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be dat as it may, the op is now married and should face his family.
op, pray that she finds d ryt one but don't think u could ve been the ryt one. don't let ur guilt lead to wat do dey call it.... emotional cheating!

This is a true , moral, honest and a godly advise. God bless you for being sincere enough with your advise. Proferring advise is one thing, the other person accepting it and putting it into practise is another thing. The choice is his.

foxgiovani: don't really know what to say. The mum told me in confidence that as afar as she knows, there is no other man in her life. And the friends that are close to me tells me the same thing. I just wish she settles down cos she's really not gething any younger. I don't want her saying she spent the better part of her flower age with me. Asap.

What's the problem again man? You're happily married with kids. Yes, you wasted part of her flower age but that is not your fault if what you're saying here is true.

She forgot about you for 5whole days?Unimaginable excuse for a 4yr relationship.

D sage:

What's the problem again man? You're happily married with kids. Yes, you wasted part of her flower age but that is not your fault if what you're saying here is true.

yea, just that I still feel concerned about her having a normal life. Don't want anybody blaming me for anything that's all.

I find it rily silly dat after 4yrs u wud still have a gal dat took u for granted at heart wen u are happily married wit kids.man I tink u shud face ur family and let God sort her out.

My friend face your wife and family and stop worrying over nothing. Haven't you heard that is pointless to campaign after election?

2goodbobo: My friend face your wife and family and stop worrying over nothing. Haven't you heard that is pointless to campaign after election?

Smilling.

OP, its a pity u feeling sorry for smone who doesn't even feel sorry for herself, read ur story urself, she left home for 13days lieing nd all that, she was surely playing card games with you assuming she hit jackpot I guess she will have left u in a more hurt mood dan u are now. You took d best decision man no matter u didn't drop her she dropped u first, by now she would av learn not to tk ppl for granted cos she felt so relaxed in d relationship, if u still calling her or keeping anytin relating to her u gving urself a lot more head ache, focus on d woman that appreciates you nd ur babys dey are all that matters for nw nd forever more, u deserve the best nd nothing Less.

femcruz: OP, its a pity u feeling sorry for smone who doesn't even feel sorry for herself, read ur story urself, she left home for 13days lieing nd all that, she was surely playing card games with you assuming she hit jackpot I guess she will have left u in a more hurt mood dan u are now. You took d best decision man no matter u didn't drop her she dropped u first, by now she would av learn not to tk ppl for granted cos she felt so relaxed in d relationship, if u still calling her or keeping anytin relating to her u gving urself a lot more head ache, focus on d woman that appreciates you nd ur babys dey are all that matters for nw nd forever more, u deserve the best nd nothing Less.

Many tanx @ femcruz. I don't just know why I keep remembering her. Probably due to the level of affection that I had for her. One thing am sure of is that I probably would have died before my time if I had married her. Thanks once again for your splendid advise.

foxgiovani: One funny but stupid thing is that am nw married with the kind of wife I begged God for yet, I hardly spend a week without remembering my ex-gf. Am trying to subdue remembering her anyway. Life is ridiculous.

in edcuational research, we call dis TYPE 1 ERROR.

Jenams: in edcuational research, we call dis TYPE 1 ERROR.

pls what does that mean?

She is telling people that know us that if I loved her very much, that no matter what she does, that I would have forgiven her.

foxgiovani: She is telling people that know us that if I loved her very much, that no matter what she does, that I would have forgiven her.

The truth is 'maybe it was never meant to work out btwn both of u' something just Needed to happen. Btw do u still listen to what people say abi you want them to ruin your marriage

ULSHERLAN:
The truth is 'maybe it was never meant to work out btwn both of u' something just Needed to happen. Btw do u still listen to what people say abi you want them to ruin your marriage

God forbid. Am married and intend to remain married to my wife. This whole thing is just a distraction which am fighting to overcome.

Face your wife and children

ULSHERLAN: Ur action was justifiable. Why would she forget you for that 5days it probably means she was remembering somebody else all through that period. Nice one

exactly my point.

Abeg? Na only woman they waste flower age?

The truth about worrying is that it won't change anything. She's probabily wishing she took the relationshp more serious dan she did.

Mr,face ur family biko. Stop listening to side talks. Sit her down and talk some sense into her,love is not enough to keep marriage together, those her petty petty lies destoryd the trust on which the marriage could have been built.

The essence of courtshp is for a successful marriage,i dont see y u are feeling guilty. God has already blesd u.

chidyhels: Abeg? Na only woman they waste flower age?

The truth about worrying is that it won't change anything. She's probabily wishing she took the relationshp more serious dan she did.

Mr,face ur family biko. Stop listening to side talks. Sit her down and talk some sense into her,love is not enough to keep marriage together, those her petty petty lies destoryd the trust on which the marriage could have been built.

The essence of courtshp is for a successful marriage,i dont see y u are feeling guilty. God has already blesd u.

really appreciate your view. Like somebody advised earlier, let God sort things out for her. I just feel concerned bc age is telling on her. I leave her and God sha.

bknight: ^ loving d wrong one is a burden, only time can offload.

smilling.

chidyhels: Abeg? Na only woman they waste flower age?

The truth about worrying is that it won't change anything. She's probabily wishing she took the relationshp more serious dan she did.

Mr,face ur family biko. Stop listening to side talks. Sit her down and talk some sense into her,love is not enough to keep marriage together, those her petty petty lies destoryd the trust on which the marriage could have been built.

The essence of courtshp is for a successful marriage,i dont see y u are feeling guilty. God has already blesd u.

its ridiculous I must say.