Just tell him to keep tapping your bombom and pecking your neck or whatever, one day something go surely happen?

You simply got to keep believing.

babyosisi:

Rubbish!!
When a woman has to play ring around the roses to get her man to function,can't you see she has a big problem on her hands
Thank God some viable tadpoles dey for im sac sef and she has gotten pregnant twice if not this poor woman would have asked her God questions,why her

You see why I started the thread sometime ago asking how a Christian woman is supposed to know that the thing inside pot is oha soup and not play play soup with hibiscus flowers

Since you feel what I typed is RUBBISH,please what's your advice/input in this issue Would you rather advice the op to commit ALDUTERY or leave her husband

Madam CC don suffer!
C as the first poster recommended u sharply!
A u a se*x therapist?
This one everybody is shouting CC up and down, so I go begin fire u kweshions.

Tired of chewing popcorn!
Enof calories.
Where r they?

OMG


OP,

I am quite sorry for you. I really have nothing to add. Nothing worse than 1/2 a minute guy who snores right after. leaving you wondering "What the hell just happened". Am sorry but (((LMAO)))

If he says he doesnt care, get a correct toy that sounds like a generator and make the accompanying noises of pleasure. He will soon start feeling insecure and will start making the right efforts. You also need your man to either lose some weight, change of diet with plenty fruits and veggies (less starch and sugar), buy burantashi or viagra. Honestly, this must be frustrating. LOL.

dayokanu: So Chaircover na expert for this kain thing

chaircover's empire stretches from the UK to the whole of western europe. half of africa use chaircover's products especially people of west africa - she's a guru in the business!!!!

babyosisi: Okokobioko indeed
This is not normal o
This ain't normal lai lai
Before you cook a minute rice the man is stone cold on the bed
Tua!!
Olorun ma je

the fact is close to half of naija men today are battling this problem. why do you think they all take shekpe every morning like pap? it's so bad that most of these guys cannot have regular sex without depending on herbs or performance enhancement pills. they have become so dependent on pills that their normal sëxual energy has vanished!

only few men in naija are living healthy.

chaircover:
What a glowing recommendation from my fav customer
When do you want the next container delivered

next week.....
i don't want to be caught in the autumn rush this year. last year was super-hectic.

Hes 36 Jehova Nissi

I thought we were talking about a 50+yr old here. WOW.

chaircover:

True that

Same items or would you like to try something new this time?

something new is odikwa risky. i want same order as usual. my wife particularly likes the spiked rampant rabbit.

coogar:

the fact is close to half of naija men today are battling this problem. why do you think they all take shekpe every morning like pap? it's so bad that most of these guys cannot have regular sex without depending on herbs or performance enhancement pills. they have become so dependent on pills that their normal sëxual energy has vanished!

only few men in naija are living healthy.

Living healthy is one of the reasons why

The more the fat, the less the virility. Compare your sexx game when you were 22 skinny undergraduate to now a fat round in the middle 40yr old

Look at your high school reunion pictures and see how many of them have grotesque potbellies now. I finished High School in 1996 and when I see some of my mates pictures they look like my father friend

I used to live in Naija and our idea of relaxation and lifestyle is soo twisted. Those days I would sit down with friends and in one sitting quaff 9 bottles of big stout or star, Asun, Suya Nkwobi . No form of exercise whatsoever. 70% of guys over 25yrs drink Shekpe, Opa eyin, Pakurumo, Oshomo. Nowadays I cant even drink 4 small bottles of Heineken and I drink that about twice a week

As one grows old activities reduces, Metabolism reduces at that point you have to make a conscious effort to either eat significantly less or exercise more

dayokanu:
Living healthy is one of the reasons why
The more the fat, the less the virility.

it's a problem with the young men in nigeria these days. no wonder the guy that owns alomo bitters has sold more than 200 million bottles.

Look at your high school reunion pictures and see how many of them have grotesque potbellies now. I finished High School in 1996 and when I see some of my mates pictures they look like my father friend

spot on, dayo!
they all look like rhinoceros each time i go on facebook. these lads are less than 30 and some of them can't even wear T-shirts without looking like a cow in gestation.

