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How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Nobody: 12:08pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Dear nairalanders, I have been having this problem for over a year now, after a guy told me that i am ugly and ill-endowed. Since then i have been feeling inferior, especially when am with my friends who are beautiful. When a guy tells me i am beautiful i always feel that he is mocking me. Please help me overcome this for it has turned me into an introvert. |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Dyt(f): 12:19pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
U hav jst taken d first step 13 Likes |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Monicasque(f): 12:22pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
go shopin for nice clothes. do your hair, nails and eye lashes. put make up that suits u. go to gym and eat right u will have so much confidence n feel so inlove with yourself that u will forget u ever felt ugly. 10 Likes |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by eldav(m): 12:37pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Having such a feeling isnt a first in life history. That one guy told you that you arent pretty doesnt mean he is right. That you heard something different from what you usually hear from guys,which is that you are beautiful,doesnt mean you should believe that. I want you to just have the mindset that you are a stunning girl,and that's the simple truth. U have no other choice than to believe that truth. So when next you are with your 'beautiful' friends,know you are in the same league with them or even higher. By the way,lovely profile pix. 14 Likes |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by passionate88: 12:58pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Looking at your profile pic, you are preety. I dnt think you should think of it that much.. And you are chocolatey too.. Girl u rock. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Nobody: 12:59pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
If that's you in your DP, you're beautiful. You have to believe it yourself. You have the power to accept or discount what people say to you. Don't ever let anyone bring you down . Monicasque suggested some things you can do to boost your self-confidence and feel good about yourself. Sometimes when people're mean like that, they themselves don't feel good on the inside. You don't have to let their words get to you. Cheer up, girl. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Dyt(f): 12:59pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
passionate88: Looking at your profile pic, you are preety, though you are kinda flat chested (maybe it's my eyes). I dnt think you should think of it that much.. And you are chocolatey too.. Girl u rock. Do I know u? |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by passionate88: 2:14pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Dyt:Yes ma, I know say u dn forget me for nairaland |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Nobody: 2:27pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Quite unfortunate that you decided to take his words and let them define you. Ever heard the term "Haters"?. They are those who envy you and wish they were you. He probably wished he had a girl like you because he couldn't have his way with you. You are endowed and shouldn't let the words of a guy define your life. You are beautiful and you know it. By the way, since when do you start caring what people think of you? You can't please the world, have that at the back of your mind. Some will hate you for who you are, mostly because they can never be you, others will love you, it's who you are that counts not what a jerk thinks. He's a jerk and you'll only stoop to his level if you begin to ruminate on his words. PS You have a lovely pic by the way. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Dyt(f): 2:28pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
passionate88: Yes ma, I know say u dn forget me for nairaland Na Never How u been? Hugs him |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Dannyxy(m): 2:35pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Do not allow what others "say" or "do not say" define you as a person,the truth is pple will alwayz talk you,bt do nt allow what they say make you think less of yourself...you are beautifully nd wonderfully made,o.k.... |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by wasak(m): 2:43pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
if u are d 1 on ur profile... pls register for next Miss Nigeria... I swear u fyn die... haba damsel.... y u create ds topic? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Ajibel(m): 2:47pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Pls modify d title of d thread. What is "One can one..." |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by emiye(m): 2:47pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
See long neck !!!! Are you related by blood to Agbani Darego? |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by pazienza(m): 2:48pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
passionate88: Looking at your profile pic, you are preety. I dnt think you should think of it that much.. And you are chocolatey too.. Girl u rock. Yea, i was thinking the same as you. |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Primuskay: Dear nairalanders, Its simple stop being self-conscious. Nothing else, stop thinking people are paying attention to you in a certain way, because seriously they are not. Just live ur life, walk in the moment. I always say Low self-esteem is worse than AIDS. It can practically destroy anybody. Low self-esteem is self-degradation caused by being too self-conscious for some time, self-consciousness as a result of a perceived bad feature in one's body. There's nothing wrong with you my dear, its all in your head. When you are walking, you think you are not walking the right way. I'm not a psychologist or some shrink, but I would advice you mix-up with girls, who are opposite of you i.e girls with "high self-esteem", whom you know are not self-conscious, that doesn't give a fuc.k about what others say about them. Go out with them, if possible live with them, if not spend most of your free time with them. For now, make sure you avoid solitude, when you are alone always find something to do (watch a movie, read, cook, do something) just to take ur mind off urself. Live in the moment, live your life (YOLO). You define yourself, a man shouldn't tell you what or who you are. My dear, when it comes to being abused about one's body, I don't think you have seen anything yet. Low self-esteem is terrible, terrible. That's just my own opinion. In the words of DRAKE "May your neighbours respect you, trouble neglect you, Angels protect you, and heaven accept you". 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by adexsimply(m): 2:49pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
easy..just put on a pair of boxing hand-gloves ..on a less serious note: you are not ugly 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by jude33084(m): 2:49pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Just be yourself and pay no attention to people |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by ebucha: 2:49pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
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Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Rexphobia(m): 2:51pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
I bet he said that when you didn't spread your legs for him. Identify the actual crux of his remark, then you should be good. From your profile picture, you are definitely not ugly. Also learn how to take compliments. Don't search for a guy to validate your inner thoughts, you may just end up being emotional exploited My two kobo |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
forget that muh4ka, he said it in anger, you look good jor |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by lifestyle1(m): 2:52pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
First what do you think about your self ? are you actually the one in your profile ? |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by jude33084(m): 2:52pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Primuskay: Dear nairalanders, the bolded might be true sha |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Nobody: 2:53pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
smh for seun & his omo alata mods. . . One can one ko, two can two ni |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by SamConquer(m): 2:53pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
99.9 percent of Peeps Here will run to check Her Profile Pic,I just did sha...But Girl,you ain't ugly na... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by Nobody: 2:54pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by deeptesting(m): 2:54pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don't need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself..........#stolen 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Fight Inferiority Complex. by jude33084(m): 2:55pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
life_style: First what do you think about your self ? are you actually the one in your profile ? The gul there is pretty |
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