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| 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by entadaplace: 12:34pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
If you’re a guy and you’re reading this, you’re probably one of the nice guys am talking to. After all, why would you read this if it does not affect you personally. This article is for you guys who were brought up in a well cultured environment and taught that women adore guys like you. But look around you today, nice guys always lose out on the hot girls because of the following reasons: 1. Because you’re too nice Have you ever come across a woman who turned down a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting? Probably not! On the other hand, you’re sure to have come across some beautiful lady who has turned down a perfectly nice chap because of the stock reason: “Oh, he’s such a nice guy. He’s really sweet but he’s just too nice for me. Am not saying don’t be nice but let your Mr. Nice be to an extent. 2. Because Girls prefer to keep your type as friends You hear words like “He’s such a good guy — very kind; honest, nice, thoughtful, generous, loyal –but there’s no attraction. He just doesn’t turn me on. That spark is not there.” l like him but l don’t love him. Despite all you have done she still doesn’t feel your chemistry. You see, women like guys that define there mission from day one. Be bold and let your intentions be known. Even if she says no initially, trust me she only said that to buy sometime. If your intentions are not spelt out early and she starts seeing you more as friend than in a relationship you are screwed. 3. Because you are too caring I want you to ask yourself this question: “Why does the guy who doesn’t appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?” You see the nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. You have made yourself too available for her that she doesn’t value your time with her anymore, you are always willing to change your schedule to suit hers. Haba! If you sacrifice more than she does for you then you are screwed. For a relationship to last the guy starts the chasing while the lady sustains it. 4. Because they see you as a FOOL You give too much without getting anything in return. In short, you are a fool. And you brought this upon yourself. After all, if you are already doing so much for her without even being seriously involved with her, why the heck would she need to value you? Giving too much, too soon is a recipe for disaster. 5. Because ladies wanna have mad fun Girls just wanna have fun before marriage. They need to experience what every young adult goes through in a relationship before marriage. Girls would do anything to have a guy that would spoil them, take them on trips, adventures, parties and so on. Read More here |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Monicasque(f): 12:50pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
POSTER i think your thread is aimed at girls who have not experienced life as per your last point and the rest yah. If a woman has already had her fun in life and all the experience , the last thing u need is an arrogant fool. i personally like guys who r humble and nice and i value such people even though most of the time a person would be taken for granted but a real woman knows that a guy like that is for keeps. The points u listed here would maybe be fine for someone who still wants to explore or who meets immature ladies. BLV me honey a lady who has experience would kill for the type of guys u listed here. Men it does not kill to be humble, kind and polite it just means the woman u r with is lucky and if she takes u for granted then she is a fool and she's gona regret it one day when she meets asholes 8 Likes |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by entadaplace: 12:51pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
Monicasque: POSTER i think your thread is aimed at girls who have not experienced life as per your last point and the rest yah. If a woman has already had her fun in life and all the experience , the last thing u need is an arrogant fool. i personally like guys who r humble and nice and i value such people even though most of the time a person would be taken for granted but a real woman knows that a guy like that is for keeps. The points u listed here would maybe be fine for someone who still wants to explore or who meets immature ladies. BLV me honey a lady who has experience would kill for the type of guys u listed here. Men it does not kill to be humble, kind and polite it just means the woman u r with is lucky and if she takes u for granted then she is a fool and she's gona regret it one day when she meets asholes Hot girls not women. |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Monicasque(f): 12:52pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
entadaplace: k. i c. so i gues a girl would be somene less than 23 right coz beyond that i just think one should just grow up really 1 Like |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by entadaplace: 1:07pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
Monicasque: There are gals @40 depends |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Nobody: 1:08pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
I appreciate nice guys. |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Nobody: 1:32pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
Rubbish article written by someone with low self esteem. 2 Likes |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by cahnellven: 3:24pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
am+neither the gud guy nor the wild one,am just d guy ur gf wants |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by yfo: 3:48pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
sexkillz: Rubbish article written by someone with low self esteem. more like targeted at guys that wanna date...its a cliche thing actually.. gals wanna date bad guys n have fun....then settle for the nice guys for marriage. however, a nice guy can modify his behaviour a lil to give him the best of both worlds.. 1 Like |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Nobody: 3:51pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
sexkillz: Rubbish article written by someone with low self esteem.Seconded! |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Codedrock(m): 8:44pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
I HAVE NEVER BEEN A FOOL TO A LADY IN MA LIFE. |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Monicasque(f): 6:41am On Sep 05, 2013 |
entadaplace: oh okay. i c |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by UjSizzle(f): 6:44am On Sep 05, 2013 |
Haven't been able to nail a girl, have ya? |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by djeezy(m): 6:48am On Sep 05, 2013 |
NO 4 is very wrong. |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Kaycee7(m): 7:34am On Sep 05, 2013 |