I used to live in Naija and our idea of relaxation and lifestyle is soo twisted. Those days I would sit down with friends and in one sitting quaff 9 bottles of big stout, Asun, Suya Nkwobi . No form of exercise whatsoever. 70% of guys over 25 drink Shekpe

thank god you left - you and yokozuna would have been the same size by now. i cannot understand how any man under 30 would be rocking pot-belly. yeye fools!

As one grows old activities reduces, Metabolism reduces at that point you have to make a conscious effort to either eat significantly less or exercise more

they need to be in the gym 20 hours per week to burn the cholesterol in their system. pot-belly also reduces the length of the pënis. the bigger the tummy, the shorter the phallus. i pity their wives!

chaircover: Cooger you are mad LOL!
This is a serious matter jare. I am sure both husband and wife are not happy. I feel for both of them.

in ibadan accent - "sear-cofa, mind yourself o."
the question is how did she miss his pathetic sëxual performance during their courtship or did they abstain till after their marriage?

chaircover:
Are people born with premature ejacullation? I dont know
Maybe it only just started recently . .I dont know

it's an inborn-trait - it's not a contagious disease. it's like baldness, stammering, rickets, shortness, etc. the explanation he gave his wife about multiple partners in the past is bullshyte. the more sex a guy has, the better he performs.

Whatever it is, it is a problem now, and they BOTH need to solve it. For better for worse. . .in sickness and in health. Different marriages and different crosses. Life!!

he needs therapy!
no amount of intimacy gadgets or pörn flicks can turn him around. his libido has been eroded.

My sis you husbands problem is Premature Ejaculatíon as Chiarcover said - and it's a common male problem. It is estimated to affect up to 30% of ALL males world-wide.

That thing must be hurting him REAL BAD.

There's no man that doesn't want to fvck the shít out of his babe. We take lots of pride in giving our woman a good time.

He needs two things. PC Muscle exercises - he should start seeing results in a month (these are very simple - google is your friend too).

If he gets this down and strengthens this muscle, he will ejaculaté ONLY when he wants...and if he doesn't ejaculaté, he won't lose his boner. He'll essentially have órgasms without blowing his load. And you will ALWAYS have a good time.


Secondly, he'll need to improve his fitness a bit eventually because...if he learns to hold it in, he won't last reasonably long if his cardio is not reasonably OK.

As for how to broach the topic; Chaircover is a very wise woman and should be of more assistance to you in this regard. Just note that this is very sensitive topic for him so you have to approach this with UTMOST tact, love and empathy.

Kindly provide an email address and I'll send you an ebook or two on the subject (you should quickly create one for this purpose). The Ejaculatíon Trainer and another.

You can help him greatly by regulating his diet. Less on the oil, and portion size of the swallows or rice please. All that starch is sugar. Also less on the drinking if he drinks. Again you really need to reduce the oil. I know we naija women if the stew does not float in 1/2 gallon of oil it is not well made or sweet. Bread can be wheat if you can get away with it. It's for his well being, long life and sexual prowess. Also it will help you teach your kids to eat better. Fruits, vegetables and lots of water. Less of the juices and alcohol. If you change his diet you will see improvement. Also make sure he is having some good rest and you are not demanding sex when either of you is dead tired or have a very strenuous job. Try to relax and really rest on the weekends if you can. Still a funny post though. I know how hard it is to change lifestyle and harder to convince a naija man to eat healthy. You will have to emphasize the long term benefits . If he likes to play football let him even do that on weekends.

Richfella: My sis you husbands problem is Premature Ejaculatíon as Chiarcover said - and it's a common male problem. It is estimated to affect up to 30% of ALL males world-wide.

That thing must be hurting him REAL BAD.

There's no man that doesn't want to fvck the shít out of his babe. We take lots of pride in giving our woman a good time.

He needs two things. PC Muscle exercises - he should start seeing results in a month (these are very simple - google is your friend too).

If he gets this down and strengthens this muscle, he will ejaculaté ONLY when he wants...and if he doesn't ejaculaté, he won't lose his boner. He'll essentially have órgasms without blowing his load. And you will ALWAYS have a good time.


Secondly, he'll need to improve his fitness a bit eventually because...if he learns to hold it in, he won't last reasonably long if his cardio is not reasonably OK.

