Dear Nairalanders, will you allow your girlfriend or boyfriend keep her/his EX as friend on a social network? Like BBM, Facebook, Twitter, 2go, whatsapp et:al


Another question: will you allow him or her to still keep some of his/her EX pictures(even if is just one picture) on her phone?


Please let's have your view!

I will only be childish not to

My Ex is on my facebook and my Gf too and my Gf knows. don't see any big deal, because a cheat will stil cheat despite their ex not being on FB, besides i'd have to be very jobless to be bothered about my Ex on her social networks cuz there are many.

So you intend to tell a full grown adult what to do? Cos I don't get the point of the "Allow" there ooo.

If she wants to, I won't mind, she has to have her own friends and people so she won't be all up in my face always

Yes. I still have a good relationship with about 80% of my EXs' and about 30% are my social network friends. And am enjoying it.

190: ^and what are u enjoying from it

free nyashing or wah

Excellent Question

Larry Sogo: Yes. I still have a good relationship with about 80% of my EXs' and about 30% are my social network friends. And am enjoying it.

Hum!
How old are you?

Keep her as a friend, but remove the pictures.

SniperInADiaper: Keep her as a friend, but remove the pictures.

Huh?

Mynd_44:
Huh?

Do I speak a foreign language to you? You are always questioning what I said

What does a guy need his exes pictures on his phone for? Come now, delete that shit. That would be like hanging a picture of his ex in his house.

SniperInADiaper: Keep her as a friend, but remove the pictures.

Seconded

Mynd_44: So you intend to tell a full grown adult what to do? Cos I don't get the point of the "Allow" there ooo.

If she wants to, I won't mind, she has to have her own friends and people so she won't be all up in my face always

dude, forget wot u knw, think abt this:

U are clueless!!!

U shld vibrate wit facts..and facts are universal in the category they are stated.

If u can't tell a full grown adult wot to do, why do we ave rules in other places? Things u are 'allowed' to do, and thing u dare not. It's a rule, a guide. A begining to an end. So, rules are everywhere. Even on NL, full grown adults are told what to do.

The only wrong thing is double standardisation.

So, at the start of a relationship, what i want, i will say...and d lady will tell me hers. It's simple. What ticks u clockwisely may ave an anticlockwise effect on the other. That doesn't make anybody uncivilized or wrong.

If it can't work for her, and can't adjust to it, we shuffle and reshuffle until we either reach a compromise, or an end.

It won't be like the acclaimed religious fraudster who wanna stop his wife from wearing a trouser after a year into marriage, but neva said a word abt it while dating.

Rules are necessary, whether u hide under the veil of civilization coated with modern day atrocities, sandwiching immorality, and join the rest on the broadway to hell, and say i am from the stone age.

'Allow' as in? You're gonna put up rules when you're just dating? Wtf? When you get married what will now happen?

Na wa for some guys/girls n their control-freak attitudes...

SLIDE waxie: dude, forget wot u knw, think abt this:

U are clueless!!!

U shld vibrate wit facts..and facts are universal in the category they are stated.

If u can't tell a full grown adult wot to do, why do we ave rules in other places? Things u are 'allowed' to do, and thing u dare not. It's a rule, a guide. A begining to an end. So, rules are everywhere. Even on NL, full grown adults are told what to do.

The only wrong thing is double standardisation.

So, at the start of a relationship, what i want, i will say...and d lady will tell me hers. It's simple. What ticks u clockwisely may ave an anticlockwise effect on the other. That doesn't make anybody uncivilized or wrong.

If it can't work for her, and can't adjust to it, we shuffle and reshuffle until we either reach a compromise, or an end.

It won't be like the acclaimed religious fraudster who wanna stop his wife from wearing a trouser after a year into marriage, but neva said a word abt it while dating.

Rules are necessary, whether u hide under the veil of civilization coated with modern day atrocities, sandwiching immorality, and join the rest on the broadway to hell, and say i am from the stone age.

Well you are going to tell her what you can accept but she can go against it you know?

I still have a problem with the word "allow" it is too controlling and sends the wrong signals. We are taking about humans here not your dog or 5 year old kid.

Adaeze003: 'Allow' as in? You're gonna put up rules when you're just dating? Wtf? When you get married what will now happen?

Na wa for some guys/girls n their control-freak attitudes...

I thought the same thing

You guys are making it sound like relationships are things were each party is allowed to do completely everything they want when they want. as if there are no boundaries in relationships which are somewhat like rules.

aren't there supposed to certain things in a relationship which one of the partners involved cannot stand or doesn't like and then informs the other party and vice versa?

I think what we really have a problem with is the word 'rules',

:oA reciepe for disaster!carry on at your own risk. Ladies are so weak to sexual advances from their EX. Esp if the EX did the breaking up. Au revoir

SLIDE waxie: dude, forget wot u knw, think abt this:

U are clueless!!!

U shld vibrate wit facts..and facts are universal in the category they are stated.

If u can't tell a full grown adult wot to do, why do we ave rules in other places? Things u are 'allowed' to do, and thing u dare not. It's a rule, a guide. A begining to an end. So, rules are everywhere. Even on NL, full grown adults are told what to do.

The only wrong thing is double standardisation.

So, at the start of a relationship, what i want, i will say...and d lady will tell me hers. It's simple. What ticks u clockwisely may ave an anticlockwise effect on the other. That doesn't make anybody uncivilized or wrong.

If it can't work for her, and can't adjust to it, we shuffle and reshuffle until we either reach a compromise, or an end.

It won't be like the acclaimed religious fraudster who wanna stop his wife from wearing a trouser after a year into marriage, but neva said a word abt it while dating.

Rules are necessary, whether u hide under the veil of civilization coated with modern day atrocities, sandwiching immorality, and join the rest on the broadway to hell, and say i am from the stone age.

h mm are you really the one posting this because i have never seen you criticize immorality nor even proffer morally packaged advise. OK what if she dishes out the rule of "don't cheat" hope you will stick to it because defaulting will be a betrayal. so can you?

Princess zoe: h mm are you really the one posting this because i have never seen you criticize immorality nor even proffer morally packaged advise. OK what if she dishes out the rule of "don't cheat" hope you will stick to it because defaulting will be a betrayal. so can you?

i became a born again last hour

I actually don't care. It's his business.