Mynd_44:
And how does that stop anything? We all thing taking the maid away will solve the problem but it does not. A dog is a dog no matter where you take it, it will bark.

If the husband is a fifty pig who will sleep around, he will find a way to sleep with someone else if not the maid. Stop trying to put in temporary measures and find a way to fix the real problem which is your husband.

Why should someone who is doing her job(and well) be punished cos the husband decided to show his true colors? Yet we wonder why our family are unstable. We leave the root and start chasing the leaves.

I still find it disgusting that no one has mentioned the man or given him any blame yet. People will never change from their village way of thinking

Bros....
I hail you. There are few Nija men who will be this forthright.
Fewer still....... will walk their talk.


It's obvious madam is concerned bout Oga tasting the "forbidden"......... She alleges episodes where she'd caught his eyes doing "further detailed inspection".. hence temptations abound!!!

The Nija society aids and abets this sort of behaviour as opposed to other societies, and therefore to protect her marriage, she needs to diminish opportunities that may provide her husband the excuse to cheat..... particularly in such close proximity!!!!!
She'll have no sympathy or support from society or friends, if the forbidden was to occur.....


I suppose Nija needs more men like you, that keep ur pants zipped or buttoned up regardless of temptation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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