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Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by deor03(m): 7:10am On Jun 20, 2013
I wear mine , when i am away from home.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by kliq(m): 7:18am On Jun 20, 2013
apache77: .....i dont wear mine..i took it off, a week after my wedding. just not comfortable with it. my wife's friends have told her all manner and she has been giving me heat but i told her thats wat i want. we had an argument last week over sum issue and she angrily too it off..ehn! i warn am! i told her if she is ready to go back to her father's house, she shd let me wake up the next day without seeing it on her finger. needless to say, when i woke up, it was back on her finger.
That's being the man....Baddo cool
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 7:21am On Jun 20, 2013
apache77: .....i dont wear mine..i took it off, a week after my wedding. just not comfortable with it. my wife's friends have told her all manner and she has been giving me heat but i told her thats wat i want. we had an argument last week over sum issue and she angrily too it off..ehn! i warn am! i told her if she is ready to go back to her father's house, she shd let me wake up the next day without seeing it on her finger. needless to say, when i woke up, it was back on her finger.
you're a cheat and a chauvinist.worst combination you can get in a man.aww.poor wife of yours.why don't u wear ur ring?cos u don't want to be easily identified as married?or because your friends don't?so u don't wanna look like a sissy to them?why then do u insist ur wife wears hers?Isn't it so men will see she's married and keep offvbut u want ladies flocking around u?or u wanna be able to decieve some innocent girl that you're still single and will marry her?
I get that a lot.married men trying to disgrace them selves and their wives just for a fling.some will swear with their mama's lives that they are single.It takes a discerning eye to note the difference and run away from philandering married men.who only serve to get STD's from various sources and go give it to their wives at home.
Pls respect your marriage.if it means anything to you.me thinks you've forgotten what you were saying during the exchange of rings.and those supporting ur views are just cheats as well. Y'all can crucify me.I say it the way I feel it

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Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by kliq(m): 7:32am On Jun 20, 2013
Shakara123: Am not married but the few times I tried wearing a ring, I realized how uncomfortable I felt.

Even wrist watches and necklaces make me uncomfortable. I love freedom and it is at such times I respect married couples who keep it real always with each other.
Same goes....I jus end up switchin d ring around diff fingers cus it can't stay on 1 particular @ a long stretch + d mark it leaves which makes it itchy
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 7:41am On Jun 20, 2013
I wear mine always. It's become part of my body.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by riyaq: 7:46am On Jun 20, 2013
Making a woman wear a ring is a sign that you view her like property

its like a receipt attached to a purchase
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Naijalastborn(m): 7:48am On Jun 20, 2013
my ring never jump out of my finger since our wedding, my own opinion is that wearing your wedding ring always keep u devoted to ur vrouw or man.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Reference(m): 7:50am On Jun 20, 2013
greatgod2012: Does putting on wedding ring ALWAYS prevent a potential cheat from cheating

Does putting on wedding ring ALWAYS prevent a potential abuser from abusing

Honesty, faithfulness, mutual respect, love and tolerance are all from the heart, not in wearing of ring always.



@op, to answer your question, i wear it when i remember to put it on, if i dont remember to put it on, no big deal, my marriage is important to me, not the ring.

Even God found that out long time ago. Objects, rites, rituals and other symbolism simply doesn't work. Those that hang crosses on their necks or stickers of Jesus Christ on their dash boards are the same. A vain attempt to convince, persuade or perhaps deceive.

A casual onlooker may fall for it but those that interact will detect intentions within seconds as to whether that is just expensive junk on your finger or otherwise. It is the heart.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Reference(m): 8:01am On Jun 20, 2013
riyaq: we dont wear rings in somalia


