Goodday my fellow nairalander. My brother
and
sister,help my
dieing soul am in
agony
nw.Am a guy of
24yrs in a
relationship
with a 20yrs lady
since 5yrs ago. Am
a
student of one
federal university
and
she is a student of
a state
polytechnic. I
love this lady to an
extent that
everybody knows
am madly in love
with her,she also
claim to love me.
she went for her
industrial training
in lagos and she
met
a
guy there due to
distance btw 2 of
us
she
accept this guy
proposal and after
3weeks of their
dating, i also move
to lagos for my
3months summer
break.
When i got 2
lagos,this girl
behaviour has
totally
change, she wunt
pick my calls and
she
will not call or chat
wit me to know my
wellbeing. My aunt
ask me about my
gf and i decide to
tell her to come to
knw
my aunty.when
she finally came 2
my
house
after many calling
and begging,my
aunty got another
schedule and can
not see
ha.
When we are both
togeda at my
house i
ask if she is in any
relatnshp and she
said no. Later on i
saw a love sms
that
she send to a guy,
she beg me and
also swear with a
bible to quit with
that guy. She said
the guy promise
her marriage
nd
this is the girl i
have been
promising
marriage since 4yrs
ago and also ask
her 2 introduce me
to her mum, but
after she swear
with a bible she
ask me to
introduce her to
my mum and i
agreed
and even planning
to introduce her to
my
uncle in canada
just for her to
know that am
really ready to
marry her. All my
siblings
knw her and they
all like her. The
problem now is dat
this my lady is stil
chatting nd calling
that other guy
regular even i will
said more
than the way she
do chat or call me.
Their
conversation stil
show they are
datin
but
this lady stil
promisin me dat
she luv me than
dat guy nd she hav
quit with the guy.
To all dis, her
behaviour has not
change to when
we are both
together.
She has nt
been callin or send
love sms as b4. My
people what did u
think about this,
can i continue
trusting this lady
or she is just
keeping
2 guys
to know who to
choose? Help me
with
your advice not
insult pls

The highest I can give to a person is a second chance. Can never give a third. She came back to you telling you she has changed and now she's still harboring feelings for the other guy. It's obvious she doesn't know what she wants and cannot make a faithful wife. Why don't you move on and let her go, it's hard but you can actually do it. It's better to remain single than be with a girl that doesn't love you. Btw your copy and paste is terrible, it took a miracle for me to read your post.

wat wil b wil b....she mite jus cum bak wen u stop tryin 2 get her bak

Smh..... Same old story.

Face ur book and make money, maybe then she ll consider u

Awww pele. Now grow up and move on

Yup! Mk money nd every oda tin shall b added unto u.

@OP, if you marry this girl, be prepared to do DNA test for each n every child she gives birth to.