsible is waaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy worse. For someone to bring another party into his/her matrimonial home, that is a really GRAVE OFFENCE. There's no point waiting again, even if there's no official divorce, it's packing out things straight up!

easier said than done.

For me i would divorce no matter no of kids. Love without faithfulness-hatred.

I have thrown her things out already.

@scaler345, hope u kidding us?

Definitely I wud never leave him.For what purposeBecause of a woman he brings into our matrimonial home,then my children will suffer a broken home.Nay.Anyways I go buy rat poison OR visit OKIJA
JUJU shrine to tie that him calabar periwinkle to stop hm from derailing

Swthrt, dont tell me u wud buy rat poison or visit okija juju for me o although my prayer/vow always remain i shall not be unfaithful to my precious wife.

RedBenson: Swthrt, dont tell me u wud buy rat poison or visit okija juju for me o although my prayer/vow always remain i shall not be unfaithful to my precious wife.

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Amin

It's over for sure. Things would never be the same again and without trust, you have nothing.

Mynd_44: I will forgive her if she apologise and take her back.

I see you are in a dramatic mood tonight.


@Topic: Him and his shit would be out the door in 2 seconds flat and the b1tch would be right in front of him.