Hey people, am just curious to know why ladies, after wooing them, tell their suitors to hold on, as they are still thinking about it. This is very annoying! What are they thinking? I believe a lady already knows whether she likes a guy or not in that moment a guy approaches her. Why is it taking them so long to say "YES" or "NO"? I had similar experience with my ex. After wooing her, she kept me hanging for a while that I got so annoyed that I had to pretend i didn't give a damn about her reply. She noticed this and later called me she that had accepted my overture. Likewise, the girl am trying to get now is saying the same thing --- thinking. Hope our ladies in the house will do justice to this.

Itz means playin hard 2 get or tryin knw d guy beta..guys pretends a lot u knw..and gurls do dis 2 test d guys patience.

Baybe:

Your rant box awaits you.

If she says yes immediately, you'll call her a wh.ore. She's being careful & you're now complaining. Dude, from a fellow dude, try to be a bit less selfish.

Harbosede02: Itz means playin hard 2 get or tryin knw d guy beta..guys pretends a lot u knw..and gurls do dis 2 test d guys patience.

. Alright madam, but seriously it's annoying having to wait for a longer time. Not all guys have such patience, even those with good intentions.. Anyway, it's not bad if the sole purpose is to get to know the guy well, but if it is to play hard to get, hmmm the guy may assume she is not into him and go for the next fish waiting to be caught. So, ladies should try to be reasonable, not making guys to wait for eternity before saying yes

^^^ If he goes for the next fish just because she asked for a little time then it shows he was never serious to start with. Personally I usually ask for time just to test d guy's seriously. If he looses interest then to hell with him.