Boss2013: So men cheat, women cheat.... There is no denying that.

But which African men cheat the most? So many African men have developed reputations amongst the people I know, it makes it so hard to seriously date and be optimistic.

In South Africa, its like Sodom & Gommorah. Everybody seems to be doing everybody and if your not down then they think something is wrong with you. And with the HIGH AIDS rate, you'd think people would be a little more scared. West African women say the South African women are very easy and from what I saw all some guys had to do was say a girl was pretty and they'd be making out. She'd be ready to drop her draws.... So in South Africa, West African men Ghanaians and Nigerians get away with murder. Sleeping around and everyone knows it, not coming home.... The South African women worship them because they say they get treated better with them than their own men. But the Nigerian, Ghanaian men still cheat, they are just better providers and more charismatic.

The one story I heard about a Liberian man was all bad. Cheating, fathering children and letting another man think it was his children; even though he (real dad) had DNA test results.... And his family claiming he was tricked by the girl. I don't know many Liberians, so its not as bad as the Nigerian Guys and Ghanaian Guys.

Ghanaian men are known for the lying, cheating, and double lives, secret families abandoning/denying their children. And most Nigerian men say they are cheap.

Nigerian men have become known for all the same as the Ghanaian men plus.... Having multiple wives and kids and different households and everybody knowing about each other and it being okay as long as everyone is taking care of.

But really is it impossible to find a faithful and honest man?

I really wanna hear from women who allow their husband to have other wives and other kids. I mean really how good of a companion and father could he be when his time is split amongst multiple households? Or does that part not really matter? Help me understand.... Growing up with a father with multiple kids everywhere, I didn't have a relationship with him. I think he had anywhere from 10- 13 kids and don't think he took care of any of them.

I don't really wanna hear from men. Just wanna hear what the ladies think.

-Mr Cork-:



...well I have never ever cheated.. sweeery are u light skin? ..please advise!

lyfe: Please remind me which country these people : Tuface, Iyanya, Jim Iyke, 190, Mr Cork, Omiobo come from?

-Mr Cork-:



...well I have never ever cheated.. sweeery are u light skin? ..please advise!

Mrs.Chima:
African?

West? East? North? South? Central?

Nigerian
Somalian
Kenyan
Algerian
South African
Zambian
Senegalese
Angolian
Cameroonian
.Ethiopian
Sudanese
Rwandan

Enegod: i don't understand why Nigeria is on top of that list....

lyfe: Please remind me which country these people : Tuface, Iyanya, Jim Iyke, 190, Mr Cork, Omiobo come from?

Mrs.Chima:
African?

West? East? North? South? Central?

Nigerian
Somalian
Kenyan
Algerian
South African <---- They are absolutely too much
Zambian
Senegalese
Angolian
Cameroonian
.Ethiopian
Sudanese
Rwandan

Mynd_44: Smh......

Human being cheat, whether they are from Nigeria, China or Uzbekistan

Omen100: I can't speak for others but as for my Nigerian Men/brothers. We, Nigerian men don't cheat and we will never engaged in such immoral act & that's why we are unique, bold, strong & happy but if by any chance find a Nigerian Man cheating then hold his spouse responsible for his actions,

thank you all.

Wu Zetian: I don't know

My puccy is yet to travel the whole African continent.

Truckpusher: Until our women/girls begin to see that material gain in any form of relationship isn't just normal ,men will continuously cheat on them with bravado......After all he who pays the piper dictates the tune.

YOU DON'T JUST MAKE RULES FOR PEOPLE TO OBEY THEM ,BUT YOU MAKE RULES THAT WILL FORCE PEOPLE TO OBEY THEM.








I do not support or subscribe to any ideology that will make people involved to be emotionally unbalanced.

virgin ice: I don't no abt oda parts of Africa buh Nigerian men are jus BAD! Dey can lie and Cheat like it's innate. Even d women r beginnin to see it as a norm and those married give advice to newly wedded and say 'my dear, u jus av to accept ur fate' wc mumu fate? SMH.

Boss2013:

And some women are into hooking up their friends, nieces, etc with married men like its okay. Misery loves company. And those who have been mistreated want others to be mistreated so it doesn't seem so bad.

Boss2013:

VERY, VERY True BUT not all women know there man is cheating. And not all women stay with him once they find out. And not all men who cheat are Great providers either. IDK, may never be understandable.

I'd rather be with a modest man who is hard working and committed than a wealthy man who has excess time to commit to everyone who is interested.

And it does have a lot to do with ego and self esteem, cause most men who are serial cheaters couldn't handle being cheated on. Not once by their wives. Nor would they support a child that is the product of adultery. But somehow, some women do.

Mynd_44:
It is a vicious cycle

Truckpusher: I'm not generalizing that all women/girls accepts and condone a cheating spouse or bf ,but if you consider the number of married men out there chasing everything on skirt whilst their wives looks the other way then i can categorically say that cheating for the male folks is widely accepted in our society as a norm and you can always blame this as result of our inability to criminalize polygamy and bigamy.

Even if you fight these two aforementioned elements above to a standstill today ,you still have the political quagmire to deal with.How can you remove polygamy which has been the platform and the bedrock on which cheating springs from and gets nourished in Nigeria when some religion in the country encourages some people to marry four wives......we do have a problem up in our a$$

Boss2013:

Indeed and leads to mental health problems. But its easier to say a person has been cursed than to say their spouse drove them crazy.

bejahisky: Your father...

Boss2013:

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Written like a guilty child raised in an unstable home.