I have this female friend,we v been friends for a long time,just regular friend bt we r quite close,we confide in ourselves and dere is nothin we don't talk about.
Recently we decided to tak it a notch further,we decided to date ourselves,I really love her n she does love me too,bt there is a part of my life dat she doesn't really know much about,SCHOOL,she feels am bout to go for NYSC bt d truth is I av issues in school,n I can't go for service till lik 2015,she is in her 200level in anoda school.What's really botherin me is,if I come out n tell her,she might feel devastated dat why didn't I let her kno since and she might decide to walk out of d relationship and friendship,and I don't want to lose her.Please,I nid advice on wat to do....

Its better you let her know now,than live a life of deceit. Afterall you are still going to the NYSC.
And who told you she can't be in your position with school issues. It takes God's grace to scale the hurdles in Nigeria universities.

Let her know,who knows she can even be of help.

Tell her

@ Yomieluv --thanks,
@ daisyella --thanks,will try and tell her,I just don't want her to have dis negative view of me,I didn't kno dat I was goin to develop such feelings for ,just tot we wud just be d normal friends forever,

Tell her and hope for the best

Pray, do tell.

Tell her

conserved: @ Yomieluv --thanks,
@ daisyella --thanks,will try and tell her,I just don't want her to have dis negative view of me,I didn't kno dat I was goin to develop such feelings for ,just tot we wud just be d normal friends forever,

someone who love you should be able share your joys and worries
If u cannot share ur academic problem with ur close friend then I wonder if u people are real or fake friends.

I'll suggest you let her go already cos feeling this way means you suspect she will go. The relatiuonship is built on falsehood.

,,@ ranksz and benyc....guess that was d mistake I made,shud av told her from d start,hmmmmm,will tell her now,it just hurts me,