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| a by crb20: 7:45pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
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| Re: a by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
Hmmmm. What did you study in school? What is your speciality? I mean what job can you work? How much do you know about your Naija bf? His state? Family? Past? Plans for future? For how long have you guys dated? I just wanna know if you can fit into Nigeria? 1 Like |
| Re: a by crb20: 8:16pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
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| Re: a by 50calibre(m): 8:24pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
Lols some people can be funny and naive, you are about to jump from the frying pan into the fire, all in the name of love. Have you researched Nigeria properly to find out the range issues plaguing the country? What you thinking of doing is wilful suicide, and except your fiancé/boyfriend is financially very buoyant, you'd suffer like no man's business. And as for the Visa to Nigeria, don't worry, you'd get it in a jiffy, Im not even sure Nigeria rejects any visa application. Just go to the Nigerian consulate for more info. 2 Likes |
| Re: a by crb20: 8:28pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
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| Re: a by Nobody: 8:29pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
ya'all are kinda clueless responding to her question with irrelevant answers, she said she already did all the findings she wanted to do about Nigeria and here you are adding unnecessary advice, please my dear, try to locate the Nigeria High Commission in the UK, probably you will know your stands from there. 4 Likes |
| Re: a by AyodejiCharles(m): 8:36pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
If you need answers, go to the travel section of Nairaland .You will get more reasonable answers there 1 Like |
| Re: a by crb20: 8:38pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
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| Re: a by MrCork: 9:30pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
crb20: Hi ..easy...as long as he has no criminal record,he is safe..all u need to do is contact a UK solicitor who specializes on immigration matters..I have helped many people in similar situations..trust me.. Contact a UK solicitor!  2 Likes |
| Re: a by dollarlander: 10:01pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
you better be very careful. you are the ones sending Nigerians out of your country to go home, if it has been rossy for them in nigeria, would they have decided to stay in the UK at all cost? 2 Likes |
| Re: a by Nobody: 10:38pm On Aug 25, 2013 |
50calibre: Lols some people can be funny and naive, you are about to jump from the frying pan into the fire, all in the name of love. Have you researched Nigeria properly to find out the range issues plaguing the country? What you thinking of doing is wilful suicide, and except your fiancé/boyfriend is financially very buoyant, you'd suffer like no man's business. Is it your decision to make. She asked for something different cos she's made up her mind and you're here writing epistles I worry for you sometimes 1 Like |
| Re: a by MrsChima(f): 3:17am On Aug 26, 2013 |
Damn people sure do move fast! Dating and getting to know a person is overrated thess days. Good luck living in Nigeria  Good luck on finding a job in Nigeria as well. Buhahhahhahhaa.  2 Likes |
| Re: a by fr3do(m): 4:51am On Aug 26, 2013 |
^ pathetic @op politics degree finding a job wont be easy! #just saying |
| Re: a by Nobody: 6:07am On Aug 26, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:better things no de conmot that your yeye mouth |
| Re: a by Enegod(m): 6:55am On Aug 26, 2013 |
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| Re: a by 190: 7:06am On Aug 26, 2013 |
Lwkmd This world is a funny place oh See even Mr Cork giving advice See his mouth like UK solicitor I've helped many people before Rotfl Na wa oh Op why don't u guys just get married over there in the UK that way he gets an automatic passport which he could be granted within 3months since he's got abt 5months left on his visa - that way you both could buy more time to plan for the future either he stays back in the uk with u or u both move baq to nigeria. End of |
| Re: a by pomporiking: 7:25am On Aug 26, 2013 |
Lwtmb!!!ur bf na ibbo guy abi those sons of b*tches and their strong jazz 1 Like |
| Re: a by Z8(m): 1:25pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
