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| Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 3:48am On Apr 12, 2013 |
I am a 51 year old white Canadian woman who has met on line my Nigerian mate! He is 28 and we have been talking for a year now and I just returned from a wonderful month long stay with him and have met his family and friends and coworkers! I love him more than life and he me and now we will continue our relationship until the time comes that we get married there! I have read all the Internet warnings on this and yes I know he is younger than me! So guys and gals come on and give me the hard truth! Love to hear what you think I should do! I do love him and he me and of course he has all to gain more than me in reality but still would like to hear especially from his Yoruba ppl! |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by obo389(m): 4:05am On Apr 12, 2013 |
 Its a hard one though cos i doubt if its gona work out btw both of you as a result of d age differences & his tribe. G/luck to u. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by razznaija(f): 4:16am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable? |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by SimplYeahmee(m): 4:32am On Apr 12, 2013 |
[quote author=obo389] Its a hard one though cos i doubt if its gona work out btw both of you as a result of d age differences & his tribe. G/luck to u.[/quot |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Nobody: 4:33am On Apr 12, 2013 |
^ of course he is not,why would a 28 years old marry a woman who is her mother‘s age?  |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by SimplYeahmee(m): 4:37am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mommabear: I am a 51 year old white Canadian woman who has met on line my Nigerian mate! He is 28 and we have been talking for a year now and I just returned from a wonderful month long stay with him and have met his family and friends and coworkers! I love him more than life and he me and now we will continue our relationship until the time comes that we get married there! I have read all the Internet warnings on this and yes I know he is younger than me! So guys and gals come on and give me the hard truth! Love to hear what you think I should do! I do love him and he me and of course he has all to gain more than me in reality but still would like to hear especially from his Yoruba ppl! Problem1 Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ are 50 sumthing nd he's 28. He may be using Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ to get a canadian visa. There's no way, a full blooded 28yr old man will say he prefer a 50yr old vagina to a 18 to 30yr old vagina. Consider ur options, if Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ both lyk each other go ahead bt jst don't complain if he brings in a younger woman into ur home. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Dumte(m): 4:46am On Apr 12, 2013 |
just make sure you both love each other. Tribal and age differences isn't the matter but love is what we are after. If you like let their age difference be 100 to 5. Love is what we are after |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by butta(m): 5:07am On Apr 12, 2013 |
If you really love him why not but why should a man in his right senses get married to his mothers age mate that can no longer bear him kids ? I think he is just interested in getting the canadian visa and don't be surprised when you get dumped for a younger lady after getting what he wants from you. anyway goodluck and godspeed in your marriage. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by CharlesShaw(m): 12:53pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Count ursef Lucky. Am sure u'll enjoy the Cute Dude. U hav evrytin 2 gain than wat the guy has 2 gain. What is papers? Can it be compared to where the guy wil use his mouth instead of his penis? In Canada dat u r am sure no man takes a 2nd look @ u. Grab This opportunity with both hands. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:06pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Am I the only one that thinks this is a BIG FAT LIE  1 Like |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Creamish(f): 1:26pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
hmmm . . True story = Bad Idea, Fake story = Carry on! |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Scarpon(m): 1:38pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
51-28=23 do u see what I saw? 1 Like |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by SAFO(m): 1:48pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Am I the only one that thinks this is a BIG FAT LIE Nope |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by causewahala: 2:43pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
@ that age u still need cyber entities to tell u what to do? Considerable no. of the peeps u're seeking opinion from ain' even in a relationship. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by vizboy(m): 2:52pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
 damn wtf well wish u guys a happy married life if this is true luv |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:16pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable? razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable? razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable? razznaija: Hmmm Like the other poster said, this will not work out. My question is.... is he financially stable? Dumte: just make sure you both love each other. He works at an insurance company but like most jobs there the money is not great! |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:19pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Scarpon: 51-28=23 Well we love each other and his friends and family and coworkers were very welcoming to me so they all must be very good at playing games! And yes I know this is probably not normally accepted |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:25pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
