slap1: I feel your pains, lady, and I'm happy that you have ruled out adultery. Ok.

Visit: zeevirtualmedia.com. They deliver various se.x toys discreetly, if you want it that way, and they can even help your husband's libido with viagra or any other drug. Goodluck.

Richfella: Sent ma'am.

bellong: @Barbiechick,

Speak with the lady I gave her details in confidence, I am sure she will be of good help. She is a professional sex therapist and can handle the likes of your husband. She had handled such cases before considering the question and answer section of her column I have read before.

I wouldn't know how she will do it but I know, she has a way of communicating to people like your husband. I have read testimonies of people on how she helped out in situation like yours.

barbiechick: I won't give up on finding solutions to the problem though. I will follow the instructions given here including the diet. I hope and really hope that one day, things will change.

I will continue my duties as a wife, satisfy him and then find ways to satisfy myself).

Thanks to virtual media, they have varieties of stuffs that are pocket friendly. I just hope they are not hard like wood. lol.

LewsTherin:

I really admire your person. Your posts denote a strength of character that is very rare.

One more piece of advice. When "he's gettin his groove on" and "ignoring your needs", try a simple trick. Moan and writhe like you are having the best sex of your life. Probably fake an orgasmm now and then even. This may help him feel that he's finally doing the job right. It just may prompt him to want to try harder.

baby_123: The guy just doesnt care. He is after his own satisfaction. Maybe you let him escape with such an attitude while dating. You didnt want him to feel you were too exposed or an ashewo. I tell you, buy a vibe that sounds like a generator. when he finishes, turn on your vibe. Walahi, he will be suffering in that sleep.

coogar:

he would roll over and sleep easy.......

baby_123:

Lai lai. He will feel inadequate and start asking her what she likes and how she likes it. He may even throw away the vibe. OP, make yourself happy let him hear it well. If he doesnt want to try, you sef try well well.

thorpido: baby_123..you really don't know some men.

baby_123:

He will my dear. It will get to him that he doesnt satisfy her enough and an ordinary machine can do the job. Guys dont like to feel inadequate and their manhood challenged. Except OP was forced on him via pregnancy and he is just tolerating her. If he truly chose to marry her, he will feel bad and make changes. She talked to him and he said he would change. No matter how untruthful the statement may be. He has said it, that is a first step to know he actually pays little attention.

baby_123:
Lai lai. He will feel inadequate and start asking her what she likes and how she likes it. He may even throw away the vibe. OP, make yourself happy let him hear it well. If he doesnt want to try, you sef try well well.

baby_123: The guy just doesnt care. He is after his own satisfaction. Maybe you let him escape with such an attitude while dating. You didnt want him to feel you were too exposed or an ashewo. I tell you, buy a vibe that sounds like a generator. when he finishes, turn on your vibe. Walahi, he will be suffering in that sleep.

coogar:

he will feel inadequate?
you think he doesn't know already he's inadequate? you really dunno how the mind of men works. of course, he must know he's not doing the business but he can't be bothered - he knows his wife will not cheat and that keeps him secure.

babyosisi:

Rubbish!!
When a woman has to play ring around the roses to get her man to function,can't you see she has a big problem on her hands
Thank God some viable tadpoles dey for im sac sef and she has gotten pregnant twice if not this poor woman would have asked her God questions,why her

You see why I started the thread sometime ago asking how a Christian woman is supposed to know that the thing inside pot is oha soup and not play play soup with hibiscus flowers

tpia@:
why would his thing last when a supposedly gentle churchy girl morphed into an ungentle unchurchy female without warning?