U are making a very big decision here which involves a lot of risk. Don't just assume all is u will get married and all will be soft as roses. Getting a Job in Nigeria is easy, apart from the "e ma madu" there also scarcity of d jobs themselves. To your question travel section will give u d info ur need fastest. |
| Re: a by MrsChima(f): 2:17pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
fr3do: ^ You should know bish. |
| Re: a by MrsChima(f): 2:19pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
iterator24: better things no de conmot that your yeye mouth Awwwww.....you dey jealous the white girl no picked you? Keep scamming....I mean looking. |
| Re: a by MrsChima(f): 2:20pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
Enegod: |
| Re: a by Dovahkiin(m): 2:49pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
ppl go soon dey drop number and email..... |
| Re: a by Isbrado(m): 10:29pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Before i give my own advise, which area/part in Nigeria did your boyfriend come from?? Because as @ present, some part in Nigeria are ''No Go Area''. |
| Re: a by 190theclown: 10:33pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Isbrado: Before i give my own advise, which area/part in Nigeria did your boyfriend come from?? Because as @ present, some part in Nigeria are ''No Go Area''. lwkmd say it and earn a ban conveniently |
| Re: a by DanTrizy(m): 10:55pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:Hahah waht re u insinuating ma? |
| Re: a by MrsChima(f): 6:40am On Sep 10, 2013 |
DanTrizy: Hahah waht re u insinuating ma? If hundreds of educated Nigerians have issues finding decent jobs in Nigeria....what chance does she have even if she's white? Would she be able to speak in native tongues if necessary? Lets be real...what job is she going to gain with a degree in politics? |
| Re: a by zeb04(f): 7:23am On Sep 10, 2013 |
@mrs chima y? Jst ansa her qstn nd let her decide. Anyways 1st tym 19o is makin serz sense. Is 2day ur bday |
| Re: a by Kingsteve(m): 8:36am On Sep 10, 2013 |
crb20: Hi Let me give you a clearer picture. Unless you guys are planning to reside in Abuja (capital city of Nigeria), Lagos...maybe Portharcourt, Calabar, and Akwa Ibom, then I strongly suggest you have a change of plan. OUT of those cities I mentioned, only Abuja and Lagos are close to what you have in the western world, especially; Abuja. Calabar, portharcourt and Akwa Ibom are cool cities, with lots of foreigners as well. Soooo, if your bf isn't planning to reside in one of those cities I mentioned, then it maybe hard for you to adjust to the living conditions of Nigeria. On the other hand, unless your bf has rich parents, whereby everything is already in place for you guys, to make the landing easy...such as; a house with constant power (using generator) and water supply, and also with a good vehicle that has an AC, then it's all good, besides these...don't bother! Go back, and drill your bf very well, in regard to the plans he has for you guys when you land. Like I said before, you'll only enjoy your stay in Nigeria, if it's in Abuja and to some extent...Lagos, although it depends on the area in Lagos, cos some parts in Lagos are really awful, but in Abuja...the city is almost perfect, with lots of foreigners as well. Good luck! As for obtaining visa to Nigeria, you should visit the Nigerian embassy in London, somewhere around Oxford Street, not too sure, but all the embassies are located in that area...you can't miss it. I doubt they'll give you a working visa, since you're not an expatriate, but give it a go...you never know, after all...it is Nigeria we're talking about. |
| Re: a by ARico(m): 12:50pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
Suicide |
| Re: a by MrsChima(f): 3:26pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
zeb04: @mrs chima y? Jst ansa her qstn nd let her decide. Anyways 1st tym 19o is makin serz sense. Is 2day ur bday I did answered her mumu! |
| Re: a by UyiIredia(m): 4:03pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
@ crb20: The little I know is that you'll get all the info you need from the Nigerian consulate in the UK. It so happens I've never travelled outside this country so I know little. That said, you'll have to have a high BS meter to culturally acclimatize in the event you move here, that's not to say there aren't positives here but, culture shock is a something well-known. As for jobs, you might want to work with international NGO's here unless you have other plans. |
| Re: a by zeb04(f): 8:44pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
Som married peeps smh |
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