@mommabear you repeated twice that you are sure you love EACH OTHER you seem to be convinced on the one hand that he loves you but there is a voice of doubt on the other hand how do you expect people here to help you? some will say, marry him, others, he needs papers and is using you or something like that. you'll be confused at the end. my advice: listen to yourself! I think one should be at least 99 % sure before entering a marriage. maybe, you need some more time. how long have you been together? ask yourself. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Charles Shaw: Count ursef Lucky.  |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by kambo(m): 6:31pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
take ur heart to d gym cuz a heart break is coming to test it.. Of course his relations know ur d ticket to his breakthru i mean visa. Shine ur eye they say |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:33pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Wow....I know it might be tough to hear it but...please look out for gentlemen in your area to have a close, meaningful relationship with. Something more "real" that makes sense to the entirety of your being. Spirit, soul and body. What you have going on here is a fantasy. There are people who specialize in using people with fantasies to achieve realistic ends e.g getting a Canadian PR and getting on with his life without you. It is also going to be a tough sell to Canadian immigration because they see this everyday. You wouldn't be the first. His family, coworkers, friends, etc could easily show support because having a friend or brother in Canada would benefit them too. Such is the reality of the world madam. I know it's hard, but I implore you not to let the loneliness get you naive. I know when operating on this frequency it is hard to remember the consequences, like what you stand to lose after the seemingly expected divorce. I don't know what you have, but it is possible that he will be having a cut of it after it happens. If none of these matter to you and you just want to experience the ride, then all the best. (I guess it's fun in it's own way  )Keep it real. Peace. 4 Likes |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by overdrive(m): 6:35pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Marry him u hv every right to b happy. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:41pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
SimplYeahmee:Well thanks for the honesty but my body is fine not the issue but the fact that as a Nigerian man you know the game there and I guess I got my answer love or not aim gonna get burned |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:43pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
overdrive: Marry him u hv every right to b happy.Thanks so much I love him to death and right now I believe we are happy and the month I spent there and what we shared could not have been staged. If that was the case then Nollywood has a new actor! |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:43pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mommabear: If you're 50, and your body is fine (enough to attract a 28 yr old man)...what's stopping you from getting on with someone local? |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:45pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
2buff: Wow....I know it might be tough to hear it but...please look out for gentlemen in your area to have a close, meaningful relationship with. Something more "real" that makes sense to the entirety of your being. Spirit, soul and body. |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:46pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
[quote author=Mommabear][/quote] Thank you well said and very good advice! |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:52pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
2buff:You are right there is nothing at all but I work with many African nationals who are totally cool and I met him and things transpired to where they are today! My month in Nigeria was amazing! I saw first hand the hardships and the corruption of the gov't. I wanted a real view of life there not the glitz of the city! But realistically I guess I am setting the stage for emotional destruction! I always asked him why a handsome man did not find a beautiful Nigerian woman , as there are many! He said they want man with money so I guess to get that woman takes hooking up with someone like me , get what he wants then move on! But being in Nigeria was amazing I unlike others here enjoyed being there |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 6:57pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
kambo: take ur heart to d gym cuz a heart break is coming to test it.. Of course his relations know ur d ticket to his breakthru i mean visa. Shine ur eye they sayI hear this! Thanks |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 7:02pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
carefreewannabe:Having a relationship here is not an issue nor is my body or sex! The relationship was not based on sex! I have no problem with men here I chose him! I don't go from man to man was in a 32 yr marriage! He is the second man in my life |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Mommabear: 7:05pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Dumte: just make sure you both love each other.We do love each other |
| Re: Do I Or Don't I Marry My Nigerian Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mommabear: I never said that. I just wanted to show that I don't take the statement I commented on seriously. I was talking to you when I posted my first comment, You have only replied to my reaction to another poster's reply. |
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