As for how to broach the topic; Chaircover is a very wise woman and should be of more assistance to you in this regard. Just note that this is very sensitive topic for him so you have to approach this with UTMOST tact, love and empathy.

Kindly provide an email address and I'll send you an ebook or two on the subject (you should quickly create one for this purpose). The Ejaculatíon Trainer and another.

ghoney80@yahoo.com. Anonymous email add. Thanks.

taryour: Op I have a funny feeling your hubby is playing a smart one. Here is the deal,don't talk to him abt it again or complain. Do you have a brother or a male cousin If yes you and him will do the trick. Let him act as your boyfriend,call you and send you love messages n intimate messages. Receive the calls close to where your hubby can hear your conversation and leave your phone carelessly where can easily pick it and go through your messages.

Your game is to make him believe there is another man doing his job and get him jealous that's why I said your brother or your cousin AND NOT A MALE FRIEND. While he is home on weekends,let your cousin or brother call you and fix an appointment. Act like you don't want anyone hearing your conversation but make go he hears you agreeing to meet the other person on the line. Go out even if you just go to an eatery all alone and have a bottle of coke or a bowl of ice cream.

You are a woman na so you should know this tricks am saying well. Why I said play the trick with your cousin or brother is because he will pick your phone and search thru for his rival number and might call the number,so if he dosnt hear a male voice then your trick no work oo.

Play this game well and see him confronting you,then you make him realise you aint a log of wood and have feelings too. Since he has decided to ignore you,you found yourself someone. Make him believe you o and that you are playing safe using a CoNdOm with your new guy so he shouldn't be scared of contacting stds.

Be ready for what comes after it o cause you sure don't just expect him to keep calm abt it but make sure you don't let it get to the point of him involving families. I assure you he will be forced to go more than 3 rounds on you out of jealousy,and make sure you achieve this goal before you open up to him that the so called boyfriend of yours is your cousin or your brother.


If after all these,he goes back to his one round intimacy with you,then my lady your hubby is likely cheating on you big time or he need a serious divine intervention o.


Sorry I typed all these on mobile so please ignore mistakes.

hey hey hey what you typing madam? This is her husband and not a boyfriend. Please op dont do this rubbish game with a married man o i use God beg you.
personally i would buy my toy while i actively seek ways to help the man out. alot of people here seem to think its an ejaculation thing and have given good advise on how to tackle it with him and earn his trust while at it. i cant say anymore there, with prayers and love i am sure you will break that wall and walk him through this.
in the main time, i'd still grab that toy. why? a sexually starved/frustrated person is a walking time bomb.
goodluck dear

So what does @op want to gain by airing her dirty linen in public?

dayokanu:

70% of guys over 25yrs drink Shekpe, Opa eyin, Pakurumo, Oshomo.

In Olamide's voice
[b] ♫♫♫♫ JJC ko l'awon eleyi Og'Ade.....Mo fe enter the place...oya si'lekun ♫♫♫♫

bimbos3xy: So what does @op want to gain by airing her dirty linen in public?

So what's so dirty about this linen now?

Na wa o!!!

Make she die in silence?

bimbos3xy: So what does @op want to gain by airing her dirty linen in public?

Please get the hell out of this thread. Its for matured minds and from what you have seen so far, reasonable, intelligent, matured minded people have provided various solutions to the issue at hand. Its only myopic minded people like you that will say trash.

Dirty linen lo, dirty cotton ni.....

A lot of women must be suffering from "Hysteria" in Nigeria

barbiechick:

Please get the hell out of this thread. Its for matured minds and from what you have seen so far, reasonable, intelligent, matured minded people have provided various solutions to the issue at hand. Its only myopic minded people like you that will say trash.

Dirty linen lo, dirty cotton ni.....

Please don't get worked up over some fool's post. U've gotten good advice here. Discard the rest.

Can I chip in?
I read out this story to hubby last night and he said premature eja*culation can be controlled via the mind.
Is that tru?

chaircover:

oyinbo, you are very right. There are various ways of dealing with this, such as mind control & pelvic floor exercises.

Other people use delay condoms, Boots the chemist also do a delay device that the man uses.

Anyhow, they both have to work together to get a positive result

The question now is this,is hubby willing to listen?

Barbie,can he listen?
Wonderful advice here but hubby has to corporate naw. It can only take two to tango,u know.