Who is an "over-controlling guy? Is probably the first question you may want to ask and also how does one get to know if their partner is or isn't anything close to it.

Being in a controlling relationship could be very annoying. The funny thing about these relationships is that some women will spot out a controlling man immediately and call him on his mess. Others don’t notice until someone points it out to them or something extreme happens. Then there are others who don’t realize they’re in a controlling relationship until the relationship is over.

There is one sign out of a dozen ways to find out if a man is too controlling in a relationship that I personally do not like. And that is:

A MAN who uses his woman insecurities against HER.

This has to be one of the most disgusting and most common issues in relationships that center around a controlling guy. A man who knows that his wife or girlfriend is insecure about something and uses it to his advantage to hurt her feelings or put her down is sure to have some type of control issues. This is absolutely never okay.

If you find that your guy knows that you are sensitive about something such as your weight etc., and chooses to constantly point it out or make jokes about it, knowing that it hurts your feelings, you may want to reconsider this relationship. A person who loves you is looking to build you up, not break you down.

Other ways to catch "over-controlling guys in relationships are:

1: They're the types that obsessively checks your cellphone (with smiles and hardened heart)

2: Constantly monitoring your social networking profiles (looking out for reason to fight you)

3: Dislikes when you hang out with people other than him (the height of insecurity itself)

4: Flips out anytime he can’t get in touch with you (jealous you could be with another!)

5: Always trying to make decisions for you (Assuming your Daddy's position without notice)

6: Wants to know every waking details of your life (Your creator)

7: Being abusive (Is who he's)

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I he does all these, he actually care

Are those your definition of a CARING GUY?

forkinsonlolo: I he does all these, he actually care

relationship/marriage breakers at it again!!

forkinsonlolo: I he does all these, he actually care

Don't mind the op. If guy no love up now they will b complaining. Guy love up finish na wahala. Mtcheeew

These relationship manuals are getting to much here o. Today is go left and tomorrow is go right.