buy i make her walk 6 feet behind me so people know she belongs to me

sometimes she walks to slow, so i have to wait for her to catch up


she doesnt wear high heels cause sometimes i run

Okay. Whatever floats your boat. Talk about 'wedding band'.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by SafireGigi: 8:01am On Jun 20, 2013
I am married and do not wear my wedding band at alllllllll,my husband has no problem with this as he does not wear his either. I have been married for a year.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by pkween(f): 8:06am On Jun 20, 2013
dridowu: Though not married but i dnt believe in wearing it all d time because sincerity in marriage comes from the heart not from the ring.
Then,if that's the case why use a ring as a symbol of agreement when u know you will either trade it,not wear it ?Later, some of us will start talking about the deeper life
members who do not use rings.......
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by knowledge4(m): 8:07am On Jun 20, 2013
The last time i wore it was about 15 years ago.
I do not know where i kept it. I've not seen it for years and not interested in searching for it anyway.
To me,it is not important.That's woman's business to flaunt wedding rings.
Anyone who sees me and thinks i am still single because i have no wedding ring must be blind indeed.
There are many women who wear wedding rings and commit adultery with the rings intact on their fingers.
So what statement is a wedding ring making?
Absolute Rubbish!Wedding Rings my foot!
Faithfulness to your spouse comes by conviction in your heart, by faithfulness to God, not by a wedding ring.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Ezedon(m): 8:08am On Jun 20, 2013
dridowu: Though not married but i dnt believe in wearing it all d time because sincerity in marriage comes from the heart not from the ring.

hmmm, well lets assume that there's sincerity in marriage
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by pkween(f): 8:08am On Jun 20, 2013
knowledge4: The last time i wore it was about 15 years ago.
I do not know where i kept it. I've not seen it for years and not interested in searching for it anyway.
To me,it is not important.That's woman's business to flaunt wedding rings.
Anyone who sees me and thinks i am still single because i have no wedding ring must be blind indeed.
There are many women who wear wedding rings and commit adultery with the rings intact on their fingers.
So what statement is a wedding ring making?
Absolute Rubbish!Wedding Rings my foot!
Faithfulness to your spouse comes by conviction in your heart, by faithfulness to God, not by a wedding ring.
Why use it as a symbol of agreement and not your heart??
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by riyaq: 8:09am On Jun 20, 2013
I have a question


are there any single nigerian women who want to get to know a handsome somali?



plz dont 419 me
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by pkween(f): 8:09am On Jun 20, 2013
dridowu: Though not married but i dnt believe in wearing it all d time because sincerity in marriage comes from the heart not from the ring.
Then,if that's the case why use a ring as a symbol of agreement when u know you will either trade it,not wear it ?
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by kliq(m): 8:14am On Jun 20, 2013
lorretta u: you're a cheat and a chauvinist.worst combination you can get in a man.aww.poor wife of yours.why don't u wear ur ring?cos u don't want to be easily identified as married?or because your friends don't?so u don't wanna look like a sissy to them?why then do u insist ur wife wears hers?Isn't it so men will see she's married and keep offvbut u want ladies flocking around u?or u wanna be able to decieve some innocent girl that you're still single and will marry her?
I get that a lot.married men trying to disgrace them selves and their wives just for a fling.some will swear with their mama's lives that they are single.It takes a discerning eye to note the difference and run away from philandering married men.who only serve to get STD's from various sources and go give it to their wives at home.
Pls respect your marriage.if it means anything to you.me thinks you've forgotten what you were saying during the exchange of rings.and those supporting ur views are just cheats as well. Y'all can crucify me.I say it the way I feel it
Slowdown...nid not go down so hard on d young man...let him live it,sure his wife is coping. Back 2 d "cheat" mattter,wit or without d ring on,u even hear young girls say "they only date married men" however its all up to d man or woman to kip it real n not d ring...all d best
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by andyzoga: 8:17am On Jun 20, 2013
Okeyson4wisdom: let me tell u in exodus 33 vs 2 and 1timothy 2 vs 9 God condemed wearing of Gold, why would u wear a ring when u know that u re already one, it shows that u dont even trust urselves. Drop all these for they are the items of the devil. The truth is bitter, but if u must make heaven u need to drop these.
Ha! Where did this come from? Pls, stop this preaching from the pit of hell o. When God said "silver and gold are mine". He also told us He lays silver and gold as dust... Tell me where it's written that they're from the devil? Let's read our bibles with understanding and not wit fear which always put many in bondages. Your love for them,ie placing them above God is what makes them an idol to you. Stay blessed.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by werlay(m): 8:26am On Jun 20, 2013
Ring or no ring whoever will cheat will cheat. Fine, it is supposed to be symbol of marrital status. But its not a deterant to cheating. Many girls nowadays even prefer married men like-wise have we seen married women cheating. My point is ring wouldnt stop anybody from doing whatever they want to do.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 8:41am On Jun 20, 2013
What is the use of the damn ring? Well, most of the time, I forget to wear it.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by oluwajenyokale(m): 8:47am On Jun 20, 2013
always with me 24/7
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 8:58am On Jun 20, 2013
lorretta u: you're a cheat and a chauvinist.worst combination you can get in a man.aww.poor wife of yours.why don't u wear ur ring?cos u don't want to be easily identified as married?or because your friends don't?so u don't wanna look like a sissy to them?why then do u insist ur wife wears hers?Isn't it so men will see she's married and keep offvbut u want ladies flocking around u?or u wanna be able to decieve some innocent girl that you're still single and will marry her?
I get that a lot.married men trying to disgrace them selves and their wives just for a fling.some will swear with their mama's lives that they are single.It takes a discerning eye to note the difference and run away from philandering married men.who only serve to get STD's from various sources and go give it to their wives at home.
Pls respect your marriage.if it means anything to you.me thinks you've forgotten what you were saying during the exchange of rings.and those supporting ur views are just cheats as well. Y'all can crucify me.I say it the way I feel it

