Serginho: I've long logged in here cus of work but i gat dis issue eating me up nd pls i need ur help nd advice as friends.
This girl nd her family packed in to our quarters sometime ago nd it wasnt long; we became friends. I got to meet her family nd they liked me too as her siblings became fond of me nd d parents neva had problems seeing me chat with dia daughter.
She was always fond of hearing stories abt my past dealings with ladies as she always asked me to start 4rm wia i stopped the previous time. I neva lied to her abt my past as she was always sincere with me abt hers but she noticed i've had dealings with many ladies in my college days nd 4rm wat she's been seeing around, i'm very popular with the ladies in my area as any girl dat works past us as we chat outside wud always say hi.
My problem with dis girl is, she snubs me anytime she accidently bumps into me on d street. She pretends like she doesnt know me nd wud walk away quickly even b4 i cud say her name but wen we're alone, she's so relaxed and laughs at everything i say. I've asked why she behaves like dat on d street but she wont say anytin. She prefers not to talk abt it nd even gets angry wen i persist.


Baba na only Jesus Christ fit answer your question.
Sometimes i begin to think she doesnt luv me dat much like i luv her as i think she arnt proud of me before people. One minute i'm with her, i think she luvs me dearly but the next minute she snubs me on the street, i think i've been fooling myself nd i'd be tempted to cutoff 4rm her. Pls ma friends wat do u make of this, why is she acting like this

2goodbobo: From you post I can deduce she has split personally. My advice is for you to let her go and let her be. What is the point still trying to hold on to someone that does not want to be held?

She is holding you like a pinch of salt, so why carry her like a bag of rice?

alutacontinua:

Here we go again. Nairaland psychologists...
Split personality
Hmmmmmmmmmmm
op, der's something she's not telling you.
She could be shy or scared of something. Nobody can say for sure that this is why she acts dt way. Some people just don't like to be seen in public with the opposite sex. Blame their upbringing and our society's view of things.

It would also be helpful if you answer 190's question.

alutacontinua did u call me last nite

Serginho: I've long logged in here cus of work but i gat dis issue eating me up nd pls i need ur help nd advice as friends.
This girl nd her family packed in to our quarters sometime ago nd it wasnt long; we became friends. I got to meet her family nd they liked me too as her siblings became fond of me nd d parents neva had problems seeing me chat with dia daughter.
She was always fond of hearing stories abt my past dealings with ladies as she always asked me to start 4rm wia i stopped the previous time. I neva lied to her abt my past as she was always sincere with me abt hers but she noticed i've had dealings with many ladies in my college days nd 4rm wat she's been seeing around, i'm very popular with the ladies in my area as any girl dat works past us as we chat outside wud always say hi.
My problem with dis girl is, she snubs me anytime she accidently bumps into me on d street. She pretends like she doesnt know me nd wud walk away quickly even b4 i cud say her name but wen we're alone, she's so relaxed and laughs at everything i say. I've asked why she behaves like dat on d street but she wont say anytin. She prefers not to talk abt it nd even gets angry wen i persist.
Sometimes i begin to think she doesnt luv me dat much like i luv her as i think she arnt proud of me before people. One minute i'm with her, i think she luvs me dearly but the next minute she snubs me on the street, i think i've been fooling myself nd i'd be tempted to cutoff 4rm her. Pls ma friends wat do u make of this, why is she acting like this