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Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by tpia5: 1:01pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
maclatunji: To the best of my knowledge, most are not. However, it could depend on environment, like i mentioned before. Also, things might have changed. |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by tunde1200(m): 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
hayubee: Jazakallahu karyrih fidunnyaa wal ahkira (amin) @ op Alfa.... |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by sino(m): 3:24pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
deols: I do appreciate your perspective, i think we do agree to a greater extent, so its all good. My fears are natural, i now understand, sincerity and giving the best at my disposal not forgetting the prayer factor is all i need to do as a dutiful father... I look foward to having both male and female children, righteous and dedicated Muslims in shaa Allah. 1 Like |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by maclatunji: 4:26pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
deols: Very articulate. |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by deols(f): 4:46pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
maclatunji: thank you |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by adediamond07(m): 4:47pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
@tbaba Jazakum-llah khaeran It is indeed a good message |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by maclatunji: 5:44pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
deols: You are welcome. |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by tpia5: 2:28am On Jul 07, 2013 |
sino: i'm not advocating positive thinking [i'm not into that, especially with negative thinking reigning these days, much better to acknowledge that than live in denial]. what i meant is what you say or believe will also affect your interaction with others. for example, going back to the post in question [sorry to bring it up again], if you have the mindset that daughters will give you stress, its likely they will, since you will relate with them in that fashion. let's say a woman has bad experiences with or hears bad things about men and relates with her sons in a manner that reflects her negative opinion of the male gender. Chances are she will do so even without meaning to, because she feels a bad vibe when she sees men, her sons included. hope you get my point? Not sure if its clear. Its not positive thinking, but your own perception of how you want to view something. |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by sino(m): 10:08am On Jul 07, 2013 |
tpia@:I think it's the same thing, our thoughts are the foundation of our perception or to better put, they influence our perception and hence our action. "For every action, there is an intention and every man will get what he intended..." Prophet(SAW) "The ancestor of every action is a thought"Ralph Waldo Emerson...We can easily say, we are what we think. I do understand your point, and it is very true. I am going to stress positive thinking cos of your statement "i'm not advocating positive thinking" My initial thoughts were negative, which affected my perception of female children, all i need to do is to change my thought patterns to positive to get the right perception, like Mac said, i should look more at the prospects rather than the challenges of raising a female child. My perception(thoughts) would affect what happens to me and how i would react to them, which is the basis of the law of attraction, like attract like... As a muslim, i understand this natural phenomenon perfectly through the hadith of the Prophet(SAW) when he said, "Strange are the ways of a believer, for there is good in every affair of his and this is not the case with anyone else except in the case of a believer for if he has an occasion to feel delight, he thanks (God), thus there is a good for him in it, and if he gets into trouble and shown resignation(and endures it patiently), there is a good for him in it." A person who thinks positively would show gratitude when good comes his way, and will show patience during adversity, he is perpetually in good spirit. Positive thinking is not running away from reality or not acknowledging the negativity we face, rather it's a better option than dwelling on the negative things that befalls us which would in turn affect our perception of things and lead us to live a wretched life. 1 Like |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by maclatunji: 11:37am On Jul 07, 2013 |
All ye my people, let us relax. |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by tbaba1234: 6:20am On Jul 08, 2013 |
I made an error earlier, in Surah Saffat, Ibrahim specifically asked for a son. Ismail. Totally slipped my mind. |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by lerweesart(f): 7:57pm On Jul 20, 2013 |
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Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by biolabee(m): 2:39pm On Jul 21, 2013 |
Bobbystanley: An Ibo man like me is ready to do anything to have a male child..female children are not regarded as members of the family because they will marry elsewhere.. I bow for you oh People like you will expect ur wife to come with material blessings n favors Users |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by biolabee(m): 2:43pm On Jul 21, 2013 |
dasparrow: I like this post People like that tempt God with useless attitudes Can you create life,,, yet u say female children are not It Tragic |
Re: Boy Or Girl Child, Which Is Better? - An Islamic Perspective by biolabee(m): 2:45pm On Jul 21, 2013 |
tbaba1234: Good one Instead of praying for a healthy child that will take care of you, na gender u dey focus on... |
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