Great post!

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Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 9:13am On Jun 20, 2013
m.esther96:
me too!!smiley
your miracle is on the way
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 9:14am On Jun 20, 2013
riyaq: I wear mine on my penissss, when i get erect, the ring gets tight around my genitals thus causing me great satisfaction


am into very hardcore pornn,
That's my boy, you never disappoint in displaying your stupidity...like father like son
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by riyaq: 9:24am On Jun 20, 2013
barcanista: That's my boy, you never disappoint in displaying your stupidity...like father like son


are you into this too


care to share any techniques
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by olekubaby: 10:01am On Jun 20, 2013
My wedding ring is one of the symbol of my marrital status that i cherish. Before i got married, i envied my friends who never waste an opportunity to flash their hands showing off their wedding band. Meaning i couldnt wait to wear mine, and since i got married 16 yrs and still counting, my peeps am still proudly flashing my wedding band.

Honour your man/woman by declaring you have been taken. Wear your wedding band always.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by nsodo: 10:10am On Jun 20, 2013
Actually the truth is that me i totally forget it and in month i put it on only once or not at all
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Joarams(m): 10:34am On Jun 20, 2013
kay2000: We are almost 3 years in marriage and ours has never left our fingers. We bath with it, cook and do all manner wit it. If you are planning marriage pls get gold rings, they don't get rusty and causes no irritation like GL. Wedding ring is very symbolical. It is the first evidence of your marital status at a glance. If you are married and ur wife does not wear her wedding ring and u are not disturb about it cos u don't wear urs also, then don't get disturbed when she is frequently harrassed.

Sounds like nobody gets disturbed even with their ring? I am proudly married but we both do not wear rings (for personal reasons). My wife is very beautiful and we haven't had any problems with harassment...we didn't have it in our ten years before marriage as well. She's heavy with my child and I think that's sign enough for anyone who cares.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Yoney007(f): 10:35am On Jun 20, 2013
Wearing or not wearing ur wedding ring won't stop a babe from saying "Yes" if u toast her neither will it stop babes from throwing themselves at you if they want to as a man......As a woman, it doesn't stop you from been winked at nor stop guys/men from starring at your behind when u walk pass and if u don't mind, you can also get banged with the ring on. I have this admiration for men who rock their wedding rings anyday and anytime......Its gives them this aura of "a responsible" kinda man and if am to "get down" with a married man I would go for the "ring flaunting" ones. Personally, when I get married I won't take off my ring....not at all.
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by dridowu: 10:37am On Jun 20, 2013
pkween: Then,if that's the case why use a ring as a symbol of agreement when u know you will either trade it,not wear it ?
ok dat is another point of view, 4 trading, let us pray to God not 2 hv financial issue, if it occur, d husband/wife will encourage each oda to sell it off immediately
Re: How Often Do Your Wear Your Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 11:08am On Jun 20, 2013
pboiskinpy: if you dont go out with your wedding ring,Is either you are not proud of your spouse or you are eager to cheat(or already a cheat)...#I NEVA MARRY shaaa


If you never marry this matter no concern you

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