We had a bet that i wouldn't get the girl, because i was trying to show him where he went wrong with the toasting process that led to the girl refusing him. My confidence levels were high because i considered myself finer than the girl, within the 1st date i made a good impression, by the 3rd date - we were in bed (watching movies oh!).

Now Mr. Man is pissed that he lost the bet. . .  and the girl. but thats not the main problem. The problem is she thinks "We" should be serious but i'm not interested, she aint my type - it was just a game.

I've told her many times that we can't go any further but she's not having it, what do i do?

did u consult nairalanders when u wanted to woo her? why now do u need our help. it's ur headache bros.

@Poster:

Tell her it was a bet
She will flee from u

Quit playing games with one's feelings, you made a play for her and she fell for it and now you want rid of her, because she ain't your type. Men like you give d ick a bad name. Tell your friend if at first you don't succeed try and try again.

a bet
u guys r so cheeky, playing wit a woman's emotion like dat,

eat if she genuinely liked u nko?

whitelexi darling

jennykadry:

whitelexi darling

Jenny Darling

Did u miss me?

yes naa missed all d ngwa wahala,ndie ori nmadu

jennykadry:

yes naa missed all d ngwa wahala,ndie ori nmadu

Okay ohhhh, awum onye mbaise, amarum ndi ngwa biko kwa!

I agree with Jenny, that was mean of you to play with the girl's emotions

ibkaye sweetie howdy



whitelexus abi na whitelexi u don dey confess abi?onye'asi,tomorrow i'ga gwamu na i'bu onye umuahia,lying dey sweet u abi

kedu ka o di aunty jenny

odi'nma ibkaye,hows school?

jennykadry:

odi'nma ibkaye,hows school?

well i'm on a bit of a holiday at the moment, exams are over 

how is your hubby? hope he is good

my hubby is good

tell me ib wat level r u on in school?

jennykadry:

my hubby is good

tell me ib what level r u on in school?

you mean as in year? I'm currently doing AS/A-Levels

ok

When we talk true, they will say na lie

Take it or leave it, i don tell u sha

@poster
i have a feeling that one way or the other the girl deserves what happened to her. what goes around comes around. girls like it when you play games with their heart. she didnt accept the other serious dude who really liked her, now she is looking for love where there is no love.

tell her she is not your type and it was all a game, u can direct her to the one who loves her if she really is looking for love

which true lexi?d last time u tell me say na true,dis time u dey tell me say na true,which one make i believe,onye asi

jennykadry:

which true lexi?d last time u tell me say na true,this time u dey tell me say na true,which one make i believe,onye asi

From the way u talk, i dont know whether u like me or u hate me or maybe u just cant wait to swipe at me. If u dont see me, u want to see me, when u see me u cant wait to fight me.

I wonder how life will be if i had u nagging me all day - it would drive me nuts.

Like:

Lexi + Jenny inside house = Either lexi runs or jenny runs or the house will run and leave us both!

I'm off to lunch break - 30mins, will be back for u jenny

rotflmao lexi abeg carry ur wahala go na u go run leave me for house

rotflmao easy baby he's better dan zignor my hubby is a man out of every real man u can ever think of

Story - Story

I thank you all for the criticisms and i thank Frank 3. 16 and whitelexi especially for the radical approach.
Frank, i think we are reasoning from exactly the same point, why did she not accept the guy that was offering her genuine attention, but instead she accepted me with all my arrogance and unseriousness - knowing very well that i was just out for the kill?

I tried playing it low-key yesterday evening during a phone convo, by telling her that i dont think we have any chemistry and it wont last - it makes no sense to continue this our madness but she kept preaching that we should just try first, i dont even want to try!
I know what i did was wrong in the first place, but i need practical solutions here, i welcome any ideas, but pls dont kill me with criticism.

Thank u

@Genuine
You ever heard about my Three Module Dumping Theory
Ask everyone here, I've posted it oon sum threads like that
Believe me, it always works. . .

@poster- its cool that u admitted what u did was wrong ( i guess person wey wan die jam person wey go kill am).

u said she accepted you with all ur arrogance knowing u were out for the kill, does that mean she knew u were messing with her emotions at that time but chose to play along?

if she did and she still wants you then she's a brain-dead!

but if she doesnt, give her the the wake-up call ( i mean the truth). get your friend and u guys should tell her she was a stupid bet. i mite cold and ruthless and your friend mite also neva get her (she neva fell for his charm anyway) but she'll get the msg for sure. its ur call.

ma guy, if you dont like that girl, just tell it to her face.
she is not worth all these stress.

look i will bet you that if you were the one in that girls shoes, she would have dumped you by now. think of it

please dont let her nonsence cry and depiration get at u. she cant eat her cake and have it.
in fact i really hate her.
by the way how did she reject the other gur? i bet she must have made him feel like he is not up to her level

frank 3.16:

look i will bet you that if you were the one in that girls shoes, she would have dumped you by now. think of it

You're right!

u don put ur leg for trouble, iu dey laugh oo,