Hello all

i have been wondering this question over and over again in my mind. Please can someone answer this question for me; "What do women value most in men?" and vice versa.

thanks

women value men's fat pockets

What I value the most in a man is goodness. Someone who has integrity and does the right thing, even when it is inconvenient or when nobody is watching.

Him being a man.

We have 1000s of threads like this. One thing is for sure, we don't value ignorance in men. Bushmen can be very annoying, The awaken that homicidal instinct in me!

michelin89

how do you classify men as "bush men"? Is it because they are living in bushy areas and not urban areas?

thanks

The illiterates! Damn, they irritate me so much!

yes i agree with you. Illiteracy is a disease that must be avoided at all cost.

thanks for the clarification.

When kasala happens in public, all hell can be let loose
The worst thing one can ask for is a partner that releases bullets without even knowing

you want to murder people who weren't given the chance to learn to read and write?

What about volunteering to teach them instead?

amber_ella:

you want to murder people who weren't given the chance to learn to read and write?

What about volunteering to teach them instead?

We are talking about men not kids!

ROTFLMGBO @MICHELIN

michelin89:

We are talking about men not kids!

Same difference

jennykadry:

ROTFLMGBO @MICHELIN

This woman eh. na so you like laugh reach that? take am slow ooo!

Uche2nna:

Same difference

Why this anti-thesis? Are we competing for the best figure of speech?

I still maintain that illiterates must be avoided. Illiteracy of our former rulers is one of the major causes of the present Nigerian crisis.

I believe illiterates should not be taken to where they will not fit in. As michelin89 said it would be improper for an educated lady to date an illiterate.

Honesty; I don't need a man's money, all I need is for him to be at least truthful but damn, dem creatures called men can lie.

RedHotChic:

Honesty; I don't need a man's money, all I need is for him to be at least truthful but damn, them creatures called men can lie.

They lie when they think you can't handle the truth or when you lie yourself. One thing I always told my exes was: "Tell me. Na stay or na part ways!"

@poster,

most women value sexual satisfaction. while the oju kokoro's only care to know how much he has got in his bank account.

They lie when they think you can't handle the truth or when you lie yourself. One thing I always told my exes was: "Tell me. Na stay or na part ways!"

exes ke?michelintyre na so u dey break their hearts anyhow ,dis wan wey be say them be exes

iseobio:

I still maintain that illiterates must be avoided. Illiteracy of our former rulers is one of the major causes of the present Nigerian crisis.

I believe illiterates should not be taken to where they will not fit in. As michelin89 said it would be improper for an educated lady to date an illiterate.

Not true. The cause is greed.

RedHotChic:

Honesty; I don't need a man's money, all I need is for him to be at least truthful but damn, them creatures called men can lie.

Women give out the impression they like to be lied to all the time

I can understand wanting to date someone with a similar level of education but why despise someone who hasn't had the same opportunities as you?  Maybe his father died when he was young and he had to leave school to help take care of his siblings?  Is that not noble?

studio43:

@poster,

most women value sexual satisfaction. while the oju kokoro's only care to know how much he has got in his bank account.

Romance and sex are two different things. Women want emotional satisfaction first of all.

jennykadry:

exes ke?michelintyre na so u dey break their hearts anyhow ,this wan wey be say them be exes

My sister me sef don suffer the "wen". My heart is still recovering because even if na me do the breaking up, I still lost someone I spent some time of my life with!

michelin89:

We have 1000s of threads like this. One thing is for sure, we don't value ignorance in men. Bushmen can be very annoying, The awaken that homicidal instinct in me!

I have only met one self procaimed bush man from Libera and he anoyed the hell out of me, how you gonna just meet me and see a blunt in the ashtray, not lit but put out and ask if you can have some.  Shit he was not even my fucking company, he was there to see my cousin.  He kept talking and being ignorant and is a gay but does not want to come out the closet.  i wanted to tell the dude hey dude the closet door is open i see you standing there just come on out, stop hiding behind the clothes.  But I did not it would have made my cousin upset with me,
Alas I get off my soap box

What were we talking about again.

sistawoman:

I have only met one self procaimed bush man from Libera and he anoyed the hell out of me, how you going to just meet me and see a blunt in the ashtray, not lit but put out and ask if you can have some. Shit he was not even my fucking company, he was there to see my cousin. He kept talking .

uche2nna ur own na to dey shine teeth for every thread

RedHotChic:

Honesty; I don't need a man's money, all I need is for him to be at least truthful but damn, them creatures called men can lie.

It is unethical to say most men lie. Men lying is because women force tham to lie. most women dont want to hear that a particular thing will not be possible. They always want positive answers otherwise they will see their man as a failure and will dump them thus increasing their number of exes.

jennykadry:

uche2nna your own na to dey shine teeth for every thread

How does that change the color of ur pants

It is unethical to say that women force men to lie.

Take responsibility for your own actions.

@uche2nna

i dont answer such questions,cos there r dumb

jennykadry:

@uche2nna

i don't answer such questions,because there r dumb

Ok ooo

iseobio:

It is unethical to say most men lie. Men lying is because women force tham to lie. most women don't want to hear that a particular thing will not be possible. They always want positive answers otherwise they will see their man as a failure and will dump them thus increasing their number of exes.

When has a man started worrying about not increasing the number of a woman's exes?