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30 Dating Rules To Remember. by gbolakpine(m): 11:07am On Jul 11, 2013
1) Don't reveal too much about yourself too soon. Remain a mystery.

2) Girls are not the only thing in life. Have other things in your life that excite you.

3) Do not become so invested in any one girl that you cannot simply walk away.

4) Confidence attracts women even more than good looks. This is why you see fat, ugly, or dumpy guys with hot chicks.

5) Desperation repels women. You will attract more women when you don't care if you're attracting women.

6) After getting a girl's phone number, wait at least two days to call her to avoid appearing desperate.

7) Use the phone only to set up dates. Not to talk about weather, current events, how her day went, etc. Save that conversation for the date.

cool If you call a girl and get an answering machine, don't leave a message. Just try again another time. Girls, as a general rule, do not return phone calls.

9) First dates should be short and creative. NO "dinner and a movie". Things involving some activity are best: pool, bowling, roller blading, mini-golf, dancing, etc. Keep it FUN.

10) Do not give gifts early in the relationship. Doing so makes it appear as though you are attempting to purchase affection.

11) Girls will test guys to see how much they can skate by with. Do not be tempted to give in. Speak your opinions, stand by your convictions, and don't put up with excessive amounts of BS.

12) A person can only take advantage of you as much as you let them.

13) There is no such thing as a "soul mate" or "the one". It doesn't exist. There are millions of girls out there, though, and many of them have the traits you are looking for.

14) Don't put any woman up on a pedestal. You risk not being able to reach her. Women are people too... or so I'm told.

15) If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don't hesitate to get rid of her. NEXT!

16) No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. Until then, anything is fair game for both parties involved.

17) Never be the one that says, "I love you" first.

18) The challenge is part of the fun. Don't short-change the girl. Let her pursue you. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be.

19) If a girl cheats on you, she is gone. No exceptions.

20) Never date a girl who has more problems than you do.

21) Do not date girls from work. Work is stressful enough.

22) Dating is a "numbers game". Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected more times than not. Suck it up and get back out there.

23) Getting advice about women from a woman is like asking Osama bin Laden to tell you the locations of all his terrorist camps.

24) Where women are concerned, pay more attention to what they do than what they say.

25) Realize that women are tricky, lying, manipulative, devious, scheming, sneaky, cunning, calculating, shrewd, and Machiavellian creatures. Love them anyway.

26) Bros before hoes. Any girl that can be stolen from your best friend isn't worth stealing from your best friend.

27) Stay away from your ex. Chances are that you won't be able to get back with her. Chances are also good that if you DO succeed in getting back with your ex, you'll wish that you hadn't.

28) Women communicate in two modes: the way things are, and the way they WISH things were. Whenever in doubt, assume it's the latter choice.

29) Women desire attention the same way that guys desire sex. Give attention sparingly. This is your currency.

30) If you aren't sure about when to bend or break a rule, go with your instinct. If it's wrong, that's a good lesson for next time... and there's always a next time.

http://mysuccesslane..com/p/love-tips.html

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Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by Nobody: 11:23am On Jul 11, 2013
All this rules about relationships and women-can we atleast breath' haba let people do whats best for them no rules applicable, if things go wrong they should know what to do afterall relationship is not for kids its for mature adults.
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by ajasbaba(m): 11:27am On Jul 11, 2013
nice write up. i just love it
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by Oxygenmayo(m): 12:34pm On Jul 11, 2013
do all these add up to a good relationship? dating things, a game..try one; messed up, go for the other till you're satisfied with the one you eventually meet..
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jul 11, 2013
Sum all that up and the tears of guys crying my gf did dis nd that will surely reduce on NL, buh d problem is no one would listen.
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by Saraben(f): 2:58pm On Jul 11, 2013
All d rules 4 jst a chick..haba na by force?
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jul 11, 2013
Saraben: All d rules 4 jst a chick..haba na by force?
yes oh! Na by force oh! because una own don too much! Nansense!
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by cityhood: 9:56pm On Jul 11, 2013
gbolakpine: 1) Don't reveal too much about yourself too soon. Remain a mystery.

2) Girls are not the only thing in life. Have other things in your life that excite you.

3) Do not become so invested in any one girl that you cannot simply walk away.

4) Confidence attracts women even more than good looks. This is why you see fat, ugly, or dumpy guys with hot chicks.

5) Desperation repels women. You will attract more women when you don't care if you're attracting women.

6) After getting a girl's phone number, wait at least two days to call her to avoid appearing desperate.

7) Use the phone only to set up dates. Not to talk about weather, current events, how her day went, etc. Save that conversation for the date.

cool If you call a girl and get an answering machine, don't leave a message. Just try again another time. Girls, as a general rule, do not return phone calls.

9) First dates should be short and creative. NO "dinner and a movie". Things involving some activity are best: pool, bowling, roller blading, mini-golf, dancing, etc. Keep it FUN.

10) Do not give gifts early in the relationship. Doing so makes it appear as though you are attempting to purchase affection.

11) Girls will test guys to see how much they can skate by with. Do not be tempted to give in. Speak your opinions, stand by your convictions, and don't put up with excessive amounts of BS.

12) A person can only take advantage of you as much as you let them.

13) There is no such thing as a "soul mate" or "the one". It doesn't exist. There are millions of girls out there, though, and many of them have the traits you are looking for.

14) Don't put any woman up on a pedestal. You risk not being able to reach her. Women are people too... or so I'm told.

15) If a woman disrespects you or your time, particularly early in the relationship, don't hesitate to get rid of her. NEXT!

16) No relationship is a committed one until both people agree that it is. Until then, anything is fair game for both parties involved.

17) Never be the one that says, "I love you" first.

18) The challenge is part of the fun. Don't short-change the girl. Let her pursue you. The harder something is to obtain, the more valuable it is perceived to be.

19) If a girl cheats on you, she is gone. No exceptions.

20) Never date a girl who has more problems than you do.

21) Do not date girls from work. Work is stressful enough.

22) Dating is a "numbers game". Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected more times than not. Suck it up and get back out there.

23) Getting advice about women from a woman is like asking Osama bin Laden to tell you the locations of all his terrorist camps.

24) Where women are concerned, pay more attention to what they do than what they say.

25) Realize that women are tricky, lying, manipulative, devious, scheming, sneaky, cunning, calculating, shrewd, and Machiavellian creatures. Love them anyway.

26) Bros before hoes. Any girl that can be stolen from your best friend isn't worth stealing from your best friend.

27) Stay away from your ex. Chances are that you won't be able to get back with her. Chances are also good that if you DO succeed in getting back with your ex, you'll wish that you hadn't.

28) Women communicate in two modes: the way things are, and the way they WISH things were. Whenever in doubt, assume it's the latter choice.

29) Women desire attention the same way that guys desire sex. Give attention sparingly. This is your currency.

30) If you aren't sure about when to bend or break a rule, go with your instinct. If it's wrong, that's a good lesson for next time... and there's always a next time.

http://mysuccesslane..com/p/love-tips.html
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by Mynd44: 5:07am On Jul 12, 2013
Smh
Re: 30 Dating Rules To Remember. by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 16, 2013
copy and paste. Real work from an american pick up artist.

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