Hey fellas i got a big prblm @ hand, there is this gurl hitting it on me for sometime now and i dnt knw what her motives are, eventhough she has a boyfriend but frm what i have observed i dnt think things are goin on smoothly with her relationship though they are still dating. We are quite close though-we share thoughts and feelings together infact she tells me so much about how evrybody has been insinuating am alrdy dating her, she confides so much in me inspite of the fact that she has her own man .Infact she has put me in so much situations as to be tempted to ask her out, Damn! am so confuse as to what she wants, though i like her but i dnt wanna be the cause of their breakup. I dnt know maybe she's taking advantage of ma single status, i dnt know what to do? Dnt wanna ask her out cos i might seems desperate if i do.My last relationship wasnt really pleasant so have learnt frm it. Do i shove her off? Pls somebody holla!

bros she dey blue tooth her love

look maybe infrared will be better for such.

@poster
You never know with women.We tend to have much different perspectives from you guys at times Before you let the idea of asking her out get too deeply rooted in your head,are you sure shez into you romantically?
My point is,shez still with her boyfriend.She hasn't left him,and that says something.Do you want a situ where you ask her out and she goes ''i'm sorry dearie,but i see you just as a friend?''
Be wise,don't be used.Set some limits to the 'sharing sessions'.When you do,if shez that into you,she'll show her hand.

And,how can you get close to anutha man's girl and hope to not be the cause of their break-up ? Even if you're not 100% the cause,dude,you're going to play some part.If you want to dance in a rainstorm,be prepared to catch a cold.All da best

@ Cescky

what do u mean? I dnt get it

lonelypal:

@ Cescky

what do u mean? I dnt get it

i think she likes you and is giving you signs its left for you to pick up the signalsthe pieces of messages,abi u wan make she toast u,shes probably waiting for you to make the forst move,she waving a red flag in front of a bull,get?

@ poster


Maybe she's pregnant and she's looking for an idiot to impose it on. 

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@ poster


Maybe she's pregnant and she's looking for an idiot to impose it on.

I guess the poster is the right man for the job

@ poster

Maybe she's pregnant so she's looking for an idiot (like yourself) to impose the pregnancy on

RampantT:

I guess the poster is the right man for the job

I am damn sure she's not cos i would have found out, Its her prblm though





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Guys Guys Guys!!! We are all the same.
I think you may be misinterpreting her actions.
It is Nothing complicated,
You guys are close friends, so, she can tell you her problems and expect a neutral solution.
Don't run faster than your legs. They might break.

@ poster


Maybe she'st pregnant so she's looking for an idiot (like yourself) to impose the pregnancy on

@poster,

u must be one hot stud o

You can remain friends in the mean time while you survey the future; if you feel the future favours both of you, then you can continue; but if not then disengage and return into your shell for you won good.