sexkillz: Rubbish article written by someone with low self esteem. koastar:THIRDED 1 Like |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by philfearon(m): 7:34am On Sep 05, 2013 |
@op,will u marry a hot girl? |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by entadaplace: 7:44am On Sep 05, 2013 |
philfearon: @op,will u marry a hot girl?date, mess around with but marry maybe not! |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by philfearon(m): 8:10am On Sep 05, 2013 |
entadaplace: date, mess around with but marry maybe not!Then stop interfering with the course of nature na...Hot girls are alwaz only for the flirting...Whats the big deal if a good guy looses it out on her? |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by rapcy(m): 11:21am On Sep 05, 2013 |
Op, ur on point joooorr... Dnt mind dem, dey knw d truth... It happened to me and alot of guyz i knw... I mostly fall in friendzone, not until i upgraded my attitude... I am tall, dark, i also had d physique and i can say am handsome. My brother on d other hand, was not that tall, he does not have time for any shit from ladies... Yet dey flock arnd him(beautiful onces, dat I can only imagine in my dreams). When he told me the secret, I could not believe it... I stopped being d mr best, mr nice... Everything chaged... Soo, i believe dat too much of mr nice guy ll definitely cost u mch... 3 Likes |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by entadaplace: 12:14pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
rapcy: Op, ur on point joooorr... Dnt mind dem, dey knw d truth... It happened to me and alot of guyz i knw... I mostly fall in friendzone, not until i upgraded my attitude... I am tall, dark, i also had d physique and i can say am handsome. My brother on d other hand, was not that tall, he does not have time for any shit from ladies... Yet dey flock arnd him(beautiful onces, dat I can only imagine in my dreams). When he told me the secret, I could not believe it... I stopped being d mr best, mr nice... Everything chaged... Soo, i believe dat too much of mr nice guy ll definitely cost u mch... Osheeeeeee |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by philfearon(m): 1:40pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
rapcy: Op, ur on point joooorr... Dnt mind dem, dey knw d truth... It happened to me and alot of guyz i knw... I mostly fall in friendzone, not until i upgraded my attitude... I am tall, dark, i also had d physique and i can say am handsome. My brother on d other hand, was not that tall, he does not have time for any shit from ladies... Yet dey flock arnd him(beautiful onces, dat I can only imagine in my dreams). When he told me the secret, I could not believe it... I stopped being d mr best, mr nice... Everything chaged... Soo, i believe dat too much of mr nice guy ll definitely cost u mch...For your mind shaa.....Thats what u categoricaly insinuated.. |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by tobechi20(m): 2:06pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
sexkillz: Rubbish article written by someone with low self esteem. caalm down why are you acting like the article is targetted at you.?are u nice? 1 Like |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Nobody: 5:35pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Never get worried about the arrogant, the proud, the rogue, the player, the tough, the dishonest, and the greedy; we have always known them. What more harm could they do? The ones you should keep your eyes on are the gentle, the pleasant, the good, the nice and the cool. The level of fraud lay their in might be overwhelming if not careful with the gentle. Every gentle man is a rogue yet to be caught. |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by YankeeJoe(m): 5:42pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
gals wanna date bad guys n have fun....then settle for the nice guys for marriage. And finally hands over the worn-out engine(s) 2 the nice guys in marriage? Women oooooo |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by YankeeJoe(m): 5:47pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Dude, ur post is absolute true! Thumbs up man  |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by YankeeJoe(m): 5:47pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
Dude, ur post is absolutely true! Thumbs up man |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Valentinooo: 9:01am On Sep 07, 2013 |
@Op. Don't mind those criticizing your thread. A lady has once told me that most girls want me as friend because i'm too nice and honest for their liking. She told me to stop being too nice and i immediately put it to practice, and behold it works. The problem wit these ladies is that at their early 20s they don't wanna date any nice guy, they see them as friend material rather than a date. After sometime, the hot/bad guys they've been dieing for will leave them for other younger chicks. When they now clock their late 20s and feel age is no longer on their side, that is when they start looking for mr nice to marry. Don't mind those girls insulting you there, they all practiced this in their early 20s. So guys don't be too nice and you will get them as date but if you are too nice you get them as friend. 1 Like |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by ximarro(m): 10:47am On Sep 07, 2013 |
Kaycee7: THIRDEDFOURTHED 1 Like |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by rapcy(m): 10:04pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
philfearon:lolz... Na unto bahd guy tinz... Lol |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Abelsconcept(m): 12:14am On Oct 18, 2013 |
@ op, na wa oo!!! Anyway nice post. I'd actually taste both sides of the cake, perhaps speaking from experience. Fortunately, being a nice guy is the best I can ever be, though it come with prise at times. However, like we all know that excess of anything is harmful hence moderation is the keyword. But being a nice guy (for me) is actually irreplaceable. |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by Abbey2sam(m): 10:50am On Oct 18, 2013 |
rapcy: Op, ur on point joooorr... Dnt mind dem, dey knw d truth... It happened to me and alot of guyz i knw... I mostly fall in friendzone, not until i upgraded my attitude... I am tall, dark, i also had d physique and i can say am handsome. My brother on d other hand, was not that tall, he does not have time for any shit from ladies... Yet dey flock arnd him(beautiful onces, dat I can only imagine in my dreams). When he told me the secret, I could not believe it... I stopped being d mr best, mr nice... Everything chaged... Soo, i believe dat too much of mr nice guy ll definitely cost u mch... Share the secret young man |
| Re: 6 Reasons Nice Guys Lose Out On The Hot Girls by simdam500(m): 12:36pm On Oct 18, 2013 |
#teamniceguyturnbad |
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