Hey Nairalanders ,

I need you guys to advice me please : I have a girl friend who I have been dating for close to 3 years now and I truely love her but issues with my parents and my younger sister is making things difficult for me , my parents most especially my mom does not like her they claim she is a witch ,she has given birth before , she can not bare a child and all of which some of them are not true but some like a witch and all those can not be verified, this issue is dragging close to 2 yrs now but we are still dating but the problem now is I seem not to trust her becos of what people say ( she has not done anything wrongh ) and this is making things difficult , what do you think I can do , I love her and I was the one that deflower her advice me please

you have dated a girl for 3 yrs and you are still confused?

wow!! what then can we say since we dont even know her.

but if you are still not sre of her, then i think there is a problem

I Lover Her But I Don't Trust Her

no wonder you are still confused

"i lover her but i dont truster her" ya verbs gotta agree my nigga

^ You've just resurrected this dead thread.

The title was too funny

Please leave that girl alone so she will move on with her life and find someone deserving.

What rubbish .

Well I know of two methods to determine if a woman is a witch:

1 tie her hands and throw her into a pond, if she sinks she is innocent, if she floats she is a witch.
2 burn her at the stake, if she screams she is a witch, if she does not she is innocent.

Has she ever turned into a cat? does she always take a broom with her when she leaves the house? Watch for those subtle indicators.

good luck
WB

The simple solution is for you to leave the "innocent" girl alone and just marry your mother or sister....If I was her brother, I would be keeping a very opened eye on you....strange person

you don't trust her cz of wat ple said or are saying... who exactly are d people? ur biased family? pls do her a favor and leave her alone. she deserves better.

@ Op,
I understand exactly what you are experiencing. A friend of mine was once in a situation like this. His family was against his girlfriend and this led to distrust. It became so worse that she even started going out with different men. Her life took a different turn. He let her be. But he didn't relent in prayers.
If you search deep in your spirit, thoroughly, and you find out that you still care about her, don't give up the trust. Pray about it. I'm sure God will give you the answers that is best. Relationships need time to develop - just like humans need time to grow and stay healthy.