hey Nairalanders, guess u guys r doin' fyn. thanx 4 visitin' ma topic

Now da thing is, whenever my friends are chatting wiv ma boyfriend, it seem alrite wiv me, but if it's ma sista i jus develop sum kinda Jealousy, i really don't know why. my sis is good and all that and she's not one of those sister's boyfriend snatchers but i jus don't know y. i speak to her boy friend almost everyday and sometimes i sit and think " if i can talk to ma sis's boyfriend everyday, y can't i let her talk to mine?" i'm trying to stop being jealous whenever shez talking to him but seems i can't. i really don't know what to do coz it has to stop. NOW or never.

Nairalanders pls help!!!

'tsup baybeetee,
do you really trust your sister? or do you really trust your boyfriend? I personally don't know why you jealous when your sister's around your boyfriend. From research, it can only be one of the following reasons. 1) either your boyfriend has shown some kind of interest in your sister that u r still battling to come to terms with OR 2) your sister is more beautiful than you are and you have always had some sort of rivalry with her since you were kids OR 3)you sister is a girl that can get any man she wants OR 4)your sister has shown some interset in your boyfriend. OR 4)plainly because u don't trust your sister.
Whatever the reason maybe, the best way to solve this problem is to know the exact reason why you having the problem and then deal with it. But if there's no reason to your behaviour, I think you should just trust the parties concerned and live with it. Also try to get used to it and believe that nothing can happen between them.
The Love Doctor

i think its natural, although you're not being fair, but why da heck do u talk to her boyfriend everyday, what do u talk about, hmmm, i don't know what kind of relationship u have with her boyfriend, but sounds wierd, now does she know how u feel about the situation, if she does then it would be up to her to stop talking to your boyfriend so u can be more confortable. u can't control who other people talk to but they should be able to respect your feeling

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This one makes for a good laugh!

I think you should develope more self confidence, if you don't trust your family you won't trust nobody your boyfriend included!


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let it be, sit down and watch

and gurl, she's ur sis and he's ur man, have that behind ur mind. If they wanna be together then hey, u're worth more than that and it wasn't meant to be.

one thing for sure is that "wateva is meant to be will be" and get that tot of ur sis and BF off ur mind.

hmmmm chei, have u people not watched jerry springer?

@ bluenubian

do u really believe Jerry springer? I think its all make believe. some of them are so over-exaggerated don't u think?

tit for tat: you're talking to her boyfriend, shes talking to yours,

im not saying you peeps should hate one another, but if its the "normal" talk, then, fine,

else, if the definition of "talk" goes beyond formal, then youve gotta open your eyes.

On the other hand, you shouldnt worry about such things, coz it will affect ur relationship in the first place.

Busta,
men, jerry springer is 80% real, believe me cause i know of people that marry their cousins here and the gays on the show, hmm too too funny, as for the other 20% that not jerry's fault, people do lie jus to be on tv. u dont have to watch the springer show to know this things exist jus type whatever u want on google and it 'll bring it up.

Exampe: type "donkey show" and see what comes up.

and what's rhanna pic doing over there?

Stop talking to her boyfriend.

Draw those boundaries because as a sister (I know from experience) you have to be the one who watches her boyfriend and make sure he doesn't hurt her. Don't be too amicable to him because if they split, you will be insulting him and comforting your sister.

Singling rivalry is instinctual however If you've seen Blood Sisters you'll know to keep boyfriends away from your sister.