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| If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
No Man is an island but these little things count and are habbit a Man should inculcate into his spiritual being to Suceed in a relationship if he is planning to become a Man someday 1.  You're not a Man yet if you are Still depending on your parent or others for Finances, Security, E.t.c2.  He must have regards for the people arround him especially elders3.  Must have dreams and foresights that can be actualize4.  if you're a periodic Smoker and you let Drugs control you, you are not a Man5.  Must not consume alcohol unreasonably6. if you'are a deviant i.e you always act against people's norms you will need to Man-up7.  Must not be Emotional, Arguing, Fighing, quarreling with people or keeping Malice/Grudges8.  Must have Moral, Ethics and must be well principled (not hypocritical)9.  Must fear God (Christian or Muslim)10. Must be financially buoyant and must be having good job security in his place of work. 11. Must be hygienic 12. Must be ready to be with his Spouse/Partner only 13. The talkaltive Guys (will you make your woman a man?) 14. Must be Flexible, Must be able to take correction (not acting like god in the house). 15. Must be a disciplinarian. i.e be able to correct the wrong doings of wife & the children. God Bless. Add yours 5 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by ronald4lif(m): 7:28pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Nice one but all what you listed applies to women as well. 2 Likes |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by agarawu23(m): 7:32pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
nice one op I want u to bold your point No 1 |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by vizkiz: 7:32pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
you know nothing about being a man. This thread would have made more sense if it was a "man" who created it 5 Likes |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
I don't think there's any problem if a man is still depending on his parent if they are rich though. 3 Likes |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Tomibyte(m): 7:35pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
I guess you're right, buh I think it all depends on d mentality. |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by dguizman(m): 7:35pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
You are right OP |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by ronald4lif(m): 7:36pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Lala247: Point out where you think I got it wrong and tell me why it's wrong jare. |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by agarawu23(m): 7:37pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Vickybee:if his parents didn't work for the money? I hate hearing such statement |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by kuuljay(m): 7:39pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Vickybee:really  you are joking right??1 Like |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 7:39pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Vickybee: Depends the age A real man would want to get out and get a job n move out. Face real life .. Paying bills, working see daily struggle even if he gets help from his parents |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
i can see some points that are not in tally with some very notable men in our society. |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by ronald4lif(m): 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Lala247: Morality and good ethics is not limited to a gender. Every human should have good morals. Likewise arguing, fighting or keeping malice. If a guy who's still a dependant on his parents can be said not to be a man, same too is for a girl. Just so you know, dependence takes more than living under same roof with one's parents. A man/woman can still be accommodated by their parents but still takes care of their own bills and are self-reliant. Have jobs and earn their own money. 1 Like |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Yh but this is directed at men.. When a counter topic for women comes up i select the same |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Young03(m): 7:47pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
hope ur bf doesn't belong to any |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Lala247:Your definition of a real man differs from mine. I don't want that bossy Alpha male that would be yarping all over the place. I want a guy that has no chauvinistic-ego like average Nigerian guys. I want a guy that works because he's not lazy not because he want to impress society or any lady. My husband must have the combination of Alpha and Beta qualities not an African man mentality. 2 Likes |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by funmijoyb(f): 7:50pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
 A gay man is not a Man sorry Homos |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by ronald4lif(m): 7:50pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Lala247: The topic was directed at men quite alright but my point is all what listed can apply to women too. My reason for picking interest in it is particularly her number 1 point. I'm not comfortable when a woman attempt to make "independence" a man thing. 2 Likes |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by funmijoyb(f): 7:52pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Vickybee: you must be joking |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Aspiregreat: 7:58pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Ur no 1 needs more emphasis... Dude are u an ISLAND And there shd be a time/or age when to become independent...........U fall from heaven 2 Likes |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Aspiregreat: 7:59pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Ur no 1 needs more emphasis... Dude are u an ISLAND And there shd be a time/or age when to become independent........... |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 8:00pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Vickybee:Do u wish 4 such a man? wot of if d parent decided not to finance him wot will he do? |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Aspiregreat:most peeps who talk like this are females or those whose dada had enough cash to set them up with a business. Make pesin wey hawk bread right from junior secondary talk am make i hear |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Aspiregreat: lol. That's when he wants to settle down and make a family of his own. 1 Like |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by justmag(m): 8:06pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Only approximately 30 percent of this post makes sense but the rest...... |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
funmijoyb:Whatever |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by SporaD8: 8:25pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Am sure d OP is not even married yet want to dictate how a man should or should not be. No problem - I pray you meet the man that fit into your description; or you can just mood him! |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Aspiregreat: 8:28pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
blublahd: if u like hawk bread or plaintain..... I have seen men who did hawk bread/akara and till today they have nothing to write home abt, if your parents can help you what the big deal Na ur destiny go lead you, if u like hawk moi-moi #Abegfreeme |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 8:30pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Vickybee: oh, ok it makes more sense now .  |
| Re: If You Are Not This, You're Not A Man Yet. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
@chowlade 9. Must fear God (Christian or Muslim)What if he is an atheist |
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